How can we Glorify God with our Spiritual Gifts?

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Good morning church! We had a wonderful retreat on Friday as we covered the topic of “Serving each other with spiritual gifts”. We did a small exercise at the end of the retreat where we shared what our gifts were and in fact other people confirmed what those giftings were. It was such a beautiful picture of the variety of expressions of the Spirit’s work in our church. Now as humans we are prone to take pride in anything that we think we are good at or gifted in. So I think it would be ideal and most appropriate to follow up with the question: Now that I know what spiritual gifts are and identified those gifts, in what manner am I supposed to use them? How can I glorify God using my spiritual gifts? Are there ways by which I can use my gifts and still not glorify God?

As we are turning to 1 Corinthians 13, let me provide a little bit of a context to help us understand the passage. As we read through 1 Corinthians 12, what we realize is that there was a division among the Corinthians over spiritual gifts. Some believers considered gifts like tongues to be more valuable and superior to other gifts. Members of the church who didn’t have those gifts felt left out and less honored. Moreover, people were taking pride in their individual spiritual gifts rather than seeing how it can be used to bless and benefit the others in the church. It’s a response to that when Paul writes 1 Cor 13.

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,[a] but have not love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[b] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

As you may have figured: Love is the way and manner by which we can use our gifts to glorify God. This morning I want to remind us of three truths about biblical love as we look to use our gifts to serve each other:

1. The necessity of Love
2. The meaning of Love
3. The permanence of Love

1. The necessity of Love

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,[a] but have not love, I gain nothing. (v1-3)

It doesn’t get more direct and impactful than that! Paul says that if we have the gift of tongues without love then we are merely noisy instruments. He goes on further to say that if we have great prophetic powers minus love, we are nothing. If we understand all the mysteries and have all knowledge but no love then we are nothing. Not just that, he says that if we give everything that we have away – total sacrifice and even deliver our body to be burned up but have no love, we gain nothing! Such a huge sacrifice has zero effect and rendered useless if it is done without love.

What I think he’s emphasizing on is that love is the key to using your spiritual gifts. That’s why in 1 Corinthians 14, he urges the church to only allow speaking in tongues if there’s an interpreter. Why? Because that’s how the church can be loving toward each other when everyone understands what is being spoken. Remember the goal is to not glorify yourself using your gifts, the goal is to build up each other.

I still remember when I was a young believer in my previous church. I was given the responsibility to play the keyboard during the services. By God’s grace I was a capable keyboard player and would practice a lot even during the week. When we used to have the Lord’s Supper, I would think that this is my moment to shine. All those keyboard solos I practiced during the week would be performed for the whole church to hear. So much so that once someone commented that he felt like he was at the disco during the Lord’s Supper.

At that point of time I thought it was really cool getting all the attention. However, if I have to compare it with 1 Cor 13, was I really being loving? No, because in the attempt to catch people’s attention I missed the whole point of accompanying the songs with music so that people’s attention could be on God, on the gospel and the significant symbol of the Lord’s Supper.

The other thing I want to mention here is that your gifts don’t determine our spirituality, your love does! Let me repeat that again: Your gifts don’t determine how spiritual you are, your love reveals how spiritual you truly are! And that’s a big learning for the church. So many enthusiastic and gifted leaders have messed up themselves and also affected their churches by relying on their gifts rather than loving people. Some of them were very gifted preachers and worship leaders.

Very renowned people who have spoken at conferences and written many books. But because they emphasized and relied on their spiritual gifts for their spirituality, it crumbled and they lost their way. They were so excited to display themselves before people, that they forgot how they were called to use their gifts to lovingly serve and build people. You might have multiple gifts or a single gifts…it doesn’t matter! Are you loving people through those gifts? That’s what matters.

2. The meaning of Love

4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[b] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

This is probably the most famous wedding card verse. Frequently used passage for pre-marital counseling and during wedding sermons. However, when we look at the context: there was division in the church. So for them, it wasn’t just a sweet, cute message. It was something they had to do to do, they had to forgive, they had to love. And even in close relationships, be it husband-wife, parents-children, close friends, church family you’ll find that there will always be issues.

Why? Because as we live closely with each other we realize each other’s sin much more clearly and we see each other’s weird habits closely. Sometimes it’s not sin specifically that causes issues but weird habits. You like doing things one way, the other person doesn’t and things get difficult in that relationship. To deal with that, we need a healthy reminder of what biblical love looks like.

Negatives: What love is not:-

• Envy: Being jealous of what the other person has, either his lifestyle, or giftings or anything else.
• Boast: Spending time talking about what you have or what you’ve done or what you’re going to do.
• Arrogant: Being puffed up and prideful about what you know. You’re not pulling people down because you think they don’t have or don’t know as much as you. Not having the humility to accept that you could be wrong.
• Rude: Being offensively impolite or bad mannered in your conduct toward your brothers and sisters.
• Insist on its own way: Be demanding to have your way.
• Irritable: Easily annoyed and provoked.
• Resentful: Keeping count of everything that a person has done and become bitter about it.
• Rejoices in wrongdoing: Taking pleasure in unrighteousness either in your life or witnessing and enjoying the sins in others.

What love is:

• Patient and kind: Be patient while bearing the offences of others. Someone may have done something really hurtful toward you but you are going to be very slow in judging or punishing the person and mild in your response.
• Rejoices in the truth: You would rejoice in everything that is righteous, holy, pure, encouraging and points people toward God! Rejoicing in the Word of God.
• Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things: A persevering relationship that is secure from threats and one that always believes the best about the person. Free from suspicion and insecurity.

What these few verses tell me is that love is not a feeling or an emotion. But it’s the willing surrendering of your rights for the good of the other person. And that’s why apart from God’s grace we cannot and are absolutely incapable of producing this kind of love. Brothers and sisters, this was the same love that God showed to us in His Son Jesus Christ. It was a pure, humble and glorious love. Even though we deserved God’s wrath, Jesus Christ humbly took on the form of man, lived the perfect live and died as a perfect sacrifice to pay for our sins. You know if we honestly looked at v4-6, we would conclude that we are sinners who haven’t displayed true love toward God. Because we are envious, we are impatient, we are rude, we are arrogant, we are boastful, we’ve been irritated and so many other sins.

Only a perfect sacrifice had the power to remove and cleanse us completely. Jesus Christ died, was buried and rose again on third day to give us what we didn’t deserve: His righteous life. It’s like we were prisoners wearing prison clothes who were going to be executed and at the last moment a good man wearing a nice suit asked us to exchange our clothes for his. We made the exchange and walked out free but the good man paid the price wearing our prison clothes. Can we ever comprehend the extent of this love? Jesus Christ showed us what love is by willingly surrendering his rights for our good and the glory of God. We need to now imitate that Love by bending it outwards in our marriages, in our families, in our church, at work.

3. The permanence of Love

8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

In this last paragraph, Paul says how prophecies, tongues, knowledge and all these other spiritual gifts will pass away but not love. All of these gifts are given to us to prepare us for the coming of the Lord. When we see Jesus face to face, we will not require spiritual gifts anymore. I love the way Paul puts it. He says “we will know fully, even as we are known fully”. In other words, God knows us totally from the inside out. Even we probably don’t understand ourselves that well but God does. Just imagine the privilege to know God fully in the same way! That is so amazing!

So spiritual gifts will cease when Christ comes again but love will still continue. Love never ends. Love never fails. Love will never stop being effective. What I always found confusing was v13. Never understood why Paul mentions faith and hope as well and then says love is the greatest.

Colossians 1:4,5: since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love that you have for all the saints, 5 because of the hope laid up for you in heaven.

What we see here is faith is our reliance upon Christ for salvation, love is what we share among the believers, and hope is what we have for our eternal inheritance. Out of these faith and hope can seem to be more individual things, but love for the saints involves loving, caring and building up others. And maybe that’s why Paul says it’s the greatest out of three things because it is benefiting the other person as well. We know that within the God-head, the three members – Father, Son and Holy Spirit enjoyed a loving relationship. They love and serve and enjoy each other in community. As God’s redeemed people, we can now join and participate in that loving community.

It’s something that we are going to spend the rest of our lives in eternity doing: loving each other well! It’s almost like Paul is saying: don’t get caught up in what gift you have or don’t have. These spiritual gifts aren’t going to be there in eternity. Focus on what will remain in eternity and that is going to be “Love”. As we start using more and more of our gifts within the church, let me challenge us to talk more about how can we love each other better. Let the conversations be more about how can we willingly surrender our rights for the good of the other person.