Month: June 2025

Good morning Church, welcome to another Sunday by the grace of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

How are you? Good to see you have weathered another Mumbai Rain on a Sunday to be here.

A lot has happened this week for us as a country. I am sure all of you are aware of the tragedy caused when Air India flight AI171 crashed onto the BJM Medical College and the civil hospital. Not just that, there have been a few accidents with the Mumbai local trains as well. It is hard to hear and see untimely deaths; there is no possible way we can reason and explain why God permits these incidents to happen. Let us pray that our God of comfort reveals himself to comfort those families who have lost their loved ones.

We’ve been doing a series as church from the book of Job called God’s blessing in suffering.

But today, we will be taking a break from the book of Job, and we will be doing a stand-alone sermon from Luke 15:11-32, which is the parable of the prodigal son, or how I’d like to call it, the parable of the loving Father.

Why are we doing this right now? because today is Father’s Day, and this is a parable narrated by Jesus which displays the heart of a father.

So to all the Fathers in our church, we wish you a very happy Father’s Day,

I am paraphrasing, Disciplines of a Godly Man, on what Kent Hughes says about Fathers,

Men, as fathers, you have such power! You will have this terrible power where your children are unequivocally drawn to you, they long for you, it is true with both boys and girls, and you will continue to have this power where you have the affections and attention of your children, until you die,

whether you like it or not, and there is a high calling as fathers because you imprint in your children – and your attitude towards, authority, your attitude towards women, your regard for God and the Church, you have the power to imprint your children and grace them for life, These are terrifying responsibilities, and I pray and hope you get to learn and be shaped in these as you know God – The Father more intimately.

So once again, wishing you a happy father’s day, you mean a lot to each of your families, and even as you are present and participate in our church and the other Rhythms of our church like GCs & DNA, I am sure, what you model and display means a lot to other younger parents or like me future to-be parents.

The Parable of the Prodigal Son

11 And he said, “There was a man who had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. 13 Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. 14 And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to[a] one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. 16 And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.

17 “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ 20 And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’[b] 22 But the father said to his servants,[c] ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. 23 And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. 24 For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.

25 “Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ 28 But he was angry and refused to go in. His father came out and entreated him, 29 but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’ 31 And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

So, now Let’s get to the passage for today, and start with the context of this passage, In the Gospel account of Luke, Jesus after appointing his 12 deciples, He starts his journey towards Jerusalem, and in this long Journey, he displays his public ministry and mission to the people around him, this is accompanied by amazing miracles and parables,

And as He journeyed, all of Jesus’s miracles and parables drew a lot of attention from the Jews, tax collectors, Pharisees, and the scribes. If you read the first 2 verses at the beginning of Luke 15: 1-2, you get to see the latest interaction

15 Now the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to hear him. 2 And the Pharisees and the scribes grumbled, saying, “This man receives sinners and eats with them.”

So as jesus revealed himself to his disciples and started showcasing who he is to publically to the people, the Pharisees were constantly trying to provoke him to say something wrong, to get him and persecute him, because when Jesus was healing the sick and teaching the people in parables they were not finding anything that could allow them to persecute Jesus for saying somethign in conlfict with scripture or the Roman empire.

But here, uniquely and astonishingly, you see the Pharisees are condemning Jesus because he received sinners. Who are these sinners that Jesus received? The outcasts of that time: Tax Collectors, Prostitutes, Lepers. This interaction is unique because Jesus shares 3 parables and through them responds to the Pharisees. He doesn’t rebuke them; he dialogues with them.

So the rest of the passage, Jesus talks about 3 parables, which are a response to the accusations laid down by the Pharisees and the scribes, and to also address the hardness and indifference of their hearts towards the sinners and the outcast.

In the first parable, The Lost Sheep, we learn that the shepherd went after 1 out of 100. In the parable of The Lost Coin, we learn that the woman sought 1 out of 10. In the parable of The Lost Son, we see the father looking for 1 out of 2. A core theme in all the parables is that every single lost sheet, lost coin, and lost son is important.

And Jesus, as he shares the parable of the Prodigal son, it’s his longest parable in the gospels, and in some studies it also shows that this is the most well-known as well, possibly because of such relatable themes of the relationship between a son and his father.

Let us now explore the different Themes in the passage as we work through the passage verse by verse, in the v11-12

11 And he said, “There was a man who had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. 

So here is a man who had 2 sons, and the younger of the sons asked his father to give him the share of property that was going to come to him, and the father divided the property and shared it with the son. The elder son usually would get 2/3rd and the younger son would get 1/3.

During those days, it’s not common to ask for inheritance upfront, a father could either grant the inheritance before or after his death, but it was usually done after, but The younger son asked for a special exception, He wanted his share while his father was still alive,

from the father’s perspective, it is an act calling for separation from him, it implied that he wished his father dead. Even though the father knew that the son asked for his inheritance out of his selfishness and foolish desires, yet, the father divided his portion and gave it to his son.

v13-16

13 Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. 14 And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to[a] one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. 16 And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.

As we see from verses 13-16, Now that the son had gotten what he asked for, He collected all that he had, and Left, He probably went to a far of country to live independently, without the restraints and rules of living in his Father’s home, He went to a far away lands which is to say, He gave into his desires and tendencies, and pursued it into a land far off from his home, where he wasted his fortune in the indulgences of his sin, he wasted it on Harlots and lived a life devoid of the religious practices he ought to live as a Jew. Basically he lives his life away from his Jewish community into a Gentile land.

He squandered it all, recklessly, and he lost all that his father had given to him.

Not only did He display utter disregard for his father by asking him for his inheritance, he failed to steward his inheritance, and he misused his property recklessly, in luxury and in sin, and when there was a famine in the land, he began to be in need.

It’s not that the famine occurred because he spent all his money, but he was affected by the famine that came into the land. For us, it would be the equivalent of a recession, where there is a high risk of losing jobs and livelihoods, and if you do lose it, then it helps if you have stewarded your money to help you in times of need. So since the younger son exhausted his money, during the famine, he began to be in need.

You can imagine how much he fell off from the life he enjoyed, that He accepted a job from the citizens of the country, who possibly is a Gentile, and the job he got was to feed the pigs. He accepted this job !! For any righteous Jew, this would be unacceptable, offensive, and outright undoable, but driven by the need and hunger, he accepted to do this Job,

The word used to describe this verse is the same that is used to describe Husbands cleaving to their wives, in Matt. This is to show the utter desperation that the famine led the younger son to.

Also, the status of the job he accepted to do, to feed pigs, you can imagine the outrage, the shudder to the listeners of this parable, could there be anything that he could do which was more deplorable than this?

And yet, his condition did not get better; he longed for the food of the pigs, he longed to be fed with the pods that were meant for the pigs to be eaten.

so He rebelled against his father, He disobeyed and lived a life of Sin, He is in immense need and has been doing the detestable work of feeding the pigs and he is paid so poorly that while he is in the pig pen, he longs that he would be fed with the Pods of the pigs!!

His state is reflective of the state of a sinner, living in his sin, reaping the consequences of his sin.

v17-20,

17 “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ 20 And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.

Then in v17, He came to himself, it is here where He begins his return to the father, it starts with coming to his senses, and admitting his guilt and sin,

Even though he is still driven by hunger and a want to be fed, in his misery and desperation, he thinks of his Father, he practises what he wants to tell his father, so that he will be accepted back as a servant.

How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’

In his speech, he doesn’t justify his sin; he plainly confesses and repents of his wrongdoing. In his confession, he knows what right he has to go back to his father, so he asks for a place amongst his hired servants.

20 And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’[b] 22 But the father said to his servants,[c] ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. 23 And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. 24 For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.

And as he came to the father, while he was a long way off, the father saw him. He felt compassion and ran. The father waited for his son; he never stopped looking for him. This is amazing. The father is not running to meet a son who is coming back from achieving something that would make his family proud; this father ran for the son who rebelled and lived a reckless life.

If you imagine the father running, he may be wearing a long robe, and as he is running, he is exposing the lower part of his legs. When people witness this crazy father running towards his son, it is culturally inappropriate and shameful. So the father ran, embraced, and kissed his son repeatedly to show his unconditional acceptance of his son.

Here is a Father who kept watch and ran towards his Lost Son

Then, you see in v21, the son said to him, what he had planned in v18,

“Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son.”

The father probably didn’t even hear this, he didn’t let him finish, and even before that the father calls our to his servants and says “bring quickly the best robe & put it on him, and Put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet, And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and Let us eat and celebrate, For this my son was dead, and is alive again, He was lost and is found.”

The Father commands his servants to honor his son—the best robe, the best ring, the best feast!

The best robe for the returned son is a sign of dignity and honor, proof of the prodigal’s acceptance back into the family. The ring for the son’s hand is a sign of authority and sonship. The sandals for his feet are a sign of his not being a servant, as servants did not wear shoes.

The father does not question his son or lecture him; instead, he joyfully forgives him and receives him back into fellowship.

What a picture of God’s love and grace! God’s heart is full of compassion for His children; He stands ready to welcome the returning sinner back home with joyous celebration.

The father kept watch for his wandered son,

Here is a Father who embraced his lost son and restored his identity

The father celebrated in the fellowship of his son, who was dead but now alive, who was lost but now found.

25 “Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ 28 But he was angry and refused to go in. His father came out and entreated him, 29 but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’ 31 And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

Now, his older son, who was working in the field, heard the sound of the celebration and asked a servant what was this all about, When the servant said to him, your brother is back, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he received him back safe and sound, He was angry and did not go in,

He felt like the joyful reception of his younger brother was an insult to his obedience and faithfulness.

The older son’s words and actions reveal several things about him:

1. His relationship with his father was based on work and merit. He points out to his father that he has always been obedient as he’s been “slaving away”; thus, he deserves a party—he has earned it.
2. He despises his younger brother as undeserving of the father’s favor.
3. He does not understand grace and has no room for forgiveness. In fact, the demonstration of grace toward his brother makes him angry. His brother does not deserve a party.
4. He has disowned the prodigal as a brother, referring to him as “this son of yours” (verse 30). 5) He thinks his father is stingy and unfair: “You never gave me even a young goat” (verse 29).

The father’s words are corrective in several ways:

1. His older son should know that their relationship is not based on performance: “My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours” (Luke 15:31).
2. His older son should accept his brother as part of the family. The father refers to the prodigal as “this brother of yours” (verse 32).
3. His older son could have enjoyed a party any time he wanted, but he never utilized the blessings at his disposal.
4. Grace is necessary and appropriate: “We had to celebrate” (verse 32).

The younger son struggled with rebellion, wanting to pursue selfish desires, and the older son struggled with self-righteousness. Both of them longed and desired autonomy and entitlement.

In the story, both sons fall short of what it means to enjoy the company and fellowship of the father. Both of them thought they deserved better than what they had in the companion of the father.

The father went after both sons

The father reminded the sons of their identity

It cost the father to accept them back,

32 It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

Here is a Father who paid the price to restore his sons through shame and by losing his property.

Hello, everyone…. a warm welcome to all of you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, you all can see a slight change in the preaching roster, I will be praying that God’s word really encourages you to see His glory.

So we’ve spent around 2 months now studying the book of Job in a series called “God’s blessing in Suffering”, to be honest, it is not an easy book to ready, when you read it in isolation it makes you weary, but god had a purpose to having this book in the bible, He is sovereign and sees us in our suffering.

Now let’s recap what has happened until now. Here we have Job, a man from the Land of Oz, He had 7 sons and 3 daughters, He had 7000 sheep, 3000 camel, 500 yoke of oxen, 500 female donkeys, he was the greatest in the land of east. a man that was blameless and upright in God’s sight, when scripture says Job was blameless it doesn’t mean that he was without Sin, it means that amongst his peers he was beyond reproach, that he was a man of integrity in his faith, family and business.

But what happens next is an ongoing conversation between God and Satan in God’s courts in the presence of the sons of God,

The Lord said to satan, “From where have you come ?”

Satan answered and said, “ From going to and fro on the earth, and from walking up and down it. And God said to satan Have you considered my servant Job? There is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from Evil.

Satan then goes on to accuse God that, Job serves God for no reason he is a man who is blessed in every side, from his family to his possessions, and then Satan challenges God, to touch all that he has and take it away from him, and He will curse you to his face. And God permits satan to touch all that Job has, but not to harm Job.

Then in the blink of an eye, Job loses everything. He loses his wealth, his possessions, his servants, and his children.

How do you respond to such a drastic loss, all in a day? How did Job respond? He blesses the name of the Lord, he humbly breaks out in praise. He said, “ Naked I came from my mother’s womb and naked shall I return. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

Then God, yet again, continuing the dialogue between him and Satan, witnessed Job’s faith, said to satan in his courts, Have you considered my servant Job? He still holds fast to his integrity, although you incited me against him to destroy him without reason.

Satan replied: Skin for skin! all that a man has, He will give for his life, but stretch out your hand and touch his bone and his flesh, and he will curse you to his face. & the Lord said, Behold, he is in your hands: Only spare his life. & Satan went about and struck Job with sores, from the top of his head to the tip of his toe.

Then his friends Eliphaz- the temanite, biildad-the shuhite, and Zophar-the naamathite came to visit him, to show him sympathy and comfort him. “When they saw him from a distance, they could hardly recognize him; they began to weep aloud, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads. Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and seven nights. No one said a word to him, because they saw how great his suffering was.”

Then there is this dialogue between Job and his friends, and most of the rest of the book continues with that.

Job 3 – Job’s Lament

After seven days of silence, Job finally speaks. He doesn’t curse God… but he does curse the day he was born. He wishes he’d never existed. His pain is so raw that he feels life itself is meaningless. He is troubled in his spirit, and you can see he longs for rest, but trouble comes.

Job 4–5 – Eliphaz Speaks

Eliphaz is the first of Job’s friends to respond. He tries to comfort Job. He also kind of provokes Job, who had instructed many during their time of weakness, but now, when calamity has struck him, he is impatient and dismayed. His main comfort to Job is that he must’ve sinned.

In Eliphaz’s response, there is an idea that good people always get blessings, and bad people get punishment. He persuades Job to pay heed to his advice because he has searched all of this out, and he knows that this is true.

Job 6–7 – Job Replies

Job then answers and says that his complaint is just, when weighing his suffering, it far outweighs the very sands of the earth,

Jobs’ friends don’t get it, He accuses his friends of offering cold comfort. He acknowledges that his pain is too heavy, and in his own awareness, he mentions that his unrestrained speech is from the anguish of his spirit and the bitterness of his soul.

He begins to question why God would even bother creating him if life is going to be this painful.

Job 8 – Bildad Speaks

Bildad takes it up a notch. He’s more blunt than Eliphaz. He says, “God doesn’t pervert justice. If your children have sinned against him, He has delivered them into the hand of their transgression.” Ouch.

He urges Job to seek God, plead with God for mercy, repent, and return to God. He tries to become an advocate of God that God will not reject a blameless man, and that god will restore Joy in his life.

His response lacks compassion, or just plain awareness of the pain that Job is going through, so his comforting thought may sound right, probably brutal for Job, who is on the receiving end of it.

Job 9–10 – Job’s Deep Questions

Job responds with anguish and confusion. He acknowledges that God is great and powerful… but he wonders, how can a man be in the right before God? He doesn’t see how it’s fair. He says there is no arbiter between him and God, and wants God to take his rod away and let not the very thought of God terrify him.

He pleads with God: “Why did you create me only to crush me?” It’s raw. It’s honest. And it’s incredibly human. He wants God to leave him alone so that he can find a few days of cheer before he dies.

In short:
Job is grieving and questioning.
His friends are blaming and preaching.
And the tension is building about the understanding of suffering, repentance, God’s mercy, and Justice.
“Now we come to Job 11, where Zophar, the third friend, speaks.

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Zophar, the third friend of Job, responds to Job’s cry. He is probably the youngest and theologically the most rigid.

Zophar’s response to Job

1 Then Zophar the Naamathite answered and said:
2 “Should a multitude of words go unanswered, and a man full of talk be judged right?
3 Should your babble silence men, and when you mock, shall no one shame you?
4 For you say, ‘My doctrine is pure, and I am clean in God’s eyes.’
5 But oh, that God would speak and open his lips to you,
6 and that he would tell you the secrets of wisdom! For he is manifold in understanding. Know then that God exacts of you less than your guilt deserves.

Here based on what Job said, it feels like Zophar is offended by Job’s complaints. He has zoned out and loses track listening to Job’s lengthy replies and calls it a multitude of words and babble.

He feels like the goal of Jobs’ complaints was to speak against God and to silence men.

Zophar shows no compassion to the remarkable suffering endured by Job, he believes that Job said that he is pure and clean in God’s eyes.

But to be honest, Job doesn’t claim anywhere that he is pure, in Job 9: 20 you can see Job says, though I am blameless, He would prove me perverse. He meant it as the impossible task of defending himself before God in terms of Justice,

However, for us who have the benefit of reading Job in its entirety, we know that it is God who says that Job is blameless and upright, there is none like him.

Then Zophar continues to address what he believes is Job’s incorrect understanding of his standing before God. He says, “ God exacts of you less than your guilt deserves.”

Such harsh and condeming words from Zophar to job, This actually touches the theme of all of Job’s friends replies, where they associate Job’s suffering with his spiritual standing before God, and so the tension is building between them where the third time in last few chapters one of job’s friends is going to say almost the same thing they have been contending with him, that he has been having some secret sin in his life which he has not repented off, which has caused him all the suffering.

Zophar’s rebuke lacks empathy and compassion. You would hope that when you are suffering, the words of a friend are measured and filled with Grace !! We show love by empathizing with the seasons of celebration and allowing ourselves to feel broken with our friends in their seasons of heartache.

As Paul writes in Romans 12:15
15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 

Even Jesus Wept, along with Mary and Martha, when Lazarus died. even though Jesus promised that Lazarus’ sickness would not result in death, and that he purposed it for the benefit of all of us to see his work and glory. Yet, when he met Martha and Mary, he wept with them in their mourning.

John 11:35 – Jesus Wept.

There is a tension between their understanding of God’s justice and the expression of God’s mercy.

Now let’s see what happens next from v7-9

7 “Can you find out the deep things of God? Can you find out the limit of the Almighty?
8 It is higher than heaven–what can you do? Deeper than Sheol–what can 21you know?
9 Its measure is longer than the earth and broader than the sea.

Romans 11:33-34
Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and
knowledge of God!
How unsearchable his judgments,
and his paths beyond tracing out!

In Psalm 139, you get to see a similar description of God’s presence, where the psalmist says,

If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, [1] you are there.9If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea,10even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast.

He then proceeds to describe in human terms the length and breadth and depth of God’s wisdom. When Zophar says What can you do? & what can you know? He is challenging the limits of our understanding of God,

So yes, God’s power and presence are limitless, His wisdom is vast and beyond our measurement. There are mysteries of God that exist beyond our comprehension, our understanding is finite.

Then he goes on to say,

10 If he passes through and imprisons and summons the court, who can turn him back?

11 For he knows worthless men; when he sees iniquity, will he not consider it?

12 But a stupid man will get understanding when a wild donkey’s colt is born a man!

Here, Zophar states that God has the ultimate authority in calling a court and presiding a hearing to judge and possibly imprison. Who can stop him? again a rhetoric,

Now here is where it is interesting, Zophar is presenting all these attributes of God, whilst passing a judgment on Job himself for his bitter lament. Although Zophar’s understanding of God’s mysteries is right, He has misused the theological truths to judge, shame, and guilt Job for his complaints.

Here he says, God knows the worth of man or the worthlessness of man,

when he sees iniquity, will he not consider it? Implying that Job here in question is the worthless man, and that He is suffering because of some iniquity, He is also responding to Job’s complaints because he feels Job is asking God not to consider his iniquities, and give him an easy way out.

Because, according to his simplistic understanding of God’s justice, everyone is dealt for their sins and they are dealt less than what they deserve, there is no room for understanding God’s mercy in light of his justice.

But in light of the Gospel, this truth of God extracting from us less than what we deserve is a display of God’s steadfast love.

Psalm 103:10-13

He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. 11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; 12 as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. 13 As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.

Even Paul prays for the Ephesians that they would get the understanding of the limitlessness of God’s love towards them,

Ephesians 3:18-19

And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.

He then plainly calls Job dumb & stupid, that he will never understand the things of God, that he will get understanding when a wild donkey’s colt is born as a man.

And offers Job his ultimate solution as the answer to his misery. Let’s read from v13-20

13 “If you prepare your heart, you will stretch out your hands toward him.

14 If iniquity is in your hand, put it far away, and let not injustice dwell in your tents.

15 Surely then you will lift up your face without blemish; you will be secure and will not fear.

16 You will forget your misery; you will remember it as waters that have passed away.

17 And your life will be brighter than the noonday; its darkness will be like the morning.

18 And you will feel secure, because there is hope; you will look around and take your rest in security.

19 You will lie down, and none will make you afraid; many will court your favor.

20 But the eyes of the wicked will fail; all way of escape will be lost to them, and their hope is to breathe their last.”

Zophar echoes the same words that Eliphaz and Bildad spoke, the answer is easy. Job should simply repent and seek the mercy and goodness of God.

He suggests that repentance would lead to restoration, where Job would forget his misery and would remember it as a moment in the past that had by.

He mentions that there is hope if Job repents of his Sins, this act of repentance will bring him rest and security

So the underlying themes of God’s Justice & mercy we see in Zophar’s understanding and also all the other Job’s friends’ understanding are that,

God is wise and omnipresent, he renders to those what they deserve based on their sins.

But he is merciful in the sense that when Job repents, God will restore his life, and his misery will be no more.

He continues to say how repentance will bring him restoration and security, that he will not dread sleep again.

Strangely, he ends with a warning to Job, it’s almost like a threat, that there is still time to repent, for the wicked, who is implied to be Job, and once the way of escape is lost, then the only hope for the wicked is death.

There are truths in Zophar’s understanding of God’s mysteries, but incorrect application of God’s justice. His assuption that Job’s security would lie in the repentance of his sins could not be farther from the truth of the gospel, we don’t come to God because we repented, we come to God because of what he has already done for us and what we get to enjoy as free outpouring of his grace towards us.

So, what are some takeaways from this passage for us?

Lament freely to God

If you are suffering, Lament, Lament is an outpouring of our hearts to God. Maybe it comes naturally to you, maybe it doesn’t, but it is an expression of our true emotions. I would go on to say that Godly lament is worship unto God.

If we don’t take our lamentations to God, the burdens of our suffering and pain will take us to other places. We will take our lament to relationships, habits, bitterness, and anger. Take your lament to God, don’t let it take you away from God.

We have the gift of Psalms to see a few people in history lament to God. Not all Psalms end with trust in God, there are 2 that just end as an expression of Anguish

Psalm 22, we hear David’s anguish: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from the words of my groaning? Oh my God, I cry out by day but you do not answer, by night, and am not silent. Yet you are enthroned as the Holy One; you are the praise of Israel. In you, our fathers put their trust; they trusted and you delivered them. They cried to you and were saved; in you they trusted and were not disappointed. But I am a worm and not a man, scorned by men and despised by the people. All who see me mock me; they hurl insults, shaking their heads: ‘He trusts in the Lord; let the Lord rescue him. Let him deliver him, since he delights in him.’”

Psalm 13,

How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever?

How long will you hide your face from me?

2 How long must I take counsel in my soul

and have sorrow in my heart all the day?

How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?

3 Consider and answer me, O Lord my God;

light up my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death,

4 lest my enemy say, “I have prevailed over him,”

lest my foes rejoice because I am shaken.

5 But I have trusted in your steadfast love;

My heart shall rejoice in your salvation.

6 I will sing to the Lord,

because he has dealt bountifully with me. (NLT)

Complaint to God the right place to complaint, and may be you are already bringing you complaints, groanings and laments to God, and are waiting for an answer from God,

continue to be at God’s throne of grace, He will not leave you, he will give you strength to endure through suffering. The lord is near to those who are brokenhearted, and cling to the promise from Matthew 5, Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Be at it, we may not understand the manifold wisdom of God, but we can trust and rest in his steadfast love and hold on to his promise of Grace in our time of need.

For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. (Hebrews 4:15-16)

Listen without judging:

There is an insight here, when Zophar responds to Job, he is responding to a completely different conversation in his head, as compared to Job, his response is filled with Judgement. All of Job’s friends are trying to wrestle with his complaining, and they don’t have the answers themselves.

If you have friends or family coming to lament to you, we also would not have all the answers to suffering like Jobs’ friends, because there is unexplainable suffering in the world

The process of listening to someone’s suffering and lament can easily wear us down, it is emotionally a heavy weight to carry, and we can get into the state of projecting our framework of life onto the other person.

Every time I would have my wife, Jubi, come to me and share any of her troubles, I would often try to fix it, because I would have a certain framework in my mind through which I would look at her troubles.

We might not understand suffering, but keep coming to God in your suffering. And if you are being a faithful friend to those who are suffering, bring them to God’s throne of grace.

Paul writes in Romans 12:15

15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.

Lean on the finished work of the cross

As you find your posture in the midst of suffering, whether you are the person suffering or you are the person listening to the sufferings of a friend,

know that suffering is not directly caused by your Sin, it may be but God does not intend to permit suffering in your life as a way to even the scales of your sins.

Jesus died for us on the cross to give us something better.

Titus 3:4-7

4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, 6 whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7 so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.

in Jesus, it has already been finished for us on the cross, where he took on the penalty of our sin, he took on the dread of our iniquities, and the retribution for our sins, so that he could restore our relationship with God.

1 Peter 2:24

“He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.”

As you think and reflect on today’s passage, we can take a moment to Lament, pray for our friends who need encouragement right now

Good morning church! A warm welcome to all in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. As a church we’ve been going through a series titled God’s blessing in suffering from the book of Job. For many of us, this series title seems like an unusual one because we’re not used to hearing blessing & suffering in the same sentence.

We either say that we’re blessed when things are going great for us & on the other hand we say that we’re suffering when things are going really bad for us. It’s simply not natural for us to say that we’re blessed especially in the face of tragedy.

And yet the Bible from Genesis to Revelation tells us something quite different. It portrays suffering as a good thing in the life of the believer. Suffering is the expected norm for believers.

And if suffering is the expected norm & if suffering is truly a blessing, then we desperately need to be instructed on how to respond to suffering in our lives and in the lives of others. If you’re like me, I need a lot of help in knowing how to respond to suffering in my own life & in the lives of others.

And that’s why we’re glad that we’re going through the book of Job because it’s gradually beginning to unravel God’s blessing in suffering. So we’re going through it chapter by chapter – and we’ve arrived at Chapter 12 today. But before we proceed, I’d love for us to pray and ask God to help us with this.

Let’s recap the context to Chapter 12. How did we get here? In the first couple of Chapters we understand that Job who was a faithful, committed man unto the Lord is met with the most extreme kind of personal tragedies that we wish wouldn’t happen to anyone.

On a single day, he loses everything that he had – his thriving business, his enormous wealth, his health & worst of all his precious children.

We get to know that this extreme personal tragedy was not caused by something that Job did, but a result of a conference that took place in heaven where Satan challenges God & tells God “If you take away all that Job possesses, everything that is near and dear to him, he will be left with no option but to curse you to your face”.  And so what follows for the rest of the book is an examination to see whether Job actually curses and abandons God.

And as Job’s processing this extreme tragedy, his 3 closest friends – Eliphaz, Bildad and Zophar come to meet him & comfort him. But instead of comforting him, they resort to condemning him & are in this desperate attempt to prove that Job’s suffering is directly caused by his own or his children’s sins. 

Last week we read through Zophar’s speech and that was probably the most brutal & harshest of the three friends. He said Know then that God exacts of you less than your guilt deserves (Job 11:6) – In other words, he is saying that Job deserves more suffering for his sin. It’s only due to God’s mercy which is why he is suffering what he is suffering. Otherwise, he deserved much more according to Zophar. And so today’s passage is Job’s response to what Zophar said.

As it has been our practice, we’ll first try to understand it from Job’s perspective verse by verse, and then in the end we’ll try to bring it together with a fuller, complete biblical perspective which will be our takeaways from today’s passage:

1. Job’s rejects his friends’ condescending approach (v1-3)

1 Then Job answered and said:

2 “No doubt you are the people,
    and wisdom will die with you.
3 But I have understanding as well as you;
    I am not inferior to you.
    Who does not know such things as these?

V2: Job is basically telling his friends “you guys think that only your perspective matters, you guys think that only you have wisdom and hence have pronounced final judgment over my suffering”.

V3: Job tells his friends “But even I’ve got understanding just like you. Even I’ve got a mind. I’m not inferior or lesser to you when it comes to wisdom”.

As you can see here, the problem in Job’s friends was not just what they said but also how they approached it. The problem was not just in their  content speech, but also in their approach.

They’ve been condescending & patronizing toward Job. They’ve been snobbish in how they’ve broached the subject with Job. While speaking to Job, they’ve had this air of superiority. Almost like they’ve already figured out everything in Job’s heart & life & hence, they’ve pronounced judgment on him saying that he’s hiding some secret sin which is why this severe, intense suffering has come upon him.

And there should be an instruction here for us as well. One of the most unhelpful ways to approach someone who is suffering, is to approach them with unsubstantiated assumptions about their situation & then force down those assumptions without seeking any clarity from them. There are a couple of dangers in doing this:

• We will inappropriately & immaturely position ourselves in the place of God as though we’re all knowing – as though we know everything about another person’s life & situation
• We build a wall in our conversation with the suffering person because they’ll easily sense us being condescending & patronizing. Even if we’re saying something that’s right and true, it won’t go through to the other person because we’re approaching it with condescension.

But not only did he reject his friends’ condescending approach,

2.  Job rejects his friends’ theology of convenience (V4-6)

4 I am a laughingstock to my friends;
    I, who called to God and he answered me,
    a just and blameless man, am a laughingstock.
5 In the thought of one who is at ease there is contempt for misfortune;
    it is ready for those whose feet slip.
6 The tents of robbers are at peace,
    and those who provoke God are secure,
    who bring their god in their hand.

Job’s point in V5 is that it’s simply convenient for those who aren’t experiencing suffering (those who are in a comfortable place in life) to pass snap judgments and despise those who are going through suffering. In other words, Job is telling them “it’s easy for you to say all this, because you’re simply not suffering”.

It’s convenient for them because of their comfortable situation but not just that, it’s also convenient for them because they are not willing to wrestle with the dilemma of suffering that exists in the world. V4 & V6 describes that dilemma. V4 – Job talks about how the just and blameless are made a laughingstock. Job who lived a faithful life has now become the joke among his friends, he’s become the joke of the town. On the other hand, in V6 Job talks about how the wicked are safe & secure. They spend all their time rebelling against God but they seem to have no problems at all.

Job’s friends were not willing to deal with the question of “Why do bad things happen to the faithful?” & “Why do good things happen to the unfaithful?” They’re not willing to deal with this dilemma of suffering. They would rather stick to a theology of convenience which says “good things happen to the faithful, bad things happen to the unfaithful”. Job rejects this theology of convenience.

Job started by rejecting their condescending approach & their theology of convenience & now he moves on to proposing a couple of things in his case against God.

3. Job proposes creation as a witness to God’s sovereignty (V7-12)

7 “But ask the beasts, and they will teach you;
    the birds of the heavens, and they will tell you;
8 or the bushes of the earth, and they will teach you;[b]
    and the fish of the sea will declare to you.
9 Who among all these does not know
    that the hand of the Lord has done this?
10 In his hand is the life of every living thing
    and the breath of all mankind.
11 Does not the ear test words
    as the palate tastes food?
12 Wisdom is with the aged,
    and understanding in length of days.

In V7 & 8, Job is telling his friends to inquire of animals, birds, plants and fishes (every living creature), and they’ll all bear witness to the fact that it’s God who governs and controls everything that happens in this universe.

V9 – Job asks a rhetorical question if there’s any creature who’s not aware of God’s sovereignty? Sovereignty means “God does as He pleases”. And so Job is basically telling his friends that if they want to know A to Z in the theology of God’s sovereignty, pay close attention to animals, birds, plants and fishes & you’ll see how God governs and controls their lives. 

Jesus says something similar in Matt 6 when he refers to birds : 26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.

Birds don’t have storage cabinets & drawers like us but yet they are faithfully taken care of by God.

In V10-12 – Job is telling his friends that everything that happens in our lives is held in the hands of God. And he’s asking his friends why they’ve not yet understood or accepted this aspect of God’s sovereignty yet? He’s basically telling them that all other creatures understand and accept, but why are they struggling to do so?

So the first proposal is how creation itself witness to God’s sovereignty, but also there is a second proposal

4. Job proposes an unlimited scope to God’s sovereignty (V13-25)

In the next 12-13 verses, Job goes on to explain to his friends how there’s no limit or boundary to God’s sovereignty. “God does as He pleases and there is no limit or boundary to that”. Job’s friends have only spoken about God’s justice & God’s wisdom in a very narrow manner so far, and Job is basically telling them that they’ve not even scratched the surface.

13 “With God[c] are wisdom and might;
    he has counsel and understanding.

God is omnipotent (all-powerful) & omniscient (all knowing). And we can add omnipresent (present everywhere) to the list & that’s the combination we’re talking about. Who can stand against the power of this God? Who can advise God and tell him to do things differently?

14 If he tears down, none can rebuild;
    if he shuts a man in, none can open.
15 If he withholds the waters, they dry up;
    if he sends them out, they overwhelm the land.

That’s the unbelievable power of our God. Whatever God’s determined will happen exactly in the same fashion as He’s determined and in the exact time as He’s determined.

16 With him are strength and sound wisdom;
    the deceived and the deceiver are his.

It’s not just those who are deceived, God’s sovereignty is so far reaching that even someone who is actively deceiving and rebelling against God is also governed and controlled by God.

Though God is not making them deceive or sin – that’s their own responsibility but yet in some way God still governs them. We see that right throughout biblical history where unbelieving, pagan rulers doing terrible things have been governed by God.

Let’s take Pharaoh for example. See what it says in Romans 9:17-18:

17 For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, “For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I might show my power in you, and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth.” 18 So then he has mercy on whomever he wills, and he hardens whomever he wills.

Pharaoh was no believer. Throughout his lifetime, he was known to be an incredibly powerful & cruel king, and yet he was a pawn in the hands of God accomplishing God’s purposes. He was raised up by God to be an example of God’s judgment over wickedness, and Israel became an example of God’s mercy and salvation.

17 He leads counselors away stripped,
    and judges he makes fools.
18 He looses the bonds of kings
    and binds a waistcloth on their hips.
19 He leads priests away stripped
    and overthrows the mighty.
20 He deprives of speech those who are trusted
    and takes away the discernment of the elders.
21 He pours contempt on princes
    and loosens the belt of the strong.
22 He uncovers the deeps out of darkness
    and brings deep darkness to light.
23 He makes nations great, and he destroys them;
    he enlarges nations, and leads them away.
24 He takes away understanding from the chiefs of the people of the earth and makes them wander in a trackless waste.
25 They grope in the dark without light,
    and he makes them stagger like a drunken man.

It’s the same repeated theme in these verses. All those who are considered to be wise & strong can be reduced to nothing by God. And so that’s the unlimited scope to God’s sovereignty. God can truly do whatever He pleases.

So far it seems like Job’s on the right track because most of what he says is true about God’s sovereignty. God is indeed infinitely powerful and infinitely wise. There isn’t a limit or a boundary to what He can do.

But here’s where I think Job gets it wrong, he’s saying all these things about God’s sovereignty not out of worship to God. He’s not saying these things because he marvels at the infinite power and wisdom of God.

He’s saying all these things about God’s sovereignty to back his claim of God being a bully toward him. Although God is sovereign, Job feels that God lacks care and purpose in the way in which He exercises it.

It almost seems like Job’s saying “God, You’re sovereign but not caring. God, You’re sovereign but not purposeful. Your ways seem harsh & erratic”. Job views God like this megalomaniac king who wants power and control and uses it for His own self interests. In Job’s mind, God’s ways appear to be arbitrary, random and fickle like many of the pagan gods of ancient times. But who has the guts to question God? Who dares to challenge God?

And even as I say this, I know that this is not just a feeling that is limited to Job. Many times when we feel like God’s not answering our desperate cries for help, we can struggle to believe that God cares for us deeply.

“Though God has all the power in the world, why is God not giving me relief? Maybe God doesn’t care enough”. Those are the feelings in our hearts. How do we navigate through this?

Romans 8:28-30

28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. 29 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. 30 And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.

This is a very loved passage but we often forget that this passage is actually written in the context of suffering. It’s written to encourage suffering believers. Just a few verses earlier in V18, Paul says that these earthly sufferings we experience are not worth comparing to the glory that will be revealed when Jesus returns.

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good

The “good” in this context doesn’t not refer to earthly comfort but conformity to Christ (v29), closer fellowship with God, bearing good fruit for the kingdom, and final glorification (v30).

God’s sovereignty isn’t random, arbitrary or fickle. It’s carefully thought out and planned since eternity past, couched with love and care for those who are called by God. Christians can be assured that all things work together for good.

Matt 10:29-30

29 Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?[i] And not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. 30 But even the hairs of your head are all numbered. 31 Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.

Sparrows were the smallest of creatures and the penny was one of the least valuable Roman coins. And yet God faithfully rules and cares for these sparrows which are insignificant in the eyes of the world. And if God does that for sparrows, will he not care for His own people? If that’s not enough, Jesus tells us that God even knows and keeps count of the number of hairs that we have on our heads! God cares deeply for us.