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Keys to Spiritual Growth – 1 Corinthians 3:1-9

Good morning everyone, hope you all are well this morning. Just wanted to welcome everyone who has joined us in-person at the hall and those who have joined us online. Our prayer is that God would meet with us in a direct, personal way this morning. 

We began a new sermon series at the start of year from the letter of 1st Corinthians. We’ve titled the series as “The Church: God’s Dwelling Place”. God’s choice dwelling place is not in a building (not a church building, not a religious building, not even in the hall where we’ve gathered) but God’s chosen dwelling place is among His own redeemed people. Isn’t it amazing? That out of all the wonderful places that God could have chosen to dwell in, His choice and select dwelling place is in us – He chose to dwell in you and me. 

And we’re slowly beginning to uncover what that means for us. Today we find ourselves in 1 Cor 3:1-9. 

If I were to ask us this question – how many of us would like to experience personal growth in our lives? Be it personal growth in terms of health, skills, career, finances etc. I think all of us would say that we would like to see and experience growth in each of these areas. And in the world today there’s enough and more books and material published on how to achieve personal growth in each of these areas. 

But what about spiritual growth? How does that take place? Does it happen by attending every single Christian conference that’s there in my vicinity? Does it happen by listening to every single Christian sermon published online? Does it happen by reading every single Christian book I can get hold of? How do we experience spiritual growth? In essence, the question we are asking is “what are the keys to spiritual growth?

And today’s passage gives us at least a couple of keys to spiritual growth:

1. We need to understand the barriers to spiritual growth (v1-4)

But I, brothers,[a] could not address you as spiritual people, but as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ. 2 I fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for it. And even now you are not yet ready, 3 for you are still of the flesh. For while there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not of the flesh and behaving only in a human way? 4 For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you not being merely human?

Just to recap the passage that we read a couple of weeks back. In Chapter 2, Paul was contrasting a spiritual person (who has the Holy Spirit dwelling in him) and a natural person / unspiritual person (who doesn’t have the Holy Spirit) and hence isn’t able to spiritually discern the things of God. The natural person is blind and incapable of understanding the things of God. So, it’s a contrast between a spiritual and a natural person. Believer and unbeliever. And then in chapter 3, Paul tells the Corinthian church that he can’t address them as spiritual people but as people of the flesh. The immediate question that comes to mind is, is Paul calling them “unbelievers” by saying that?

Let’s look at v1 to find out. In V1, Paul addresses them as “brothers” which means siblings from the same family. He wouldn’t refer to them as brothers if he didn’t believe they were so. 

And then later on he addresses them as “infants in Christ”. They are in Christ. They have been saved by Jesus. They are born again believers but immature, underdeveloped believers. So Paul is not questioning their salvation, but he is questioning their maturity. He is questioning if they are growing in Christ. 

And then in V2, Paul tells them that he fed them with milk, not solid food because they were not ready for it. In fact, he tells them that even now they aren’t ready for it. 

Let’s remember that Paul was their spiritual father – he was the one who shared the Gospel with them. He was the one who led them to the Lord – so he’s seen their journey right from the time that they became believers for the first time and assessing their present spiritual health, he’s telling them that they are not ready to have spiritual solid food because they are still spiritual infants and haven’t yet grown. 

Our youngest daughter Lydia is 5 months now and we’re hoping to start her on solids from next month. But imagine if a year or two passes and she’s still only feeding on milk, we’d be concerned parents because it will mean that something is hindering her growth. Something is impeding her from progressing to the next development stage. Something is wrong. 

And that’s the concern that Paul has for the Corinthians. Quite sometime has passed since they became believers in Christ, but they are still living like infants in the faith. Something is hindering their spiritual growth. Something is impeding them from progressing to the next development stage. Something is becoming a barrier. And what is that?

V3: Paul says that they are of the flesh. In other words, they are being controlled by their bodily desires. They are living for themselves and their own selfish appetites. And how is that playing out in their lives? 

Through jealousy and strife. Though they were brothers and sisters in Christ, they were no longer seeing each other as family, they were seeing each other as threats. They were insecure of each other and would keep arguing. 

And these arguments and quarrels were no small tiff. It was an ongoing, long drawn battle which resulting in factions and divisions and splits in the church. And some of us have probably been part of churches where we’ve witnessed factions and divisions and splits first hand and that’s a very disturbing experience. It not only affects those who are involved, but also everyone else gets impacted by it. 

And what was their main issue of contention? In V4 Paul describes it. They split into factions based on certain church leaders that they identified closely with. Be it a Paul, or an Apollos, or a Peter or someone else in the church – they were more concerned about identifying themselves with a church leader than identifying themselves with the Lord Jesus Christ. 

It became a battle between different fan clubs within the church. Any thing that was said against their respected church leader, they would probably take it very personally and argue and fight over it. 

And Paul was basically telling them that “you think you’re spiritually mature, but when you argue like this – are you really spiritually mature?”

And so we can see here – that despite being born again believers for a while, they were underdeveloped and immature believers BECAUSE they were living for themselves. They were living for their own selfish appetites. They were impeding their spiritual growth by living for themselves.

And that’s the opposite of what the Lord Jesus wants from us. This is what Jesus said in Luke 9:23: If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.  

Self-denial, self-abandonment, dying to yourself and your desires. That is how we participate in God’s work of spiritual growth. We don’t make ourselves grow (we will come to that in the next point) but we participate and cooperate with God’s work of spiritual growth as we die to ourselves every single day. 

And God’s Word is central to this spiritual growth process. Because every time we interact with God’s Word – on a Sunday morning when it’s being preached, a GC or a DNA group where God’s Word is being broken down and discussed and also during our daily devotions – God is exposing our hearts to our selfishness and self-centredness and He is calling us to die to those desires and selfish appetites. God is not calling His children to become theologians; He is calling them to become like His Son Jesus as they participate and cooperate with Him by dying to themselves daily. 

I could be hearing the best sermon the world, but I’m not ready to die to my selfishness and my desires, I won’t be able to grow. I will still be stuck in spiritual infancy. 

Now there’s nothing wrong in being a spiritual in fact as long as you’re a brand-new believer. But if you and I have been believers for few months, few years, then being stuck in spiritual infancy is not a sign of health. It’s not a sign of growth. It’s not a sign of everything being okay and fine. Because we were born-again for growth and God intends to see us become fully mature like His perfect Son Jesus Christ. Until then, we need to participate and cooperate with Him daily by dying to ourselves.

But not only is it enough to understand the barriers to spiritual growth, but

2. We need to understand the source of spiritual growth (v5-9)

5 What then is Apollos? What is Paul? Servants through whom you believed, as the Lord assigned to each. 6 I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. 7 So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth. 8 He who plants and he who waters are one, and each will receive his wages according to his labor. 9 For we are God’s fellow workers. You are God’s field, God’s building.

In these verses, Paul uses the analogy of plants to explain the source of spiritual growth to the Corinthians. And he’s basically telling them – “spoiler alert – neither me nor Apollos nor any other human can be responsible for spiritual growth – the credit only goes to God”. How does he break this down for us? 

Firstly by highlighting the insignificance of God’s servants: That word “servant” is actually translated as waiter; as an attendant; as a servant who is running errands for the master. 

And that’s a humbling picture for us. In the world today, pastors and people in ministry are heralded as celebrities and heroes in the church. God’s Word is always in the humbling business…it’s always humbling us to realize our place – anyone in ministry is basically like “waiting on tables, running an errand for our master”. It’s not something that deserves hero worship. 

On the hand there is the great significance of God in spiritual growth: V5 says that He is the one who assigns roles and responsibilities to his servants. Whatever ministry that we are called to do, is a consequence of what God has assigned to us. God is the one who gives us the offer letter in ministry, we aren’t self-appointed or self-made when it comes to ministry.

And then V6 and 7 are the most amazing verses – God makes us grow. God is the one responsible for spiritual growth. I’m no farming expert but I think if we were to go and ask a farmer, can you guarantee how tall a plant will grow and how many flowers and fruits it will bear? 

I’m pretty sure that the farmer will say “I don’t know. I prepare the soil, plant the seeds, water the soil…these are things under my control but to make the seed germinate and grow, that’s out of my scope of work. That’s something that only God can do”.  

And that’s why we said in the last point that by dying to ourselves daily we are only participating and cooperating with God’s work of spiritual growth. We are not primarily responsible for bringing about our spiritual growth. We are only participating and cooperating with God who is relentlessly working towards making His children grow up into Jesus. Which is why Paul could say with confidence to the Philippian church: And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. If we are God’s children and not showing growth, it won’t be too long before which God does something or the other to shake up our lives and to bring us back on track. 

And then finally in v8-9, Paul is basically trying to tell the Corinthians that its pointless to build these fan clubs and fight with each other because ultimately both Paul and Apollos are together in this as a team. They are not competing with each other. They are not trying to outdo each other and come out on top. Why is the church fighting over them when they aren’t fighting with each other?

And then in V9 where Paul tells them that they are God’s field. They are God’s building. Not just because he created us but because He purchased us with the precious blood of His Son. When we were down and out in their sins, Jesus died for us on the cross and then 3 days later rose from the dead so that whoever would believe in Him would be counted as His own. We belong to Him. Why settle for an inferior identity in mere humans when we have a far more superior identity in Jesus Christ? 

You are God’s field. You are God’s building. Paul wasn’t point out what was wrong in the Corinthians to overwhelm them with guilt but to bring conviction so that they could repent. And God’s way of doing that is by affirming and reminding you of who you are in the light of the Gospel so that you can come back to Him in repentance. 

And that’s what I want us to remember today. If we are in a place where we look at our lives and have seen stunted spiritual growth, I just want you to know that God is not trying to shame you or put on guilt. He is a loving Father who earnestly wants us to repent and come back to Him. What should you do next? 

Examine your life to see which are those areas where you know that God is calling you to die to yourself and your desires but you’ve been passive or inactive or delayed or resistant in your response to God. 

Admit, Confess, Trust & Submit

1 John 1:8-9 ESV‬‬

[8] (Admit) If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. [9] (Confess) If we confess our sins, (Trust) he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 

(Submit) ‭‭2 Corinthians 5:14-15 ESV‬‬

[14] For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; [15] and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.

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She Matters – Galatians 3:28

This Sunday, celebrating International Women’s Day, we will deliver a standalone sermon titled “She Matters.” This sermon will present a biblical perspective on women.

We elicited a variety of responses to International Women’s Day. In our nation, many city women celebrate in diverse ways, such as going out for meals, attending events, or sharing posts on social media. However, I believe that the majority of Indian women, particularly those in rural areas, may not even be aware of this day, let alone celebrate it.

Unfortunately, not every woman in our society feels valued, appreciated, or honored as they should. This is mainly due to the prevalent selfish and disrespectful attitudes.

Here’s a post I read yesterday by Ghazal Alagh, the Co-founder of Mamaearth. In it, she summarizes the difficulties she experiences in her context. This post was shared on her LinkedIn account.

This has been the case even during the time of Jesus.

During the time of Jesus in ancient Israel, societal norms were heavily influenced by patriarchal structures, and women’s roles were predominantly defined within the confines of home and family life. The treatment and status of women varied, but generally, they had limited rights compared to men and were often subject to strict social codes.

  • Legal Status: Women’s legal rights were minimal. They could not serve as witnesses in court in most cases, reflecting their marginalized position in the legal system. Marriage contracts, divorces, and property rights typically favored men.
  • Social and Religious Life: Women’s participation in religious and public life was restricted. In the synagogue, women were separated from men and had a more passive role in worship. Although women were responsible for maintaining religious practices at home, their access to formal religious education and leadership roles was severely limited.
  • Marriage and Family: Women were typically married at a young age, and marriages were often arranged. A woman’s honor and value were closely tied to her role as a wife and mother, particularly in bearing sons. Virginity before marriage was highly valued, and women could be severely punished for sexual misconduct.
  • Economic and Work Life: Most women’s work revolved around household duties, such as cooking, cleaning, and caring for children. While women from wealthier families had servants to help with these tasks, they were still confined to roles that were considered suitable for their gender. Some women, especially those from lower socio-economic backgrounds, worked outside the home in agriculture, textiles, or as merchants to support their families.
  • Social Interaction: Women’s social interactions were closely monitored, and they were expected to avoid speaking with men outside their immediate family in public settings. This segregation was part of maintaining a woman’s honor and the family’s reputation.

In this context, Jesus’s interactions with women were revolutionary. He broke societal norms by speaking to women in public, including them among his followers, and addressing their needs and concerns. He treated women with respect and dignity, valuing their faith and contributions to his ministry. This approach was radical and highlighted the inclusive nature of Jesus’s message, offering a new perspective on women’s value and role in society and within the realm of faith.

In doing so, Jesus, as the Son of God, was communicating God’s heart and expressing the Father’s pain caused by sin and rebellion.

Look at the passage from Galatians 3:28

“There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” – Galatians 3:28 (ESV)

Paul’s statement is profound, especially considering the social context of the time, which was deeply divided along lines of ethnicity (Jew vs. Greek), social status (slave vs. free), and gender (male vs. female). These divisions often dictated a person’s rights, responsibilities, and societal value.

By saying “there is no male and female,” Paul is not denying the physical or biological differences between genders or suggesting that the social realities of his day had vanished. Instead, he is emphasizing that in the realm of salvation and belonging to Christ, these distinctions do not confer any advantage or disadvantage. In Christ, all believers, regardless of their gender, are equal and united. They share equally in the
promises of God, have equal access to salvation, and are equally members of the body of Christ.

This principle of unity and equality is foundational to the Christian faith and challenges believers to transcend societal divisions and prejudices. It calls for a community where all are valued and can contribute freely, without the barriers imposed by gender or any other social categorization. Paul’s message in Galatians 3:28 is a powerful reminder of the transformative nature of the gospel, which creates a new identity and a new family that is defined not by earthly distinctions but by faith in Christ Jesus.

Here, I aim to share four accounts of Jesus interacting with different women in the Bible, along with the lessons we can derive from these interactions.

1. Her Honor Matters

The first story involves Jesus’s interaction with the woman caught in adultery, as described in John 8:1-11.

“But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him, and he sat down and taught them. The scribes andthe Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst they said to him, ‘Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. Now in the Law, Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?’ This they said to test him, that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. And as they continued to ask
him, he stood up and said to them, ‘Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.’ And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. Jesus stood up and said to her, ‘Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?’ She said, ‘No one, Lord.’ And Jesus said, ‘Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.'”

In the heart of the Gospel of John lies a narrative that not only challenges societal norms of its time but also offers profound insights into the essence of justice, mercy, and honor. The story of the woman caught in adultery, as narrated in John 8:3-11, unfolds in the bustling streets of Jerusalem, where Jesus Christ’s teachings are captivating many. Yet, it is in this setting that a woman’s story of dishonor and redemption emerges, revealing the depth of Jesus’s compassion and wisdom.

The account begins with scribes and Pharisees bringing a woman to Jesus, accusing her of adultery. They posed a challenge to Him, citing the law of Moses, which demanded such sins be punished by stoning. The accusers were not merely seeking justice; they aimed to entrap Jesus, forcing Him into a dilemma that would either compromise His teachings of mercy or defy the law.

However, Jesus’s response to this situation was neither of direct confrontation nor of submission to their demands. Instead, He stooped down and wrote on the ground, a gesture that has puzzled scholars and theologians for centuries. When pressed for an answer, Jesus stood and delivered a statement that would echo through the ages: “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”

This simple yet profound directive shifted the focus from the woman’s sin to the universal human condition of imperfection. One by one, the accusers departed, leaving the woman alone with Jesus. In this moment, Jesus exemplified His revolutionary approach to justice and mercy. He did not condone her actions but extended grace, telling her, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.

The story of the woman caught in adultery is a testament to the dignity and honor that Jesus affords to each individual, regardless of their past. It challenges us to examine our own tendencies to judge and condemn, urging a posture of humility and compassion. Jesus’s actions in this narrative speak volumes about His respect for human dignity, offering redemption instead of condemnation.

Moreover, this account invites reflection on the role of community in dealing with transgressions. Instead of fostering an environment of shame and punishment, Jesus promotes a culture of forgiveness and new beginnings. It’s a call to communities to support the restoration of honor to those who have fallen, recognizing that everyone is capable of change and deserving of a second chance.

In the modern context, “Her Honor Matters” serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative power of mercy and the importance of upholding the dignity of every individual. It challenges societal norms that often seek to shame and ostracize, proposing instead a community built on understanding, forgiveness, and mutual respect.

As we reflect on this passage from John 8:3-11, let us remember the value of each person’s honor in the eyes of Jesus. May we be inspired to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly, recognizing that in the face of human frailty, compassion is the most righteous path. In doing so, we honor not only the individuals we encounter but the very teachings of Christ, who showed us that indeed, her honor matters.

2 . Her Story Matters

The second story involves Jesus’s interaction with the woman at the well, as described in John 4:1-30,39.

“Now Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that he was gaining and baptizing more disciples than John— although in fact it was not Jesus who baptized, but his disciples. So he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee. Now he had to go through Samaria. So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon. When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, ‘Will you give me a drink?’ (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, ‘You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?’ (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, ‘If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.’ ‘Sir,’ the woman said, ‘you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his livestock?’ Jesus answered, ‘Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.’ The woman said to him, ‘Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.’ He told her, ‘Go, call your husband and come back.’ ‘I have no husband,’ she replied. Jesus said to her, ‘You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.’ ‘Sir,’ the woman said, ‘I can see that you are a prophet. Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.’ ‘Woman,’ Jesus replied, ‘believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.’ The woman said, ‘I know that Messiah’ (called Christ) ‘is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.’ Then Jesus declared, ‘I, the one speaking to you—I am he.’ Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking with a woman. But no one asked, ‘What do you want?’ or ‘Why are you talking with her?’ Then, leaving her water jar, the woman went back to the town and said to the people, ‘Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did. Could this be the Messiah?’ They came out of the town and made their way toward him. … Many of the Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, ‘He told me everything I ever did.'”

In a world where the voices of the marginalized and overlooked are often drowned out by the loudness of the powerful and privileged, the gospel of John chapter 4 verses 1 through 42 offers us a profound narrative. This is the story of the Samaritan woman at the well, a story that speaks volumes about Jesus’ revolutionary approach to societal norms and His deep care for the individual. Through this encounter, we learn an invaluable lesson: “Her story matters to God.”

Jesus, tired from His journey, stops by a well in Samaria. His disciples have gone into town, and He encounters a Samaritan woman coming to draw water. In this moment, Jesus does something radical. He speaks to her, a woman, which was culturally unexpected, especially since she was a Samaritan and Jews traditionally avoided Samaritans due to deep-rooted prejudices.

Jesus breaks down not just one but three significant barriers in this encounter: racial (Jew versus Samaritan), social (man versus woman), and moral (a rabbi versus a woman with a complicated personal life). By doing so, He communicates something powerful: no person is beyond the reach of His love and concern.

Jesus initiates a conversation about living water, leading to a deep theological and personal discussion. He reveals knowledge about her personal life – that she has had five husbands and the man she now has is not her husband. This revelation is not to shame her but to show that He sees her, knows her, and still offers her the gift of eternal life.

In Jesus’ revelation of her personal story, we see that God is intimately aware of our struggles, failures, and the secrets we keep hidden. Yet, His approach is one of grace and transformation. He offers her “living water,” symbolizing the eternal life and satisfaction only He can provide.

The woman’s response to Jesus is remarkable. She leaves her water jar behind, symbolizing her old life, and goes back to her town to tell everyone about Jesus. Her testimony leads many to believe in Him.

This transformation illustrates the power of an encounter with Jesus. The woman moves from shame to dignity, from isolation to becoming a witness. Her story emphasizes that no one’s past disqualifies them from playing a significant role in God’s kingdom.

Like the Samaritan woman, each of us has a story marked by failures, hurts, and perhaps secrets we think disqualify us from God’s love or use. Yet, this story teaches us that our backgrounds, mistakes, or societal labels do not define how God sees us. In Christ, we find someone who knows us completely and loves us unconditionally. He invites us to experience the living water and share our transformed stories with the world.

3. Her Needs Matter

The third story involves Jesus’s interaction with His mother at the cross, as described in John 19:26-27

“When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son!’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Behold, your mother!’ And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.”

In the hustle of our daily lives, amidst the pressing needs and concerns that we all carry, there’s a profound truth echoed in the Scriptures that brings comfort and challenge alike: “Her needs matter to God.” Today, we draw our attention to a moment of tender care and deep compassion, recorded in the Gospel of John, chapter 19, verses 26 to 27. As Jesus hung on the cross, in His final moments, He addressed the
needs of His mother, Mary, entrusting her to the care of His beloved disciple, John. This act, seemingly small in the grand scale of His mission, reveals the heart of God for the individual, especially for the needs of women in His care.

As Jesus hung on the cross, He saw His mother and the disciple He loved standing nearby. In the midst of His own agony, Jesus was not self-absorbed; instead, He was mindful of His mother’s needs. With few words, He said to her, “Woman, here is your son,” and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, the disciple took her into his home. In this moment, Jesus teaches us a powerful lesson about God’s care for our individual needs.

Even in His suffering, Jesus demonstrated God’s compassionate nature. He understood the practical, emotional, and social needs of His mother in the aftermath of His death. This act is a testament to the importance God places on our physical and emotional well-being.

Jesus ensured that Mary would be cared for after His death. In doing so, He models how we are to look after the vulnerable and needy among us. It’s a clear message that God is attentive to our needs and makes provisions for us, often through the hands and hearts of those within our community.

In a time and culture where women were often marginalized and overlooked, Jesus affirms the value and dignity of women. Mary’s needs mattered to God, just as the needs of all women do. This moment underscores that God sees, hears, and responds to the needs of women with care and action.

Jesus’ instructions to Mary and John also highlight the importance of community and mutual care. He creates a new family bond between them, showing that our relationships are meant to reflect God’s care for us. In the family of God, we are called to look after one another, ensuring that no need goes unnoticed or unmet.

“Her needs matter to God” is not just a comforting thought; it’s a call to action. As followers of Christ, we are called to mirror God’s compassion and care for the needy, especially for women who have been historically undervalued and overlooked. Let us leave today with a renewed commitment to be God’s hands and feet in the world, ensuring that through our actions, everyone around us knows that they matter to God.

4. Her Voice Matters

The fourth story involves Jesus’s interaction with Mary Magdalene after His resurrection, as described in John 20:11-18.

“But Mary stood weeping outside the tomb, and as she wept she stooped to look into the tomb. And she saw two angels in white, sitting where the body of Jesus had lain, one at the head and one at the feet. They said to her, ‘Woman, why are you weeping?’ She said to them, ‘They have taken away my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid him.’ Having said this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing, but she did not know that it was Jesus. Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?’ Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, ‘Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.’ Jesus said to her, ‘Mary.’ She turned and said to him in Aramaic, ‘Rabboni!’ (which means Teacher). Jesus said to her, ‘Do not cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to my brothers and say to them, I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’ Mary Magdalene went and announced to the disciples, ‘I have seen the Lord’—and that he had said these things to her.”

In a world where voices clamor for attention, where the marginalized often feel silenced, and where many struggle to be heard, the Gospel of John offers us a profound narrative that resonates with hope and affirmation. Today, we turn our hearts to John 20:11-18, a passage that beautifully illustrates how deeply “Her Voice Matters to God.” This passage recounts the encounter of Mary Magdalene with the resurrected
Jesus, marking a moment where a woman’s voice was not only heard but also honored and entrusted with a pivotal message.

Mary Magdalene stood weeping outside the tomb of Jesus. In her grief, she encountered two angels and, subsequently, Jesus Himself, though she did not recognize Him at first. When Jesus called her by name, “Mary,” she recognized Him and responded. Jesus entrusted her with a message for His disciples, making her the first to proclaim the news of His resurrection.

In her moment of profound grief and loss, Mary’s voice expressed her deep longing and love for Jesus. Her voice mattered to God, so much so that Jesus chose to reveal Himself to her first among all His followers. This encounter underscores the value God places on the voices of those who seek Him earnestly.

Jesus’s choice of Mary Magdalene as the first witness to His resurrection is significant. In a society where a woman’s testimony was often devalued, Jesus empowered Mary to be the bearer of the most crucial message in Christian faith: “I have seen the Lord.” Through this, Jesus demonstrates that every voice, regardless of gender or societal status, is valuable and capable of carrying His truth to the world.

Jesus’s interaction with Mary Magdalene sends a clear message that women’s voices are heard and honored by God. It is a divine affirmation that in the Kingdom of God, every voice, especially those often pushed to the margins, has immense value and purpose.

“Her Voice Matters to God” is not just a statement about Mary Magdalene; it’s a truth that applies to every one of us. In a world eager to silence the voices of the faithful, let us remember the example of Jesus, who listens, affirms, and empowers. May we be a community where every voice is valued, where every story of encounter with God is cherished, and where we all feel encouraged to declare, “I have seen the Lord.”

Application

These, I believe, are great lessons to learn and valuable information. But the question is, what do we do with it? Should we actively fight for women’s rights and try to change society?

Certainly, we should stand up for their rights when conflicts or issues arise. However, I believe the true battle is internal. These lessons should guide our hearts towards Christ, allowing us to find comfort in him. This way, we can live our Christian life with joy and purpose, instead of feeling disappointed, angry, and broken.

Women in today’s society can experience feelings of dishonor in various circumstances. This can occur when they are not respected or valued in their personal or professional lives, when they are subjected to gender-based discrimination or harassment, or when they are marginalized due to their gender. They may also feel dishonored when their voices are not heard or their contributions are not acknowledged.

In these circumstances, they can find comfort in Christ and the Gospel in several ways. The teachings of Jesus highlight the inherent value and worth of every individual, regardless of gender. Christ’s interactions with women, as depicted in the Bible, show that he acknowledged, respected, and valued them. This offers a powerful reminder that women are equally valued and loved by God.

Furthermore, the Gospel message is one of grace, acceptance, and redemption. This can offer comfort to those who feel dishonored, reminding them that their worth is not defined by societal norms or expectations, but by their identity as children of God.

Finally, finding comfort in Christ also involves being part of a faith community where they are loved, supported, and valued. This community can provide a space for women to share their experiences, receive encouragement, and be affirmed in their worth and dignity.

In essence, finding comfort in Christ and the Gospel means embracing the truth of their identity as valued and loved by God, seeking his peace and assurance, and finding support and affirmation in a community of believers.

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Is the Gospel foolish? – 1 Corinthians 2:6-16

Good morning church. Hope you’re well. Wanted to welcome you all in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. If you’ve been tracking with us, you’re probably aware that we began a new series this year titled “The Church : God’s Dwelling Place” from the letter of 1st Corinthians. And what we’ve already seen is that when the Bible uses the term “church”, it doesn’t mean a building but rather the rescued people of God in whom God dwells – it’s His chosen residence!

The background of this passage is where Paul is telling us that the Message, people who receive the message and and the Messenger are considered foolish in the eyes of the world. It’s contrary to what we expect from an inspirational Ted talk. It’s radically different from what we would normally expect from a successful influencer on a podcast.

In fact in the passage that we read a couple of weeks back, Paul tells us that he makes a conscious effort to not sound extra smart or clever in his preaching so that people’s faith might not rest on his human wisdom but on God’s wisdom. He did not want to stand in the way of people getting to know and be saved by Jesus.

So that brings us to this question – In reality, is the Gospel foolish?  Is the Gospel only meant for small children which we outgrow when we become adults? Is the Gospel meant for those who only go through a hard season in life? Is the Gospel something that doesn’t stimulate your mind and affections?

Well, it all depends if you’ve put on your spiritual glasses. I remember I was in grade 6 when I got my first pair of glasses. Watching too much television took a toll on my eyes and

I was having a hard time reading what my teacher’s wrote on the blackboard. I tried squinting to make sense of the words but it finally reached a point where I told my parents and they took me to an optician to get some glasses. While the optician did the eye examination to find out my power, I remember the first time he put a lens according to my power. It was such an amazing feeling because I could finally see objects and letters clearly.

And I wonder if the apostle Paul is trying to tell us a similar thing through this passage. He’s telling us that if we’ve put on our spiritual glasses, then we’d be able to see that the Gospel is not foolish but truly wise and filled with wisdom. Not just that, but we’d be able to see how much we need it every single day.

1. The Gospel can’t be understood by worldly wisdom (v6-8)

[6] Yet among the mature we do impart wisdom, although it is not a wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are doomed to pass away. [7] But we impart a secret and hidden wisdom of God, which God decreed before the ages for our glory. [8] None of the rulers of this age understood this, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.

Paul begins v6 by telling us that “among the mature they impart wisdom”. In other words, the Gospel contains wisdom not just meant for children or new believers but also for the spiritually mature. It’s telling us that we don’t ever outgrow our need for the Gospel irrespective of how many years or how mature we are in the faith.

And then he goes on to see that this wisdom is radically different from the wisdom of the world. And he is saying that both the wisdom of this world and the rulers of this age are doomed to pass away. In other words, the wisdom of the world and worldly leaders keeps on changing. It’s temporary wisdom that is tailor made for the culture and the desires of that era. Just to give an example – some of the songs or movies or references that we used to make in the 1990’s or 2000s would be considered culturally inappropriate or culturally insensitive today. 10-20 years down the line, some of the things that we enjoy today would be culturally inappropriate and insensitive tomorrow. And so this is the worldly wisdom which keeps changing and will eventually pass away.

In contrast, v7 tells us of a wisdom which is eternal and permanent in nature. It is a secret and hidden wisdom which God decreed before the ages for our glory. In eternity past, God had already ordained this wisdom – this Gospel for our glory.

‭‭Ephesians 1:4 tells us that God chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him.

God’s desire and intention to save us and make us His holy children was not an afterthought. It was not a stop gap arrangement. It was not God’s Plan B. It was God’s Plan A. It was planned all along. That’s the beauty of the Gospel message – God didn’t send Jesus to die for us because it was culturally relevant and appropriate for the time. God had planned that all along because He loves you and me.

And then in V8, Paul says that none of the rulers of Jesus’ time understood the Gospel or if they had they wouldn’t have crucified Jesus. Just take a minute to think through all the great rulers who were involved in Jesus’ crucifixion.

Pontius Pilate representing the Roman authority. King Herod who was the proxy king on behalf of Romans. The Jewish High Priest and council representing the religious Jewish community. And all of them with all their education, skills, qualifications and even their understanding of Scripture didn’t know why Jesus came and thought it was the best solution to kill him.

But here’s the thing – God used what they meant for evil, for our good and His glory. God used the terrible injustice on the cross to save helpless sinners like you and me. 2000 years back Jesus didn’t die because He sinned. Jesus died because you and I sinned. He paid the price. He took the punishment. He was made the scapegoat for you and me.

He died and was buried and then on that Resurrection Sunday morning rose again victoriously so that whoever may turn away from their sins and put their full trust on Jesus’ work on the cross would be saved and converted into God’s Holy children. And this is not God’s last minute plan. No, this was God’s plan right throughout which He planned in eternity past and has been patiently waiting for helpless sinners like you and I to come home like the Father in the parable of the Lost Son.

And this Gospel can’t be understood by worldly wisdom. This can’t be understood by simply being educated, skilled or qualified or by listening to multiple podcasts or Ted Talks (nothing wrong with. It’s good). None of that will bring you to understanding and receiving the Gospel. In order to understand the Gospel, we need help which brings us to the next point.

2. The Gospel can only be understood with the help of God’s Spirit (v9-14)

[9] But, as it is written, “What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him”— [10] these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God. [11] For who knows a person’s thoughts except the spirit of that person, which is in him? So also no one comprehends the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. [12] Now we have received not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, that we might understand the things freely given us by God. [13] And we impart this in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the Spirit, interpreting spiritual truths to those who are spiritual. [14] The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned.

Firstly, these verses tell us that we need God’s Spirit to help us understand God’s heart and plans for us.

V9 tells us that things that we have not seen with our spiritual eyes, things that we have not heard with our spiritual ears, things that we have not even imagined, that’s what God plans and desires to reveal to us through His Spirit.

And then in v10-12, Paul uses an illustration to explain how big a deal this is. He asks the question – Who knows the deepest thoughts inside a person? His own spirit. And so who knows the deepest thoughts and plans of God? His own Spirit and that’s the very One who He has sent to come and dwell in all His children so that we could understand God’s great plans and purposes for us.

One of the lines from the song “Speak O Lord” that always moves me as I sing goes this way

Speak, O Lord, and renew our minds

Help us grasp the heights of Your plans for us

Not just that, V12 says that the Spirit is given to help us understand all things freely given to us! Our God is a loving Father who wants to share all His thoughts and His plans with us.

  • All the spiritual blessings and blood-bought promises we have access to
  • How He wants us to live as His Holy children in a broken world and
  • Also what the beautiful future looks like for us as His children

He doesn’t want to keep any secrets from His children and so He has graciously given us His own Spirit to help us understand and respond to His plans and purposes for us through the Gospel.

And then in V13, Paul says that he needs God’s Spirit to teach and explain Gospel truths to those who are spiritual. Some versions put it this way – Spirit taught truths to spiritual people.

And then in v14, Paul takes it one step further by saying that we need God’s Spirit to understand Gospel truths. In other words, if we don’t have God’s Spirit within us, we won’t be able to understand the Gospel! Which is why we could be coming to church for many years and may have heard repeated presentations of the Gospel, but still does nothing to us. Our hearts could still be hardened toward God. Our response to the Gospel could still be “I’ve heard this many times already, what’s new in this?”

The problem according to this verse is not just that we have hazy and blurry eyesight which needs to be corrected by putting on spiritual glasses. According to this verse, people are totally blind spiritually which is why we need God’s Spirit to open our eyes. It’s humbling to actually acknowledge that’s our condition and our state which is why we need to pray and ask for God’s Spirit to move over every Sunday Gathering, every Gospel Community meeting, every DNA group and also over every spiritual conversation that we have with our family, friends and coworkers who don’t yet know Jesus because unless God’s Spirit moves and melts their heart, they can’t even understand the Gospel. It will be like Greek to the hearers.

But not only is the Gospel not understood by worldly wisdom, not only can the Gospel be understood by God’s Spirit but also

3. The Gospel helps us understand ourselves and the world around us (v15-16)

[15] The spiritual person judges all things, but is himself to be judged by no one. [16] “For who has understood the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ.

If we read this verse without a context, we can easily misinterpret it. Paul is not saying that believers should think of themselves as more superior than others and not be subject to any correction or examination. In this context, Paul is saying that because believers have their spiritual eyes open, they can more accurately see and understand themselves and the world around them. Believers are able to have a spiritual eternity perspective to everything that happens in the world which won’t make sense to unbelievers.

Like when we see corruption and politics of the world, as believers we acknowledge that the problem is not that we don’t have a strong enough justice system but is that the human heart is corrupted and needs to be redeemed with the Gospel. When we see sexual abuse in society, as believers we don’t see illiteracy or lack of awareness as the problem, we acknowledge that the human heart is corrupted with lust and pride and needs to be redeemed with the Gospel. When we see our coworker at work do whatever needs to be done to get that promotion, we acknowledge that the problem is a heart that is looking for something in their job which only God through the Gospel can provide.

But do we get it right all the time? Are we able to view ourselves and the world accurately everytime? No, there are many times even the the last week where we’ve put pn our fleshy glasses but the encouragement is in v16.

The passage says “But we have the mind of Christ”. Which means that we have been given the capacity to think like Jesus Christ. Are all our thoughts and desires aligned to Jesus? Not yet, but it’s progressively being changed and transformed into the mind of our Lord Jesus. And so with the help of the Spirit based on the word ot God, our hearts and minds are being changed to think and see ourselves and the world around us just as Jesus see and thinks. And one day we will be able to do that perfectly – when our Savior Jesus returns. What a wonderful hope for people like us – who were once totally blind but now through the message of the Gospel and the work of the Spirit are able to see with clarity!

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Christ Crucified: The Message You Need To Hear Today – 1 Corinthians 2:1-5

Good morning everyone! I hope you’re all doing well and also a warm welcome to those watching online. This Sunday we’re continuing with our sermon series in 1 Corinthians titled “The Church: God’s Dwelling Place”.

Last week when Saju preached we saw what kind of place and culture the people of Corinth were living in. Corinth was a rich city set up by the Greeks then later taken over by the Romans. So there was Greek and Roman influence in their culture, religion, governance, etc. And this is the place Paul came and preached the gospel in. After Paul spent a year and a half there, he left to continue his journey. But he heard bad reports about the church and as a result he wrote two letters to the Corinthians and even made a quick visit to them.

Two of the problems the Apostle Paul addressed were divisions among the church and the problem of people giving worldly wisdom too much of importance.

Last week we heard Paul challenging the so-called wise people there. He reminded them that the wisdom of the world is foolishness in God’s sight. And what seems like the folly of God is actually true wisdom.

And Paul reminded the Corinthians that they were not wise according to the world’s standards but God still chose them. Because of God, they were in Christ Jesus who became to them wisdom, righteousness, sanctification and redemption.

Now in 2:1-5, Paul is taking it further and saying that were saved not by lofty speech or plausible words of wisdom but by the foolish message of the crucifixion. He said he decided to know nothing but Jesus Christ and him crucified. Paul was no fool. He could have given the best sermons yet he took a firm decision to preach Christ crucified.

Why did Paul decide to only know Jesus Christ and Him crucified?

Because he knew that this was the message that saves. it was in this message that the Spirit of God actually works. Not through lofty speech or words of wisdom but through a simple yet too-good-to-be true story.

But remember, here’s he’s saying this because the Corinthians had a tendency to put their faith in eloquent speech or run after the sophisticated and learned people because it meant higher status for them.

That was the problem for them and the message they needed to hear when Paul first visited them and even when he was writing this letter.

If Paul was writing a letter to us today, do you think he would say anything different? Is there a message we need to hear other than the Lord Jesus Christ dying on the cross and rising after three days?

No, it wouldn’t be. We don’t need to hear a message about some interesting theological topic or some practical ways on how to be a good man or woman, and certainly we don’t need to hear false doctrines like doing good deeds to earn salvation or trusting God for greater wealth and possessions.

And also, we don’t need a message that just says what a portion of Scripture says and the history behind it and the Greek translation and some nice story connected to it.

What we need is the powerful, miraculous, saving message of the gospel. And we need it to hear it every day starting from Sunday till we meet again for service on Sunday.

Why do we need to hear this message every week?

1) Because it is the power of God (v4)

This is the power that saves you from you sin and keeps you going till your last day on this earth. Just to avoid any confusion, I want to make I want to categorically state the message I’m talking about. The message is this, we are helpless sinners who have offended a holy God. How have we offended? By lying, gossiping, hating, lusting, backbiting, grumbling, abusing, cheating and more. God is a just God who will punish sins. And He should punish you and me for the sins we’ve committed. But God being a merciful God did not punish you but punished His own Son, Jesus Christ. The Son of God became man to die a horrible death to cleanse us from sin and rise again three days later so that we could become sons and daughters of God. Now whoever believes in Jesus will not perish but have eternal life.

By coming back to this good news again and again you’ll experience the power of God in your life. The power to overcome sin, even that sin that you commit repeatedly, the power to have joy in the midst of painful circumstances, the power of peace when you’re in a difficult situation, the power to believe in the goodness of God even when the worst happens in your life.

2) And the second reason to hear this message is because of our tendency to put our faith in people or things other than God (v5).

For the Corinthians, it was lofty speech and words of wisdom. For us it could be different. The allure and safety we find in money, or the meaning we derive solely from our jobs, or the idea that finding love in a husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend is the pinnacle of life or the opposite where running away from marriage to keep the illusion of freedom and independence. It all boils down to the idea that we can handle our life alone and we not dependant on the Almighty, we don’t need God, we have money, spouses, children, friends, jobs, hobbies, entertainment, books, movies, music, everything is available at the tap of your phone. We are more prone to depend on these than we’d like to admit.

But Paul here and the Spirit of God is directing us to not put our faith in these things. But faith in the One who cares for you.

What was Paul’s stance when he was with the Corinthians? It says it was in weakness, in fear and trembling. Some commentaries say he was physically weak because of the missionary journey he undertook, going from city to city, sailing the seas, facing persecution and beatings. That is possible. But he was also in fear and trembling because of the seriousness of his work and the magnitude of his message. This is was not some news that peoples lives were going to get better but it was a message that the God of the universe cares and loves someone small like you that He sent someone to rescue you from your sin. The greatness of the message humbled him. And God worked through that.

One direct application here is whenever you get a chance to share the gospel with your friends or family, you should know that God can save them even if you don’t share it as well as you’d like. Because God’s power doesn’t rest on your strength but works through your weakness. If they do believe because you shared both you who shared and the one who heard can say that “only the Lord could do this”. Not that you should be incoherent. You should do your best to present the gospel message as clearly as possible along with how that affected you personally. Even if it doesn’t come out great, God will still use it.

Secondly, the weakness, fear and trembling that Paul adopted is a general way we should live our life. Not that we should be scared or be weak. But in the sight of God we should humble ourselves and throw our full dependence on Him and not on our own strength.

So if you’re feeling your sense of inadequacy at a peak today or recently, it’s time to run to God. You know what God does to people who humble themselves before Him? You know the story of the prodigal son? The father ran towards the younger son when he saw him from afar. it’s the same for you. If you come in humility and trust in Jesus, He will lovingly welcome you. Not that you were out of His sight. In Mathew 12:20 it says that Jesus will not break a bruised reed and a smoking flax He will not quench. This means that when people who are physically and morally weak come to Jesus He will heal and lift up. Those who recognise their sin and admit it before God will be forgiven and lifted.

Also, those who don’t realise that they’re broken will be humbled. Maybe you’re someone who’s not put your faith in Christ. Maybe you’re thinking all is well I don’t need God because I have my money, my brains, my hard work. But God is calling you today to not depend on the wisdom of man, or the things of the world, but Jesus Christ and Him crucified. Believe in Him today and you will be saved. Amen.

So, what you heard today is a message you need to hear everyday, i.e. Christ crucified for our sakes. Why do we need to hear this message? Because it is the power of God that saves and brings sweeping changes to our life. And secondly because of our tendency to trust in our own wisdom.

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True Wisdom Revealed – 1Corinthians 1:18-31

by Saju Joseph

The sermon is part of a series called “The Church: God’s Dwelling Place”, which focuses on studying the epistle 1 Corinthians.

In the previous sermon, we discussed church unity and recognized that the church in Corinth was far from perfect. There were clear divisions among its members, which Paul had to address and redirect their focus towards Christ. Not only were there internal conflicts, but there were also external influences confusing the people. In today’s passage, we see Paul addressing these issues. They were living under the influence of an ungodly culture that was constantly speaking to them and distracting them away from the Gospel as follows …

  1. Jewish Religious Leaders and Thinkers: Within the Jewish community, the influence of the Pharisees and Sadducees, along with various rabbis and teachers of the Law, would have been significant. Figures such as Gamaliel, a respected Pharisee teacher mentioned in Acts 5:34-39 and under whom Paul studied (Acts 22:3), could have indirectly influenced the religious landscape. The teachings and traditions handed down by such leaders shaped the Jewish understanding of the Law, ethics, and the expectation of a Messiah.
  2. Greek Philosophers: The teachings of Greek philosophers such as Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle continued to exert a profound influence on
    Corinthian society. Although these men lived before Paul’s time, their ideas on ethics, metaphysics, and the nature of the divine permeated Hellenistic culture. The Stoics and Epicureans, with their respective emphases on living in accordance with nature and the pursuit of pleasure as the highest good, were actively discussed in Paul’s era.
  3. Pagan Priests and Religious Functionaries: The priests and priestesses of the various temples in Corinth, dedicated to gods like Aphrodite, Apollo, and Poseidon, played significant roles in the city’s religious practices. These individuals would have been central figures in performing rituals, sacrifices, and festivals integral to the Greco-Roman religion.
  4. Mystery Cult Leaders: Mystery religions, which offered initiates secret knowledge and promises of personal salvation or immortality, were popular in this period. Cults dedicated to deities such as Isis, Mithras, and the Eleusinian mysteries centered around Demeter and Persephone had their own leaders and hierophants guiding initiates through the mysteries.
  5. Itinerant Preachers and Philosophers: The first century saw various itinerant preachers, prophets, and philosophers traveling from city to city. These figures, some of whom might have claimed divine inspiration or wisdom, contributed to the eclectic spiritual milieu of the time, offering new religious ideas and practices.

If we observe closely, we will learn that our generation is not very different from today.

Similarly, religious leaders, new-age philosophers, cult leaders, and influencers constantly share their man-made wisdom, speaking into our lives and influencing our thoughts.

In this context, I believe Paul’s insight and encouragement are still quite relevant to us today. I want to share three lessons that we can learn from this passage.

1. Worldly Wisdom is Perishable Wisdom – 1 Corinthians 1:18-22

In his first letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul delves deep into the contrast between human and divine wisdom, particularly in 1 Corinthians 1:1822. This passage serves as a profound reminder of the transient nature of worldly wisdom compared to God’s eternal and unchanging wisdom. By carefully examining these verses, we are invited to reconsider our understanding of true wisdom and its source.

Paul begins by highlighting the paradoxical nature of the gospel’s message: “For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God” (1 Corinthians 1:18, NIV). This stark contrast sets the stage for exploring the limitations of human intellect and the transformative power of divine wisdom.

The pursuit of wisdom, knowledge, and understanding is a noble endeavor. Yet, Paul cautions us that the wisdom of this world is ultimately perishable and limited. He argues that worldly wisdom, no matter how sophisticated or advanced it may seem, falls short of capturing the essence of God’s plan for salvation through Jesus Christ. This divine plan appears foolish to the worldly wise because it challenges the conventional metrics of power, success, and intelligence.

In verses 19 and 20, Paul quotes the prophet Isaiah, saying, “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate” (1 Corinthians 1:19, NIV). Here, Paul underscores the idea that God’s wisdom transcends human understanding and can overturn the established order of things. The rhetorical questions that follow, “Where is the wise person? Where is the teacher of the law? Where is the philosopher of this age?” (1 Corinthians1:20, NIV), serve to emphasize further the futility of relying solely on human wisdom for ultimate answers and meaning.

Paul’s message in 1 Corinthians 1:18-22 is not a dismissal of human wisdom but a call to recognize its limitations and place our ultimate trust in God’s wisdom. He invites us to see beyond the temporary and often misleading allure of worldly wisdom to embrace the eternal wisdom found in the gospel of Christ.

The passage serves as a potent reminder that while human wisdom may provide temporary solutions and partial understanding, God’s wisdom offers true salvation and eternal life. This divine wisdom, symbolized by the cross, may seem foolish, but it holds the key to our redemption and the ultimate truth about our existence.

In a world that often prioritizes knowledge, achievement, and intellectual prowess, Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 1:18-22 challenge us to reevaluate our sources of wisdom. “Worldly Wisdom is Perishable Wisdom” serves as a poignant reflection on the enduring value of divine wisdom over this world’s fleeting and fallible wisdom.

2. Godly Wisdom is Wisdom with Power – 1 Corinthians 1:24-25

In the heart of his first letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul presents a profound theological insight that challenges conventional notions of wisdom and power. Through 1 Corinthians 1:24-25, Paul articulates a transformative idea: the wisdom of God, as manifested in the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, is not only a different kind of wisdom but is indeed wisdom that comes with inherent power. This passage invites believers and seekers alike to rethink their understanding of true wisdom and its source of strength.

Paul writes, “But to those whom God has called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God. For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength” (1 Corinthians 1:24-25, NIV). These verses encapsulate the essence of Christian faith, revealing that what the world often dismisses as foolish or weak is, in reality, the embodiment of divine power and wisdom.

The Paradox of the Cross

At the core of Paul’s message is the cross—a symbol of shame and defeat turned into the ultimate expression of God’s power and wisdom. The
crucifixion, seen through worldly eyes, represents the utmost folly and weakness. Yet, Paul asserts that it is precisely in this apparent defeat that the infinite wisdom and invincible power of God are most clearly displayed. The cross, therefore, becomes a paradoxical sign that overturns worldly values and expectations.

Divine Wisdom as Transformative Power

God’s wisdom, as revealed through Christ and the cross, is not merely an abstract concept or a philosophical proposition. It is dynamic and
transformative, capable of changing lives and destinies. This wisdom goes beyond mere intellectual understanding; it is a living, breathing force that brings salvation, healing, and hope to a broken world. It is wisdom with power because it accomplishes what no human wisdom could ever achieve— reconciliation between God and humanity

The Strength in Divine “Foolishness” and “Weakness

Paul’s reference to the “foolishness” and “weakness” of God is a rhetorical strategy designed to highlight the vast difference between God’s ways and human ways. What humans perceive as foolishness in God’s plan (the sacrifice of His Son) is, in fact, a wisdom far surpassing the greatest human insights. Similarly, what appears as weakness (Christ’s suffering and death) is strength unparalleled, for it conquered sin and death itself. Thus, God’s wisdom and power are most profoundly known in what the world underestimates or overlooks.

A Call to Reorient Our Understanding

1 Corinthians 1:24-25 calls us to reorient our understanding of wisdom and power. In a world that often idolizes strength, success, and intellectual achievement, Paul invites us to find our ultimate trust and hope in the wisdom and power of God as revealed through Jesus Christ. This passage challenges believers to embrace a wisdom that may confound the wise and a strength that may baffle the strong, according to worldly standards.

The Implications for Believers

For believers, this understanding has practical implications. It means that in our weakness, we can find God’s strength. In our confusion, we can seek God’s wisdom. And in our trials, we can trust in the power of the cross. The wisdom and power of God are not abstract concepts but tangible realities that can guide, sustain, and empower us in our daily lives.

“God’s Wisdom is Wisdom with Power” is not just a theological assertion but a call to experience the transformative power of divine wisdom in our lives. Through 1 Corinthians 1:24-25, Paul reminds us that the ultimate measure of wisdom and strength is found not in human achievements but in the depth of God’s love demonstrated on the cross.

3. Evidence of God’s Wisdom is our Transformed Lives – 1 Corinthians 1:26-31

In his letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul highlights a profound principle that underlies the Christian faith: the evidence of God’s wisdom is not seen in the grandeur of human achievements or the eloquence of our words but in the transformative power of our lives. Through 1 Corinthians 1:26-31, Paul invites us to reflect on the divine strategy that employs what the world considers foolish and weak to manifest His wisdom and power. This passage provides a compelling argument that the accurate measure of divine wisdom is the profound transformation it brings to individuals and communities.

The Divine Choice: The Foolish and the Weak

Paul begins by reminding the Corinthians of their own stories: “Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth” (1 Corinthians 1:26, NIV). This is not merely a reflection on social status or intellectual capability but a profound commentary on God’s choice to use the ordinary, the overlooked, and the undervalued as primary vessels of His work. In doing so, God ensures that His wisdom and power are the focal points of transformation, not human merit or ability.

The Purpose of Divine Wisdom: To Confound the Wise

Paul explains that God’s strategy is to confound this world’s wise and the strong by choosing what they deem foolish and weak. This approach is not aimed at belittling human wisdom or achievements but at redefining the source and nature of true wisdom and power. The transformation of lives previously bound by sin, ignorance, or despair into testimonies of grace, knowledge, and hope is a powerful counter-narrative to the world’s definitions of success and significance.

The Outcome of Divine Wisdom: Transformation

The most striking evidence of God’s wisdom is the transformation it brings to individual lives and, by extension, to communities. When individuals who were once lost find purpose, when those who were broken find healing, and when those who were marginalized find a place of belonging in the body of Christ, the wisdom of God is vividly demonstrated. This transformation is not merely moral improvement but a fundamental reorientation of identity, value, and purpose.

The Basis of Boasting: In the Lord

Paul concludes this section with a powerful warning: “Therefore, as it is written: ‘Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord'” (1 Corinthians 1:31, NIV). This is the culmination of his argument that the actual evidence of God’s wisdom is not in human credentials or achievements but in the transformative work of God in our lives. Our boasting is not in our wisdom, strength, or status but in the Lord, who is the source of our transformation and true identity.

Practical Implications for Believers

This passage calls believers to a humility that recognizes the source of our transformation and to a confidence that rests not in our abilities but in God’s power. It challenges us to view our lives as testimonies of God’s wisdom and embrace our identity in Christ as the accurate measure of our worth. Furthermore, it encourages the church to be a community where the transformative power of God’s wisdom is evident and celebrated, a place where the stories of changed lives offer hope and inspiration to a world searching for meaning.

“Evidence of God’s Wisdom is Our Transformed Lives” is more than a theological assertion; it is a call to witness the remarkable ways in which the wisdom of God manifests in the everyday lives of believers. Through 1 Corinthians 1:26-31, Paul invites us to see our own stories as part of the broader narrative of God’s redemptive work. In this narrative, the most compelling evidence of divine wisdom is the transformation of lives once bound by the world’s limitations but now set free to embody the fullness of God’s grace and power.

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Church Unity – 1 Corinthians‬ ‭1:10‭-‬17

Good morning church! Hope you all are doing okay and have been able to settle back into your rhythms after the retreat last weekend. I’ve always viewed retreats like these as mountain top experiences where we enjoy deep, enriching fellowship with God and each other. But once the weekend was done and we got back to the city and Monday arrived, I’m sure we were hit with the hard reality of life and all of its struggles.

And I’m not sure how each of us are coping with that, but I just want you to know that God desires to comfort and bring you rest through our Sunday Gathering. He does that as His Word is sung, read and preached this morning.

If you’ve been tracking with us, you’re probably aware that we began a new series this year titled “The Church : God’s Dwelling Place” from the letter of 1st Corinthians. And what we’ve already seen is that when the Bible uses the term “church”, it doesn’t mean a building but rather the rescued people of God in whom God dwells – it’s His chosen residence!

In today’s passage we will begin to see how God’s dwelling place, His chosen residence – His church isn’t as perfect as one would expect it to be. There are leaks, cracks and gaping holes in the life of the church which need repairs. What is to be done? Before we proceed, I’d love to pray for us.

Some years back there was an interesting survey that blew up on social media. A lot of church leaders and members of churches decided to talk about different fights and divisions that took place in their church. Some of them were quite silly and absurd:

  • One church experienced conflict over the appropriate length of the worship pastor’s beard
  • Another church had a 45-minute heated argument over the type of filing cabinet to purchase: black or brown; 2, 3, or 4 drawers
  • Another church had a dispute because the Lord’s Supper had cran/grape juice instead of grape juice
  • Another church had a fight over whether or not to sing “Happy Birthday” each week

And these are some of the silly reasons for fights but you and I who have been around churches know that for many other serious reasons, things can get quite nasty in the church. In fact, I’d go on to say that in some cases the kind of division, infighting and quarreling that takes place among the church members is probably not seen anywhere else. And it makes us wonder if this is the case, how is church unity going to be attained? Is church unity an unattainable dream? That’s precisely why we have God’s Word because it tells us that the church in Corinth was no different than our church as well. Today’s passage will give 3 different lessons on “church unity” from the Corinthian church:

1.The appeal for unity (v10)

[10] I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment.

The word “appeal means “to ask someone urgently and fervently to do something”. Paul is pleading, earnestly asking the Corinthian church to do something. And what is he appealing them to do?

He is earnestly asking them to “agree with each other”. He’s asking them to not have “any divisions among them”. He’s asking them to be “united in the same mind and same judgment”. He is appealing for church unity!

And pay close attention – he’s not making this appeal to the Corinthians on his own authority. He’s making this appeal on behalf / as a representative of the Lord Jesus Christ.

This should tell us something. This should tell us that church unity wasn’t originally Paul’s idea. It wasn’t originally the early church’s idea. Church unity was always God’s idea. Paul was simply a mouthpiece echoing the earnest and desperate desire of the Lord Jesus Christ to see unity in His church. This was always God’s idea!

But what does church unity actually mean? What does it mean to have the same mind and same judgment? Is he telling them that they need to talk the same way, think the same way and behave exactly the same way in order to be united?

I don’t think Paul is telling them to be identical to each other inorder to achieve unity. If that were the case, then he wouldn’t later on speak so much on different people using their different spiritual gifts to build the church.

So then what is this unity? I think what he’s talking about is unity in identity and purpose. In other words, what Paul is trying to do is remind the Corinthian church about their common identity and common purpose. ‭‭When Paul writes his letter to the Ephesians, he elaborates on this theme of unity a little more. Look with me at

Ephesians‬ ‭4:1‭-6:

[1] I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, [2] with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, [3] eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. [4] There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— [5] one Lord, one faith, one baptism, [6] one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

There maybe a billion ways in which we are different from each other – from our personalities, to our cultural background, our upbringing, our age group, our stage in life, our giftings, our passions, and skills but yet because of the Gospel of Jesus and what it has done to us, we all have a common identity and common purpose. That is the uniting factor. That is the common denominator. That is the superglue that holds us all together.

One of the most helpful marriage advice that we’ve received is this – “that me and my wife are on the same team”. Many times when we get caught up in our own sinful, petty arguments, we often forget that we’re on the same team. So it’s been helpful for us as couple to give each other frequent reminders that we both are on the same team. And it helps us stop and ask ourselves this question – “does this argument make any sense if we’re on the same team?”

And as I was reading this passage, it almost felt like that it was the same thing which Paul was doing with the Corinthian church. Through his appeal, he’s basically telling them that “You’re on the same team.

You’ve got the same common identity. You’ve got the same common purpose. Do these divisions even make any sense?”

And so if we’re here today wondering why should we be concerned and work towards church unity – it’s because it’s God’s idea and it’s because we’ve got a common identity and purpose. We are on the same team.

But not only is there an appeal for unity but also there are

2.The barriers for unity (v11-12)

[11] For it has been reported to me by Chloe’s people that there is quarreling among you, my brothers. [12] What I mean is that each one of you says, “I follow Paul,” or “I follow Apollos,” or “I follow Cephas,” or “I follow Christ.”

V11 starts by Paul addressing the elephant in the room. There was quarreling happening within the church. In other words, this wasn’t a minor disagreement. This was a bitter, heated argument that the church was engaged in over a long period of time. Relational bridges were burnt for a long time.

But what were they quarreling over? They were quarreling over which spiritual leader’s camp they belonged to. Some said they belonged to Paul’s camp. Some others said they belonged to Apollo’s camp. Some others said they belonged to Peter’s camp. Some others said they belonged to Jesus’ camp.

And I was trying to imagine why would this be something that would cause such a big issue in the church. It probably started with them idolizing and making a hero out of these spiritual leaders. The next stage could have been where they are trying to see themselves as superior compared to others as a result of the camp that they’re in. The next stage after that could have been looking down on others and also insulting their “rival” camps. And so instead of spending their time growing in the Lord and being on mission for the Lord, they were preoccupied with this rivalry and infighting within the church.

I hope you’re able to see this by now. What’s evident from here is that their main barrier for unity was the sin barrier. It wasn’t a knowledge barrier. It’s not as though they didn’t know the theory of church unity. It wasn’t a communication barrier. It was not as though they didn’t know how to communicate with each other. Their main barrier was the sin barrier. 

Until and unless we call it out as “sin”, we’ll never be in a position to resolve disunity, conflict and division within the church. We have to admit that the root cause is a heart issue.

This is how ‭‭James puts it in James‬ ‭4:1‬

[1] What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?

Jesus says this “out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks”. (Luke 6:45)

One of the reasons we would rather chose to give it labels of “communication issues within the church” or “misunderstandings in the church” or “difference of opinion” than call it as “sin” is because the moment we call it as sin, we are in a way admitting our helplessness to dealing with sin. Why? Because from a biblical perspective, we know that sin can’t merely be managed on the surface. It needs to be uprooted.

Here’s the thing – calling it as sin and admitting our helplessness isn’t a bad thing at all. In fact it is a good thing because it brings us to the foot of the cross. That’s our last point.

Not only is there an appeal for unity and not only is there a barrier for unity, there’s also

3.The recipe for unity (v13-17)

[13] Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul? [14] I thank God that I baptized none of you except Crispus and Gaius, [15] so that no one may say that you were baptized in my name. [16] (I did baptize also the household of Stephanas. Beyond that, I do not know whether I baptized anyone else.) [17] For Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel, and not with words of eloquent wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power.

If you just read these few verses, you may wonder how can these verses be a recipe for unity. It just seems like Paul’s asking a few questions, talking about who he baptized and ends by stating his calling and purpose. It seems unrelated to the church division or conflict mentioned earlier.

But let me invite you to look at those verses again in context. In V13, Paul is asking the church a few rhetorical questions (questions meant to make a statement rather than investigate) to help them understand where they are going wrong and what is the solution.

First question: Is Christ divided? The answer is No. And if Christ isn’t divided, can His body (the church) be divided? Absolutely not.

Second question: Was Paul crucified for you? Obviously not. It was Jesus – God’s own Son who left His heavenly dwelling, emptied Himself and took the form of man and lived the perfect life that all of us needed to live unto God (perfect obedience). And then died the death that we all deserved to die in our place. He took the fall and thought of us while He was paying off the entire punishment and penalty for our sins. He died and was buried in a tomb and then on the Third Day rose from the dead because that was God’s stamp of approval stating that Jesus’ work was complete and now there’s nothing in the world that can stop anyone from coming to Him if they trust in Jesus.

Third question: Were you baptized in the name of Paul? One hundred percent No. They were baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Their baptism was a declaration of their fidelity and loyalty to King Jesus who willingly and lovingly laid down His life for them. Last Sunday while we witnessed the baptism of Alaric, that’s what we saw. It was a declaration of his fidelity and loyalty to King Jesus who willingly and lovingly laid down His life for him.

So what was Paul trying to do by asking these rhetorical questions? He was trying to tell them “I’m not your hero. I’m not your Savior. I can’t even carry the burden to be your hero and Savior. Jesus is your hero and Savior.”

In fact in V17, as he restates his purpose to preach the gospel, he makes sure that he adds a disclaimer to say that he doesn’t use words of eloquent wisdom or that the cross of Christ be emptied of His power. In other words, Paul is saying that when he preaches to them, he intentionally and consciously tries to not sound “clever or over smart” but presents the gospel in the most simple, basic way so that people are able to experience the full power of the gospel without any contamination.

Paul is willing to move into the background and conscious to not steal the limelight. Why? Jesus is their Hero. Jesus is their Savior. Jesus is their King.

In all of the squabbling and quarreling, the Corinthian church had forgotten who their Savior is. And similarly I wonder if all conflicts and divisions we find in the church are somehow rooted in a forgetting who our Savior is.

If we go down to the root of all the conflict and division in the church, you’ll find the sin of pride and self centredness. It’s the quest of people trying to prove that they are right and to demand that they need to be served. It’s a quest of people trying to claim the position of a Savior for themselves. That’s why we need to tell each other the Gospel. We need to tell each other that Jesus already proved us right before Holy God (not because we are good and right) but by sacrificing Himself for us. And if our Savior took the humble position of a servant to save us, then shouldn’t it melt our hearts to want to serve each other just like how we were treated by Jesus?

As we remind each other of this every single day, God is uprooting the sin of pride and selfishness from our hearts. And one day He will completely eradicate your life from every hint and ounce of pride and selfishness when He returns.

He is your Hero. He is your Savior. He is your King. And He is the only recipe for unity.

Maybe you’re here today caught up in the middle of a conflict. Or maybe you know someone who is in the middle of a conflict. Or maybe you will get caught up in conflict soon. What do you need to do?

  • Admit to the real barrier for unity which is sin in the heart. Don’t downplay or minimize it. Call it out as it is and admit to your helplessness in dealing with your sin.
  • Repent and remember who your Savior is. Look at Jesus. He is your Hero. He is your Savior. He is your King. He is the only One who can help you address the sin issue which causes conflict.
  • Pursue reconciliation knowing fully well that God desires unity and also that we all are part of the same team.

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I Crave Love – 1 John 4:16-21

Good evening everyone! Hope everyone’s settling in well at the resort. We really want this weekend to be restful and life giving to you. We intend for everyone to experience physical, mental and spiritual rest along with the community.

As most of you might be aware – we do have a theme for the retreat this year and it’s called iCrave. It’s a catchy way of leading us into a conversation on the cravings, longings and desires of our hearts.

This theme is inspired from this verse from 1 Pet 2:2:

Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation,

I remember reading this verse when Hannah was just born, and it spoke to me in such a fresh way. Until her birth, I didn’t realize the extent of the hunger cravings that newborns had. I was surprised by the frequency and the intensity by which my newborn was feeding on milk. Let me tell you – handling a hungry newborn baby is not an easy task.

But would you say that craving to be fed is a bad thing for babies? No, it’s a good thing so that they could be fed and satisfied. So the craving in itself isn’t a bad thing, the question is how is the craving being satisfied? Is the craving being satisfied with milk or something else which is unhealthy?

Similarly when it comes to our hearts, what are we satisfying our cravings with? Is it with the “pure spiritual milk” which is God’s Word or is it by worldly knowledge or life experiences or feelings? And what we want to do through the entire retreat is anchor our conversations around God’s Word – and the reason we’re doing that is to feed our cravings with what is healthy – what will truly satisfy and not leave us empty and dry.

And even as we’re talking through this, we want to be genuine and honest ourselves. We’re not talking here as experts. Like all of you, we are students and need help from God to enable us to feed our cravings with what is healthy and pure and good.

So we will kick off our sessions with the topic iCrave love. And our bible passage will be from 1 John 4:16-21

16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. 19 We love because he first loved us. 20 If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot[a] love God whom he has not seen. 21 And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.

Have you ever wondered why romance as a genre never gets old? Be it movies or TV shows or books – romance as a genre never goes out of fashion. Why is that the case? And it’s not just popular among the singles, it’s true among the married as well? Some might say it’s because it’s relatable entertainment, but could it be coming from a deeper heart craving to be fully known and also fully loved? There’s this innate desire and longing in all of us to be fully known and also fully loved by someone.

And if we are not searching for it in movies, we’re looking for someone to love us that way (fully know us and love us) – maybe we’re looking for it in our spouse, maybe we’re looking for it in our partner or someone who would marry us, maybe we’re looking for it in our children or maybe we’re looking for it from our parents. Someone who can fully know us and fully love us.

The unfortunate part is that there is no one on the face of the earth who is able to carry that burden of expectation.There’s no one who can perfectly love us that way. Because this requires a perfect, a complete, a relentless love which none of us sadly have the inbuilt capacity to offer.

Which is why today’s passage is so apt because it was written to a people who were unsettled in their faith. And this passage was written to remind of the rock solid assurance they can find in God’s love.

What is this kind of love which completes us and assures us?

1. Unconditional love (v16)

16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.

As we read this verse, the immediate question which comes to our minds is “what is the love that God has for us?” Unconditional, yes but what does unconditional love actually mean? What does it look like?

Apostle John who wrote this letter helps us define that a few verses earlier in verses 9 and 10.

[9] In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. [10] In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
There seems to be at least 3 things we can understand about unconditional love.

Sacrificial (v9)

[9] In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him.

It’s a love which involved great sacrifice. He didn’t just send something or someone who didn’t matter much to Him. He didn’t send a proxy or his secretary into the world. He sent his “only” Son into the world to give us life.

Think about how big a deal that is. What was most dear and precious to God the Father was His own Son – the apple of His eye, His favored and loved Son in whom He was fully pleased. And that was the One whom He chose to send into the world.

As parents we would think twice before sending our children in an area which is risky, and here God sent His Son into the world not only knowing the full risk but also knowing what would eventually happen to Him. That was major sacrifice.

Not transactional

[10] In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us

God didn’t wait for us to love Him first – as a precondition to loving us back. It wasn’t a love that was dependent on how we loved God. It wasn’t transactional. It wasn’t “matlabi” love which says I will love you only as long as you treat me and love me as I expect you to.

No, it’s a love where God took the initiative to love us way before we even realized it.

Costly

V10….and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.

What does propitiation mean? It’s basically a big word that tells us that a sacrifice had to be made to quench / satisfy the holy anger of God and turn His anger into favor toward us.

Because God is Holy and Just, He can’t simply overlook sin and say “chalta hai”. The Bible refers to God as “a consuming fire”. Imagine a piece of paper or wood that falls into a blazing furnace, it gets burnt up within seconds. And now imagine people like us who are sinful coming into contact with God, we will be burnt up. We can’t survive. We will be destroyed.

The beauty of the Gospel is that not only did God send His Son sacrificially without any transaction or condition, but that He offered His Son to be burnt up instead of us. And it wasn’t a lack of love for His Son. It was His Son Jesus after all – His most precious one. He did that because He knew that was the Only way to satisfy His Holy anger over our sin and be able to show favor instead of anger toward us. It came at the highest cost to save us. The treasure of heaven was emptied and spent so that you and I could be saved. It didn’t come cheap.

That’s the unconditional love of God. But not only that, it is also a

2. Secure love (v17-18)

17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. 18

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.
These verses are basically saying that through the love God showed us in Jesus, He has removed every single reason for us to approach Him with guilty fear.

In fact verse 18 says that God’s love and guilty fear do not go hand in hand. And the argument is this – guilty fear is ultimately a fear of punishment. It’s a fear of facing the punishment that we rightly deserve.

But because of the unconditional love of God – sacrificial, non-transactional and costly love of God in Jesus, as people who have trusted in that love, we don’t need to fear punishment because Jesus already bore that punishment for us.

And because Jesus already bore that punishment for us, God looks on us with great favor and love and because He does that we don’t have to ever fear approaching God.

There is immense security and safety that we experience because of God’s love. Now does that mean that God is pleased with us when we sin? No, off course it displeases Him. But here’s the thing, it doesn’t make us feel insecure about how God’s going to respond to us. Because of God’s unconditional love in Jesus, we can still experience security and that security actually drives us to repentance. True security and safety actually helps us repent.

I’ve always been encouraged by Angie’s relationship with my mom in law. She would often tell me that growing up, she couldn’t keep a secret from her mom because of the security and safety they enjoyed in their relationship. She knew she couldn’t break the immense trust that her mom had on her. And even in days when she would mess up, knowing that her mom loves her, is for her, knowing that their relationship is safe and secure, would help her to go and confess that to her mom.

Similarly in much more greater ways, the secure love of God not just removes fear but enables us to repent and come to him.
But not only is this an unconditional and a secure love, it is also a

3. Transforming love (v19-21)

19 We love because he first loved us. 20 If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot[a] love God whom he has not seen. 21 And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.

It’s a love that transforms us – it changes the way we love God and love each other. V19 starts by telling us that “we love because he first loved us”.

When we realize that God shows His unconditional and secure love in spite of knowing everything about us, that does something to us. It changes our hearts to respond to him in love.

Although we don’t have the inbuilt capacity to love God, God’s unconditional and secure love enables us to love him in trust, joy and obedience.

I mean how else can we respond to someone who has been so loving to us? And that’s why week after week during our Sunday Gatherings, GCs and DNA groups we aren’t demanding and questioning people on why they aren’t loving God as they should. “Why are you not obeying God, why are you not living a life as you should, why are you not trusting Him”…that’s not what we spend most of our time on. We know that the only way to make us love God is by reminding each other of the love that God has for us in Jesus.

In the same way, V20 and 21 says this – if you’ve understood and experienced God’s unconditional and secure love, then that should enable you to love those around you in the same way – without conditions and without insecurity. And a lack of love with each other, reveals a forgetfulness of what God has done for us.

When me and Angie analyze almost all of our arguments and fights that we’ve had, we’ve come to this conclusion that the root was demanding and expecting love from each other that only God can provide. And so through hard lessons in our marriage, God has taught us how important it is to daily remember and receive His love for us in Jesus. The moment we forget that, we’re going to be left with just laying down conditions on each other, and also creating an insecure relationship that is constantly filled with fear. Fear of messing up and the consequences for messing up.

And that’s why this love is a transforming love. It changes you, changes the way you love God and also the way you will love the people in your life.

What are looking toward for love? What or who are you looking to fully love you and fully know you? Here’s the thing – your spouse will fail you. Your partner with whom you’re hoping to get married will fail you. Your children will fail you. Your parents will fail you. Except for God’s love – that will never fail you because it’s an Unconditional love, it’s a Secure Love and it’s a Transforming Love.

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I Crave Validation – Galatians 1:10

This topic on ‘iCrave Validation‘ is part of our 2024 Retreat theme ‘iCrave’. The passage we are referring to is Galatians 1:10.

Let me start by defining what ‘Validation’ means, so you can have a better understanding of the discussion.

The validation we are referring to is the inherent desire to be acknowledged and accepted by others. It involves having our emotions, perspectives, beliefs, etc., recognized. It is about having someone who will listen to us, understand us, and treat us well.

As growing up we all are either under-validated or we are over-validated.

Under Validation

Being “under-validated” means not receiving enough acknowledgment, acceptance, or recognition from others. It refers to a lack of validation of one’s emotions, perspectives, beliefs, and experiences. This can lead to feelings of being unheard, misunderstood, or unappreciated.

Over Validation

On the other hand, being “over-validated” means receiving excessive acknowledgment, acceptance, or recognition from others. It refers to a situation where one’s emotions, perspectives, beliefs, and experiences are constantly validated, often to an extreme degree. While validation is important, over-validation can have its own set of challenges.

Then there are different types of validation as follows

1. Physical Appearance Validation

Physical appearance validation refers to the validation and recognition of one’s physical appearance by others. It involves receiving positive feedback, compliments, and acceptance regarding one’s physical attributes, such as beauty, attractiveness, or style.

2. Emotion Validation

Emotion validation refers to the recognition and acceptance of one’s emotions by others. It involves having our feelings acknowledged, understood, and respected. When we experience emotional validation, we feel heard and validated in our emotional experiences.

3. Social Validation

Social validation refers to the recognition and acceptance of one’s social identity and behavior by others. It involves seeking approval, acceptance, and validation from social groups or communities. Social validation is closely tied to the desire for belonging and acceptance within a particular social context.

4. Performance / Achievement Validation

Performance/achievement validation refers to the recognition and acknowledgment of one’s accomplishments, skills, or abilities by others. It involves receiving validation and appreciation for the effort, talent, and achievements in various areas of life, such as work, academics, sports, or hobbies.

As we grow older we all somehow develop a coping mechanism to deal with issues related to validation as follows.

  1. Seeking Constant Reassurance: Relying heavily on others for constant reassurance and approval. This can lead to a cycle of dependency and a diminished sense of self-efficacy.
  2. People-Pleasing Behaviors: Constantly trying to please others at the expense of one’s own needs, leading to burnout, resentment, and loss of personal identity.
  3. Social Withdrawal: In response to under-validation, some individuals may withdraw socially, avoiding interactions due to fear of rejection or feeling unworthy.
  4. Substance Abuse: Using alcohol, drugs, or other substances as a means to cope with feelings of inadequacy or to enhance feelings of validation.
  5. Overcompensation: Engaging in boastful or exaggerated behaviors to gain attention or validation, often seen in cases of over-validation.
  6. Perfectionism: Striving for perfection in an attempt to avoid criticism and gain approval, often leading to anxiety and a fear of failure.
  7. Aggression or Hostility: Some people might respond with anger, aggression, or hostility when they feel undervalued or overly criticized.
  8. Dependence on Social Media: Excessively using social media for validation, such as obsessing over likes, comments, or followers, can lead to decreased self-esteem and increased feelings of loneliness and anxiety.
  9. Self-Sabotage: Engaging in behaviors that undermine personal success or relationships, often due to a belief that one does not deserve success or happiness.
  10. Negative Self-Talk: Indulging in critical, negative self-talk that reinforces feelings of inadequacy or unworthiness.
  11. Eating Disorders: In some cases, issues with validation can contribute to the development of eating disorders, as individuals may seek to control their appearance to gain approval.
  12. Impulsive Behaviors: Engaging in risky or impulsive behaviors to feel validated or to cope with feelings of low self-worth.

We must remember that coping mechanisms that are not based on the truth of God’s word, but instead rely on human efforts, will always fail us.

In Galatians 1:10, Paul is defending the truth – the Gospel truth. It is a narrative that has the power to completely free us from the validation syndrome.

And in this verse, he is also expressing that the truth does not require validation from anyone. As a servant of the Lord, he feels a responsibility to safeguard the truth at any cost.

Earlier in the chapter, he expresses astonishment that the church was turning away from the true gospel to another gospel. He has already mentioned to them that the gospel he preached was not a man-made idea, but received through revelation from Jesus Christ, the son of God.

The gospel truth he was defending can be explained in the following five chapters.

Creation

In the Bible, the creation story is described in the book of Genesis. According to Genesis 1, God created the heavens and the earth in six days. Here is a summary of the creation account:

1. Day 1: God created light and separated it from the darkness. He called the light “day” and the darkness “night.”
2. Day 2: God created the sky by separating the waters below from the waters above.
3. Day 3: God gathered the waters below to form seas, and dry land appeared. He created vegetation, including plants, trees, and fruits.
4. Day 4: God created the sun, moon, and stars to govern the day and night and to mark seasons, days, and years.
5. Day 5: God filled the seas with living creatures and birds to fill the sky.
6. Day 6: God created land animals, including livestock, wild animals, and creatures that crawl on the ground.

Finally, God created human beings in His own image, both male and female, and gave them dominion over the earth.

On the seventh day, God rested, setting it apart as a day of rest and blessing. This is known as the Sabbath.

The creation story highlights God’s power and wisdom in bringing forth the entire universe and all living creatures. It serves as the foundation for understanding God’s role as the creator and sustainer of all things.

Fall

The Fall refers to the event described in the book of Genesis where Adam and Eve, the first human beings, disobeyed God’s commandment and ate from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. This act of disobedience led to the introduction of sin and its consequences into the world.

As a result of the Fall, Adam and Eve experienced a separation from God and faced various consequences. They were expelled from the garden of Eden, their perfect and harmonious relationship with God was broken, and they were subjected to suffering, toil, and physical death. The Fall also impacted the entire human race, as all humans inherited a sinful nature and became prone to sin and its effects.

The Fall represents the brokenness and fallen state of humanity, as well as the need for redemption and reconciliation with God.

Redemption

Redemption, refers to the act of being saved or delivered from sin and its consequences through the sacrifice and atonement of Jesus Christ. It is the process by which individuals are reconciled with God and granted eternal life.

This sin separates them from God and brings about spiritual death. However, God, out of His love and mercy, provided a way for humanity to be redeemed and restored to a right relationship with Him.

Through His incarnation, life, death, and resurrection, Jesus Christ became the perfect sacrifice for the forgiveness of sins. He willingly took upon Himself the punishment that humanity deserved, paying the price for sin on the cross. His death and resurrection opened the way for salvation and eternal life.

To receive redemption, individuals are called to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. This involves acknowledging one’s sinfulness, turning away from a life of sin, and placing trust in Jesus as the Savior and Lord. Through this personal relationship with Christ, believers are forgiven of their sins, cleansed, and declared righteous before God.

Renewal

Renewal refers to the process of being made new or transformed spiritually. It involves a restoration of one’s relationship with God and a renewal of the mind and heart. Renewal is considered a work of the Holy Spirit in the life of a believer.

Renewal begins with the acceptance of Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, believers are empowered to live a new life characterized by obedience to God’s commands and conformity to the image of Christ.

The process of renewal involves ongoing growth and transformation in various aspects of life, such as thoughts, attitudes, behaviors, and relationships. It is a continuous journey of spiritual growth and maturity, guided by the Holy Spirit and the study of God’s Word.

Sanctification is closely related to renewal but has a more specific focus. It refers to the process of being set apart or made holy for God’s purposes. Sanctification involves being conformed to the likeness of Christ and living a life that is pleasing to God.

Sanctification is not a one-time event but a lifelong process. It involves surrendering to God’s will and allowing the Holy Spirit to work in and through one’s life. Through sanctification, believers are empowered to live a life that reflects the character and values of God.

Restoration

Restoration/Glorification is the final stage of the believer’s journey of redemption and renewal. It is the ultimate restoration that takes place when believers are resurrected and transformed into their glorified bodies, fully conformed to the likeness of Christ.

In the context of glorification, restoration refers to the complete and perfect renewal of all aspects of the believer’s being. This includes the restoration of the physical body, which will be transformed to be imperishable, immortal, and free from any weakness, disease, or decay.

Furthermore, restoration in glorification involves the complete eradication of sin and the restoration of perfect fellowship with God. Believers will be freed from the presence and power of sin, and they will experience a deep and eternal communion with God, enjoying His presence in all His glory.

The restoration in glorification also extends to the entire creation. Just as believers will be transformed, the entire creation will be renewed and restored to its original state of perfection. The effects of sin and the curse will be completely undone, and God’s creation will flourish in its intended harmony and beauty.

In light of this gospel truth, let’s see how it helps us deal with our various types of validation-related issues.

Physical Appearance Validation

In Genesis 1:26-27, it is stated that God created human beings in His own image, both male and female. This means that every individual, regardless of their physical appearance, possesses inherent dignity, worth, and value.

Understanding that we are created in the image of God reminds us that our true worth and identity are not determined by our physical appearance. It shifts our focus from external beauty to the beauty that comes from within, such as our character, values, and actions. It teaches us to value ourselves and others based on qualities that go beyond mere physical attributes.

Furthermore, recognizing that God created the diversity of physical appearances reflects His creativity and intentionality. Each person’s unique physical features are a reflection of God’s design and should be celebrated rather than judged or compared. Embracing this truth helps us appreciate the beauty of diversity and promotes a more inclusive and accepting attitude towards ourselves and others.

By anchoring our understanding of beauty and worth in the truth of God’s creation, we can find freedom from the need for constant physical appearance validation. We can develop a healthier perspective on our bodies and focus on cultivating inner qualities, such as kindness, compassion, and character, that truly define who we are.

Emotional Validation

In the redemptive story of God, we see a profound demonstration of His deep understanding and empathy towards humanity. Despite fully knowing who we are, our feelings, emotions, and challenges, God willingly offers help and salvation through His Son, Jesus Christ.

We experienced the consequences of sin, including feelings of inadequacy, unworthiness, and the need for validation from others.

But God, in His infinite love and mercy, did not leave us in that broken state. He sent Jesus Christ, His Son, to reconcile us to Himself and provide a solution to our deepest needs, including the need for emotional validation.

Jesus, being fully God and fully human, understands the extent of our feelings, emotions, and challenges. He experienced the full range of human emotions during His time on earth, including joy, sorrow, anger, and compassion. He faced rejection, betrayal, and the weight of the world’s brokenness.

Through His life, death, and resurrection, Jesus offers us hope and healing. He invites us to bring our emotions, struggles, and need for validation to Him. In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Jesus offers us a different kind of validation, one that is rooted in His unconditional love and understanding. He assures us that we are deeply known and accepted by Him. In Him, we find solace, comfort, and true validation for our emotions and struggles.

Relying on Jesus for emotional validation frees us from the endless pursuit of validation from others. It allows us to find our worth and identity in Him, rather than in the opinions or acceptance of people. We can rest in the assurance that God’s love and acceptance of us are unwavering and unconditional.

As we embrace the redemptive story of God, we can find healing and freedom from the need for emotional validation from people. We can cultivate a deep and intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father, who understands us completely and offers us the comfort, validation, and help we need.

Social Validation

In the light of God’s redemption and renewal, we find great comfort and assurance in the fact that He has accepted us as His sons and daughters and has included us into His family. Through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, we have been reconciled with God and have become part of His kingdom.

This truth has profound implications for how we deal with the issues we face from social validation. When we understand that our worth and identity are rooted in our relationship with God, we no longer need to seek validation from others to find a sense of belonging and acceptance.

As members of God’s family, we are deeply loved, valued, and accepted by Him. He sees us as His precious children, and His approval of us is not based on our performance or what others think of us. Therefore, we can find security, significance, and identity in our relationship with Him.

God’s acceptance and love for us are unconditional and unwavering. We don’t have to constantly prove ourselves or seek validation from others to feel worthy or valued. We can find our ultimate validation in the unchanging love and acceptance of our Heavenly Father.

Moreover, being part of God’s family means that we are connected to a community of believers who share the same redemption and renewal in Christ. This community provides a supportive and loving environment where we can find encouragement, acceptance, and validation from fellow believers.

In this community, we can experience genuine relationships that are not based on superficial standards or worldly measures of validation. We can find acceptance and belonging based on our shared faith and the love of Christ that binds us together.

When we recognize our identity as sons and daughters of God, we can approach social validation from a place of confidence and security. We no longer need to seek approval or acceptance from others to validate our worth. Instead, we can focus on living out our true identity as children of God and extending His love and acceptance to others.

This understanding also frees us from the negative effects of social validation. We are no longer controlled by the opinions or judgments of others. We can navigate social interactions with grace and humility, knowing that our worth is already secure in Christ.

Performance / Achievement Validation

Through Christ’s performance, specifically His death and resurrection, we have been made righteous before God. This righteousness is not something we earned or achieved on our own, but it is a gift that comes through faith in Jesus.

In the gospel, we learn that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). This includes our failures in meeting physical appearance standards or achieving certain goals. However, God, in His great love and mercy, sent Jesus to pay the price for our sins and to reconcile us to Himself.

When we place our faith in Jesus, His righteousness is imputed to us. This means that His perfect obedience and performance are credited to our account. We are seen as righteous in God’s eyes because of what Jesus has done for us.

Understanding this truth helps us deal with the issues we face due to physical and achievement-related validation. We no longer need to find our worth or validation in our physical appearance or accomplishments. Our value and acceptance come from our identity as children of God and the righteousness we have through faith in Christ.

Physical appearance validation becomes less significant because our true worth is not based on external beauty but on being made in the image of God and being loved by Him. We can accept and appreciate our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit, focusing on honoring God rather than meeting societal standards.

Similarly, achievement validation loses its grip on us because our righteousness is not based on our performance or accomplishments. We can pursue excellence and use our abilities to glorify God, but our identity and worth are not dependent on these achievements. We can find contentment and joy in knowing that we are already accepted and loved by God, regardless of our achievements or failures.

In Christ, we are free from the constant pressure to prove ourselves or seek validation from others. We can rest in the assurance that our worth and acceptance are secure in Him. This frees us to pursue a life of purpose, using our physical bodies and talents to serve God and others, without being enslaved by the need for validation.

As we embrace the truth of our righteousness in Christ, we can find freedom, peace, and confidence in who we are. We can live with a renewed perspective, focusing on the eternal rather than the temporary. Our value is rooted in God’s love and grace, and that is a validation that surpasses any physical appearance or achievement validation the world may offer.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the topic of ‘iCrave Validation’ explores the inherent desire for acknowledgment and acceptance from others. It delves into the different types of validation, such as physical appearance, emotion, social, and performance/achievement validation. Throughout the discussion, we have seen how these forms of validation can impact individuals and the coping mechanisms that can develop as a result.

However, it is important to remember that true validation cannot be found solely in the opinions or acceptance of others. The ultimate source of validation comes from our relationship with God and His unconditional love for us. Through the redemptive story of God, we find freedom from the need for constant validation and discover our true worth and identity in Him.

By understanding and embracing the truth of God’s love and acceptance, we can navigate the challenges related to validation with confidence and security. We can find solace in the fact that we are created in the image of God, find emotional validation in our relationship with Jesus, experience acceptance and belonging in the community of believers, and rest in the righteousness we have through faith in Christ.

As we journey through life, let us seek validation from the truth of God’s word and find our ultimate satisfaction in Him. May we extend His love and acceptance to others, creating an environment where individuals can find validation and affirmation based on their true worth and identity in Christ.

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I Crave Justice – Matt 18:21-35

Good evening everyone. Over the last couple of days, we’ve been meditating on the theme iCrave referring to the cravings, longings and desires of our hearts. What we’ve understood so far is that these cravings and longings of our hearts are not bad in themselves. In fact that’s the way God made us. So then the real question is – is what are we feeding those cravings with – is it with the pure spiritual milk (Word of God) or is it with our feelings and life experiences?

In Session 3, we are looking to cover the topic: iCrave Justice.

The craving and longing for justice. Just to clarify, when we mean justice, we’re not talking about a general longing for justice in the world. We’re specifically referring to obtaining justice for the wrongs and offenses being done toward us. All of us have that innate sense of justice where we seek compensation or repayment for wrongs and offenses done toward us.

When an auto-driver tries to take advantage and overcharges us, we crave for justice. When our boss yells at us in front of our peers, we crave for justice. When a close family member speaks hurtful words to us, we crave for justice. When a friend betrays our trust, we crave for justice there as well.

Now just like the other cravings of our heart, this craving for justice is not a bad thing in itself. But the real question is how we are satisfying that craving. How are we feeding that craving – and today’s passage from Matt 18 tells us that we can either respond with forgiveness or unforgiveness.

And it’s so interesting that Jesus’ teaching on this topic is not like the wat a moral science lesson would approach this topic – where we are told “forgiveness is good, and unforgiveness is bad. Hence, be more forgiving”. In fact Jesus does this by showing a mirror to our own hearts revealing what the problem is before pointing us to the solution.

4 observations from this passage:

1. We overestimate our standard of forgiveness (v21-22)

21 Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.

Let’s first try to understand where this question is coming from. Peter was a Jew and in Judaism, forgiving someone three times showed a generous spirit. So Peter probably thought that he was extra kind and generous by deciding to forgive seven times.

To his surprise, Jesus doesn’t appreciate him for this, but rather says seventy seven times. And by seventy seven, Jesus wasn’t just saying 77 times and that’s it, but rather using an expression to say that that there should be no cap or no upper limit to the number of times you should forgive someone.

I wonder if upon hearing that, Peter thought “No upper limit on forgiveness equals unlimited forgiveness. That simply doesn’t make any sense. I mean if this person has already offended me repeatedly, does he really deserve my forgiveness? I thought I was being more than gracious already, now my forgiveness period has expired. I’ve simply had enough”.

And that’s part of the problem. Because Peter was convinced that he was gracious, generous and forgiving, he assumed that he was in the best position to judge if a person deserved his forgiveness or not. He assumed he was the one who could set the limit on forgiveness. But in reality he wasn’t as forgiving as he thought, he was only overestimating his standard of forgiveness.

And instead of responding to Peter with a rebuke, Jesus responds to him with a parable (which is a short story to explain a deeper spiritual point) from V23.

So we not only overestimate our standard of forgiveness but we also

2. We underestimate the extent of our debt (v23-30)

23 “Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants.[g] 24 When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.[h] 25 And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant[i] fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ 27 And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28 But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii,[j] and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you owe.’ 29 So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ 30 He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt.

In the parable, there is a little bit of math involved, so please bear with me.

1 talent = salary for a laborer over 20 years
10000 talents = salary for a laborer over 200,000 years

In other words, this was a massive mountain size debt that this servant owed the king. It was an exorbitant amount which was impossible to repay. Even if this servant worked overtime and did many other small jobs for every single remaining day of his life, he wouldn’t still come anywhere close to repaying back the debt.

So the consequence was that this servant was to be sold with his wife and children and all that he had to repay the debt. You can imagine the kind of trouble that this servant found himself in. There was literally no escape for him from this point.

So the servant, knowing that he was in big trouble, fell on his knees and begged the king to be patient with him. That word “patience” translates as “long suffering” – he was begging the king to bear with him a little longer and he’ll pay back the entire amount.

V27 tells us that the king was moved with pity. He was moved with compassion looking at the state of the servant – He knew there was no way in the world he was going to repay back the debt, so in compassion he released him and forgave his entire debt.

And that’s where we get the word “forgiveness” from. It’s a cancellation of the debt someone owes you so that everytime you look at that person, his pending dues show as “0”. The servant was fully forgiven and released – what a wonderful example of someone who experienced compassion and mercy.

But when we come to V28, it tells us that almost as soon as he got out, he found a fellow servant who owed him 100 denarii.

Again coming back to math:
100 denarii = salary for a laborer over 20 weeks

It’s still a large amount but no where close to the debt he owed the king. And look at the servant’s response to his fellow servant – he laid his hands on him, choked him and then demanded payment.

Already we are seeing a much harsher treatment toward the fellow servant when he meets his debtor.

In V29, the fellow servant responds in a very similar way – he pleads and asks for patience to repay the amount. But in this case, the servant refuses and puts him in jail until he repays the entire debt. And it makes us wonder why did the servant refuse forgiveness?

It’s because he underestimated the extent and the size of his debt. He was blind to the massive mountain size debt which he owed to the king. He was in denial of how bad his situation was.

Similar to the servant, I wonder if that’s symptomatic of our own hearts.

Many times the reason why we fail to forgive each other is because we underestimate the extent and size of the moral debt we owe to God.

We are blind to our mountain size debt. We are in denial of our bad situation. Look at the way it describes our sinful condition in Ephesians‬ ‭2:1‭-‬3‬‬‬

[1] And you were dead in the trespasses and sins [2] in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— [3] among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.
Passages like these are a sober reminder of how terribly bad and dangerous our situation was. As long as we underestimate and downplay the extent of our debt, we’ll never be in a position to receive mercy and also show that mercy to one another.
But not only do we overestimate the standard of our forgiveness, not only do we underestimate the extent of our debt, we also
3.We overlook the extent of our pardon (v31-33)
31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. 32 Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’

Upon getting the report on the servant’s behavior, the king summons him and refers to him as a wicked servant because he conveniently overlooked and ignored the mercy and pardon which was offered to him.

I hope you can see the connection here to the previous point. Because the servant underestimated and downplayed the extent of his debt, he ended up overlooking and belittling the pardon that was offered, which seemed to him small and little. It was not a big deal for him. Probably in some way he thought “I deserved to be forgiven. I’m entitled to forgiveness”.

And that’s what kept him from showing the same mercy to his fellow servant. How does this relate to us?

When God saw our massive mountain sized debt, He not only was moved with compassion but as we read yesterday – sent His one and only precious Son Jesus Christ on this earth to save us. How did He save us? By living the life that we were expected to live (he was the only one who lived a life with pending debt or dues as “0”…every other person has a pending amount that is in infinity). Not only that but when He was 33 years old, He was hung on the cross not to pay for his debt or anything wrong that he had done but rather to pay off the entire amount that you and I needed to pay but couldn’t pay off.

He died and was buried in a tomb and on the third Day he rose victoriously from the grave so that whoever would repent of their sins and their own failing efforts of compensating and repaying the debt, and trust in the payment and sacrifice that was offered on the cross, they would now be declared as “debt free” in God’s eyes.

Brothers and sisters, please remember that God didn’t just write off our massive mountain sized debt. He paid it off and it came at the most costly price of His own precious Son.

And here’s the thing – that pardon and payment for us would only sound valuable and precious if we’ve considered and admitted to the size of our debt. The smaller we think our debt is, the lesser value and appreciation we will attribute to Jesus Christ for what He did for us.

Because we all overestimate our standards of forgiveness, because we underestimate the extent of our debt and overlook the extent of our pardon, that’s why we finally

4. We need overwhelming grace to help us (v34-35)

34 And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers,[k] until he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”

When we look at this verse, we may misinterpret it as this “well you better forgive each other, because if you don’t you won’t get my forgiveness”. But I don’t think that’s what this verse means because as we learnt yesterday “not that we loved God, but that He loved us”. God’s forgiveness in Christ was unconditional – it wasn’t based on anything that we did or would. God didn’t set any preconditions to obtaining his forgiveness. It was completely and totally unconditional.

So then what does this verse mean?

I think Jesus wanted to put the scanner and spotlight on hearts and reveal our blindness and our forgetfulness. All of the points we shared earlier reveal the spiritual blindness and forgetfulness.

Just like the servant, we all overestimate the standards of our forgiveness – in other words, we are all prone to being proud of how righteous we think we are. Just like the servant, we all underestimate the extent of our debt – we probably admit to being sinners but downplay it by saying things like “I’ve done bad things, but I haven’t murdered anyone”. Just like the servant, we overlook the extent of our pardon – we say that we are thankful for Jesus’ sacrifice for the sins we’ve committed but probably assume it wasn’t a lot Jesus had to pay off anyway. That’s the problem with blindness and forgetfulness.

One of the pastors and authors I’ve been encouraged by is a pastor called Paul Tripp and he says this – “Spiritual blindness is actually worse than physical blindness because in physical blindness it’s obvious to you that you are blind. But in spiritual blindness, we often don’t even know it and don’t even admit to it”.

That’s where the problem lies and that’s why we need overwhelming grace – to help us see and remember. How does He do that? Through the good news of Jesus revealed in the Word. Every time we read God’s Word in our personal times, at our Sunday gatherings, Gospel Communities and DNAs,

  • Overestimating our standard of forgiveness‭‭ – Isaiah‬ ‭64:6‬
    All our righteous deeds are like filthy rags in response to
  • Underestimate the extent of our debt – ‭‭‬‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭53:6‬
    [6] All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way;
  • Overlooked the extent of our pardon – Psalm‬ ‭103:12‬ ‭
    [12] as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us.

And in all of that, we are reminded of the immense forgiveness that we’ve experienced in Jesus. No matter what has been done against us, it’s not even a fraction of the offenses that we’ve done against God. And yet because of what Christ has done, we can’t help but show that mercy to each other.

Who are you struggling to forgive today? We need to pray and ask God to for His overwhelming grace to see and remember.

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I Crave FullFillment – Hebrews 13:5-6

This is the last topic of our Retreat series called ‘iCrave’. The passage we will be referring to is Hebrews 13:5-6.

What is Fulfillment?

“Fulfillment is a sense of satisfaction, contentment, or accomplishment that comes from achieving one’s goals, desires, dreams, or purpose in life.”

However, the reality is that our goals, desires, dreams, and purpose in life are subject to factors such as age, demographic, interests, personality, and many other criteria.

For example, a fulfilled life can vary depending on the individual. For a small child who is just starting to learn the ABC’s, a fulfilled life might mean having enough time to play and have fun in addition to getting their daily portion of milk and sleep. For a teenager who loves music, a fulfilled life might involve having access to the best instruments to learn and practice.

For a young person desiring independence, a fulfilled life might mean being able to move out of their parents’ house, perhaps to study abroad. For a working adult, a fulfilled life could mean having their dream job or owning their own company. For someone who is unmarried, a fulfilled life might involve finding their ideal life partner.

For a married person, a fulfilled life would involve feeling fully loved, appreciated, and taken care of by their spouse. For someone in their middle age working a 9-6 job, a fulfilled life might involve starting their own business that offers freedom and flexibility. For a businessperson, a fulfilled life might mean having a certain number of clients and achieving a certain level of sales. The possibilities are endless.

The problem arises when these desires, which are inherently good, become the sole and ultimate pursuit in life.

– When our goals and aspirations become the sole driving force in our lives.
– When our sense of fulfillment hinges on possessing or lacking these things.
– When we sacrifice all other joys in life in pursuit of a single, ultimate goal.
– When our moods and behaviors are determined by these goals.
– When we prioritize our love for these goals above all else in life.
– When we believe that achieving or possessing them is the only path to true fulfillment.

If we seek fulfillment by relying solely on ourselves, these are the problems we can face.

  1. Temporary Fulfillment: Pursuing worldly achievements, material wealth, or pleasures often provides only temporary satisfaction. When these sources of fulfillment fade or disappoint, it can lead to a sense of emptiness and dissatisfaction.
  2. Identity Crisis: Relying solely on external factors for fulfillment can lead to an unstable sense of identity. People may tie their self-worth to their successes or possessions, making them vulnerable to identity crises when faced with failure or loss.
  3. Anxiety and Fear: Without a sense of trust in Christ or a higher power, individuals may become more prone to anxiety and fear. Life’s uncertainties and challenges can feel overwhelming when one’s sense of security is solely based on their own abilities or circumstances.
  4. Broken Relationships: Seeking fulfillment in relationships alone can put undue pressure on those relationships. Unmet expectations can lead to conflicts and disappointments, potentially damaging personal connections.
  5. Spiritual Emptiness: Neglecting the spiritual aspect of life can result in a sense of spiritual emptiness or a lack of purpose. Many people find deep meaning and fulfillment in their faith or spiritual practices.
  6. Moral and Ethical Challenges: Pursuing fulfillment without a moral or ethical framework can lead to questionable choices and actions. People may compromise their values in the pursuit of personal gain or pleasure.
  7. Lack of Resilience: Those who do not have a strong foundation of faith may struggle to cope with adversity and setbacks. Faith often provides a source of strength and resilience during difficult times.
  8. Eternal Perspective: One of the central teachings of Christianity is the promise of eternal life. Without faith in Christ, individuals may lack an eternal perspective, focusing solely on this earthly life and potentially neglecting their spiritual well-being.

Hebrews 13:5-6 addresses one such problematic desire that can lead to an unfulfilled life: the love of money. Let’s read the passage.

“Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’ So we can confidently say, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?’“

In the broader context of this chapter, the author of Hebrews provides various exhortations and encouragements to Christians, urging them to live in ways that reflect their faith.

In these verses, the author helps us understand that “Reliance on God’s faithfulness is the only source of true fulfillment.”

When he says “be content with what you have,” he is not only referring to material possessions. He is emphasizing that we should be content in the fact that we have a relationship with God. God promises to never leave us or forsake us. This is why the author continues to write, “for he has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’ So we can confidently say, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?'”

To be content doesn’t mean that we should settle for a certain salary or remain single if we desire marriage or refrain from pursuing entrepreneurial endeavors.

The author is emphasizing that we should find contentment in the fact that we have God to take care of all our needs and provide the true fulfillment that our hearts desire.

Therefore, relying on God’s faithfulness is what gives us true fulfillment. Let me suggest five ways in which a believer relies on God for their fulfillment.

1. Trust His Promises:

Romans 4:20-21 (ESV) – “No unbelief made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God, fully convinced that God was able to do what he had promised.”

When we trust in God’s promises, we acknowledge that His plans and purposes for our lives are greater than our own. We recognize that He is trustworthy and capable of fulfilling His promises.

By placing our trust in God, we shift our reliance from our own efforts or external sources of fulfillment to Him. We understand that true fulfillment comes from a deep and abiding relationship with God, rather than from the temporary achievements or possessions of this world.

Trusting in God’s promises also teaches us to surrender control and submit to His guidance. We acknowledge that His wisdom and understanding far surpass our own, and we trust that He will lead us in paths of righteousness and fulfillment.

2. Seek His Guidance:

Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV) – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”

Seeking God’s promises means trusting in and actively relying on the assurances and commitments that God has made to His people. It involves believing and holding onto the truth that God is faithful to fulfill His promises.

When we seek God’s promises, we recognize that His words are true and reliable. We understand that His plans for our lives are good and that He is actively working for our well-being. By seeking His promises, we cultivate a deep sense of trust in His faithfulness.

3. Find Comfort in Difficult Times:

Psalm 34:18 (ESV) – “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”

Life is a complex journey filled with numerous challenges, obstacles, and difficulties. It often entails experiencing hardships, sufferings, pain, and various types of discomfort that can test our resilience and strength. However, it is during these trying times when our hearts grow weary and we feel unfulfilled due to unpleasant circumstances that we can turn to God’s unwavering faithfulness for solace and comfort.

1. In the face of adversity, we are given an opportunity to grow and develop as individuals. It is through these tough moments that we learn valuable life lessons and acquire the strength to overcome future obstacles.
2. Despite the trials we encounter, we can take solace in the fact that we are not alone on this journey. God’s faithfulness provides us with a constant source of support and guidance, helping us navigate through the darkest of times.
3. By relying on God’s faithfulness, we can find a renewed sense of hope and purpose. In times of uncertainty and despair, His unwavering presence can inspire us to persevere and find meaning in our struggles.
4. It is important to remember that the discomfort we experience in life is temporary. Just as the seasons change, so do our circumstances. With God’s faithfulness as our anchor, we can find the strength to endure and eventually emerge stronger and wiser.
5. In our moments of weakness, it is comforting to know that God’s faithfulness is not dependent on our own abilities or merits. His love and support are unconditional, offering us a sense of peace and reassurance even in the midst of our darkest days.
6. As we navigate through the ups and downs of life, let us hold on to the belief that God’s faithfulness is constant and unwavering. It is this steadfastness that can provide us with the courage to face any challenge that comes our way.

4. Live with Gratitude:

Thessalonians 5:18 (ESV) – “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

To live with gratitude and display reliance on God’s faithfulness for fulfillment, we can:

1. Acknowledge God’s Provision: Recognize that everything we have, including our abilities, resources, and opportunities, comes from God. Show gratitude for His provisions by expressing thankfulness for His blessings and acknowledging His faithfulness in providing for our needs.
2. Count Your Blessings: Cultivate a habit of gratitude by regularly reflecting on the blessings in our lives. Take time to appreciate the simple joys, the relationships we have, and the experiences that bring us happiness. By counting our blessings, we shift our focus from what we lack to what we already have.
3. Pray with Thanksgiving: Incorporate thanksgiving into our prayers. Alongside our requests and petitions, express gratitude to God for His faithfulness, guidance, and provision. Thank Him for His unconditional love, forgiveness, and the gift of salvation.
4. Serve Others: Demonstrate gratitude by serving others and showing kindness. Use our time, talents, and resources to bless others in need. By expressing love and compassion towards others, we reflect God’s faithfulness and extend His blessings to those around us.
5. Share Your Testimony: Share with others how God has been faithful in our lives. Testify to His provision, guidance, and transformative work. By sharing our stories of God’s faithfulness, we inspire and encourage others to rely on Him for their fulfillment as well.

Remember, living with gratitude is not just a one-time act but a continuous attitude of the heart. By cultivating a grateful mindset and acknowledging God’s faithfulness, we demonstrate our reliance on Him for true fulfillment in every aspect of our lives.

5. Maintain Hope:

– Jeremiah 29:11 (ESV) – “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

Maintaining our hope in Christ means placing our trust and confidence in Him, even in the midst of challenges and uncertainties. It involves believing that God has good plans for our lives and that He is actively working for our well-being. Here are a few ways in which maintaining hope in Christ can help us rely on God for fulfillment:

When we maintain hope in Christ, we hold onto the assurance that God is faithful and trustworthy. We can rely on His promises and believe that He will fulfill His plans for our lives. This assurance gives us confidence and peace, knowing that God is in control and working all things together for our good.

Maintaining hope in Christ helps us see beyond our present circumstances. It reminds us that this earthly life is temporary and that our ultimate fulfillment lies in our eternal relationship with God. This perspective enables us to endure challenges and setbacks with resilience, knowing that our hope is anchored in something greater.

When we maintain hope in Christ, we find contentment in His presence and in the relationship we have with Him. We recognize that true fulfillment comes from knowing and experiencing God’s love, grace, and faithfulness. This contentment allows us to focus less on external achievements or possessions and more on cultivating a deep and meaningful connection with God.

Maintaining hope in Christ means seeking His guidance and direction in our lives. We trust that He knows what is best for us and that He will lead us on paths of righteousness and fulfillment. This reliance on God’s guidance helps us make decisions aligned with His will and brings a sense of purpose and fulfillment to our lives.

When we maintain hope in Christ, we tap into His strength and power. We are reminded that we are not alone in our journey and that God is with us every step of the way. This assurance gives us the courage to persevere through challenges, knowing that God’s faithfulness will sustain us and ultimately bring us to a place of fulfillment.

In summary, maintaining our hope in Christ allows us to rely on God for fulfillment by trusting in His faithfulness, gaining a greater perspective, finding contentment in His presence, seeking His guidance, and drawing strength from Him. It is through this reliance on God that we experience true and lasting fulfillment in every aspect of our lives.

Conclusion

In conclusion, true fulfillment is not found in the pursuit of worldly achievements, possessions, or external circumstances. It is not relying solely on our own abilities or the fulfillment of our desires. True fulfillment comes from placing our trust in God’s faithfulness. By trusting in His promises, seeking His guidance, finding comfort in difficult times, living with gratitude, and maintaining hope in Christ, we discover a deep and lasting fulfillment that surpasses the temporary pleasures and achievements of this world. May we continually rely on God’s faithfulness to experience the true and abundant life that He offers.