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Good Morning!

Our passage for today is Titus 2:11-15.

“For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.

Declare these things; exhort and rebuke with all authority. Let no one disregard you.”

[PRAY]

It’s a letter written by Paul to Titus and other leaders in the church of Crete, encouraging him in his ministry work and asking him to establish proper leadership, proper handling of error, proper Christian living and in this particular passage he is pointing their hearts to the Gospel.

I believe today’s passage will help us answer some important questions.

The questions are
Q. How to live life as a people of God?
Q. How can we grow in Holiness and Godliness by fixing our eyes on the Gospel?

But before we answer these questions I’m sure everyone here will agree with the fact that we live in a world that is so contaminated with sin, corruption, and evil. There are temptations everywhere.

• Temptation to give in to our sexual passions by engaging in pornography or having physical relationships outside the boundaries of marriage
• Temptation to cheat and fraud people so we can accumulate wealth for ourselves
• Temptation to lie and live a hypocritical life so we can gain the respect of others
• Temptation to give in to our laziness and live foolishly
• Temptation to eat beyond our capacity and become a glutton.

And especially when these habits are considered normal in our culture and society, when we see our closest friend or colleague enjoying these pleasures, making good money, seems to be living life to the fullest.

I’m sure we all go through times of doubts, despair and sadly some of us have even fallen into these sins. We know it because we can feel the guilt and the condemnation. It’s not a good feeling and not a good place to be in.

After falling into such sins, some of you may have even asked yourself whether you are a true Christian, whether you have truly been saved.

Before I say anything let me confess that I myself have been in that place and I know how it feels to be in that place, it’s a dark place.

When we are a Christian, who knows Jesus, who knows His saving grace that frees us from sin and its condemnation, and yet again and again and again we fall back into the same pit that Christ picked you up from. Or worst to be like that dog who returns his vomit.

We end up beating ourselves; we stop fellow-shipping with our brothers and sister by isolating ourselves, we stop serving Christ and his Church, we stop reading our bible, we quit our prayer and devotion.

When we are with others, we pretend that everything is normal but behind the doors, we are crying and wailing, we are frustrated, we are disappointed with our actions and words and thoughts.

The worst is when we get so used to it that we’ve learned to ignore these feelings and live just like a worldly person and yet profess to be a Christian in the house. We are pointing fingers at others and try to fix the world with our smartness, when our own conscience is dead, when our own feelings are dead, when our own hearts are hardened.

Well, when you see this passage we can see what has gone wrong with us.

Number one reason is that we have failed to show gratitude (प्रति आभार) (कृतज्ञता दिखाने में विफल ) for what Christ has accomplished for us on the cross.

We’ve failed to see the GRACE of God that has appeared to us through his son Jesus Christ and therefore failed to express our heart of gratitude in our thoughts, actions and our behavior.

How many times during the DAY do we meditate on God’s love and relish his grace upon your life?
How many times during a WEEK do we meditate on God’s love and relish his grace upon your life?
How many times during a MONTH do we meditate on God’s love and relish his grace upon your life?

Tell me if I am wrong. The reason for us falling in sin started when we stopped been grateful for what Christ accomplished for us on the cross.

Because the passage here says “For grace has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age.”

What it says here is that the grace of God enables us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives.

Our failure to show gratitude to what Christ accomplished for us on the cross has put us in place far from experiencing his saving grace over our lives on a daily basis.

Brothers & sisters, It is not enough for us to respond to the gospel once in a lifetime so we can be tagged as a follower of Jesus and then to forget that experience and go back into the world again.

To become a Christian means to make a turn-around from our worldly ways and grow deeper into a relationship with Jesus by daily appreciating and embracing his Love, Grace, and mercy over our lives.

The moment we fail to do that and allow our flesh to take over, we push ourselves away from his grace and therefore fall back into sin again.

It’s like a family who adopts a child into their home from an orphanage, giving the child a new life and a future. The more that child learns to appreciate the love of his new family, the deeper he grows in relationship with them, and the more he feels protected, loved and covered.

But the day this child stops appreciating the love of his new family and think about his old orphanage life with his rugged friends, the more further away he goes from the family, he comes out of the covering and protection of his family and finds himself been vulnerable and helpless.

Now, let me ask you a question?

Do you think the family stopped loving him? No
Do you think that the family will be open to receive him back into the family?
Do you think the family will take the child back into their covering and protection?

Of course yes.

It’s the same with our heavenly father. Remember the story of the prodigal son who after spoiling all his father’s wealth when he decides to come back home. The Father welcomes him with joy. And I’m sure after the boy returned home his appreciation for his father’s love grew even more.

The second reason why we find ourselves in sin and guilt and shame is when we lose HOPE.

Verse 13 – When we lose our blessed hope that one day our Lord and Saviour Jesus will come back to take us to a place where there will be no more sorrow, no more pain, no more suffering, no more sickness, no more poverty, no more shame, no more temptations.

Let’s dig deep down our hearts and search what are we hoping for in life. Are we hoping that one day we will become a top businessman, earn lots of money someday, own a house or own a land, go to Hawaii and lie down on the beach, buy the best car in the world, become an Indian idol, champion of the world etc etc.

Because if that’s what you are hoping for in life, then, you will spend all your money, all your time, all your energy and resources in achieving that. And by the way, there is no guarantee that you will get what you want in life.

But if your hope is in the coming of the Lord and Saviour who will save us from this wretched world then we will spend all our money, time, energy and resources preparing our hearts for that glorious day. And by the way – its guaranteed.

When all your money, time, energy and resources are invested towards preparing ourselves for the coming of the Lord, then there is no chance that we can get distracted from the pleasures of this world.

It is like a sportsman whose aim to is to win the Olympics. He knows he needs to be fit by exercising daily, stay healthy by eating nutritious food, keep his mind alert from keeping himself away from any kind of distraction.

You see, no matter what happens, he will never give in to the feelings that take away his focus from his goal.

In 2 Timothy 2:4-7 Paul gives an example of a Soldier, Athlete and a Farmer and says

No one serving as a soldier gets involved in civilian affairs—he wants to please his commanding officer. Similarly, if anyone competes as an athlete, he does not receive the victor’s crown unless he competes according to the rules. The hardworking farmer should be the first to receive a share of the crops. Reflect on what I am saying, for the Lord will give you insight into all this.

Brothers & sisters, we are not civilians; the bible says we are a good soldier of Christ Jesus. We are not hopeless; we are not orphans, we are not failures, we not a mistake.

Instead, we are loved, our heavenly Father cherishes us, we didn’t choose him but he choose us, we are blessed, and most importantly we have hope that one day we will go to a better place where life will be even more beautiful and fun.

Let’s ask a question to ourselves this morning.

After listening to this sermon and what the Lord has spoken to us, do we still like to stay in our miserable situation, a life pattern that is filled with sin and despair.

Or are you willing to humble yourself like the prodigal son and return back to our heavenly father whose loving arms are eager and open to hug you, kiss you, celebrate and welcome you back into his family.

All you have to do this morning is to simply go back to him with a humble heart, repent of your sins, thank him for the cross and surrender your lives once again to him.

And after you’ve done that today, you need to go back home and daily continue to remind yourself of what Christ has done for you and daily express your heart of gratitude to him without fail.

And when things get tougher at home, or at work, or in your personal lives, remind yourself of the blessed hope that this world is just a temporary home and the one who loves us is coming to take us with him far from all the pain and misery.

Put all your focus, all your time, money, energy and resources preparing for that glorious day in heaven.

I’m sure life will look different if we make this a pattern of our lives.

Lets pray.

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Good morning church!

Sometime back a Hindu asked me this question: What would you say about people who say they believe in Jesus and still do not have/show Christian values? In other words, the question can be rephrased to “Is it possible for a person to know Jesus, talk about Jesus and still live like the rest of the world?” Does the gospel produce something more than just change of ideas or philosophy? Does Christ have a greater purpose in our lives than just “a moment in your life when you prayed a prayer and asked Jesus into your heart”? And if God has a bigger purpose, then what does that mean for me? Those are the questions we will attempt to answer this morning.

We have been going through a series titled “God Alive Church – A journey through the letters of 1 & 2 Timothy and Titus”. Currently we are in Titus 2 (Last week’s sermon on: Titus 1:10-16). Let’s go ahead and read the main text for the day:

But as for you, teach what accords with sound[a] doctrine. 2 Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. 3 Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, 4 and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. 6 Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. 7 Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us. 9 Bondservants[b] are to be submissive to their own masters in everything; they are to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, 10 not pilfering, but showing all good faith, so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior.

The first thing I believe this passage teaches us today is:

1. The Gospel informs Right Living

But as for you, teach what accords with sound[a] doctrine. (v1)

As we’ve been seeing, whenever we see the word “but”, it is contrasting this passage with the previous passage. The previous passage spoke about false teachers who for shameless gain were upsetting the faith of many families in the church at Crete. These false teachers kept focusing on Jewish myths and man made rules. The result was that the church became unfruitful in good works! In fact, the church was gaining a bad reputation in Crete. Paul gave 2 commands to Titus in order to tackle this problem.

The first was to appoint God called, God qualified elders to lead and protect the church. (Tit 1:5-9) The second command was for Titus to rebuke these false teachers sharply and silence them from influencing the church. (Tit 1:13) The last few verses of Titus 1, Paul says that these false teachers “profess to know God but deny him by their works”. So Paul is already starting the conversation where he says “if you say you know God, then it needs to be reflected in your lifestyle as well”.

And that’s how we arrive in Chapter 2 where Paul says give instructions, exhort the church at Crete in a way that suits and is fitting for “sound doctrine” or the gospel. The reason I use the word gospel is because the gospel is the good news that Jesus Christ is God’s plan from Genesis to Revelation to reveal Himself through Jesus and also to redeem everything through Jesus! The gospel of Jesus informs, fuels and produces right living! The gospel supernaturally creates new life in people when they hear and believe. Till then as natural humans we knew nothing else but to sin, suddenly when we heard the good news we were supernaturally able to repent and place our trust in Jesus.

New affections, new purpose & a new identity. Not just that, the more we grow in our relationship with Jesus, the more we realize how much more of the gospel we require today. Why? Because as we read Scripture we see how Holy God is, we see how sinful we are…like Isaiah said in Isaiah 6:5 And I said: “Woe is me! For I am lost; for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; for my eyes have seen the King, the Lord of hosts!”

Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? (Rom 7:24)

Now as believers we are justified and made right before God. There is no condemnation but we still need to recognize the difference between God and us. He is Holy and Righteous and Great and Glorious. And we like the “grass and all its glory like the flower of grass. The grass withers, and the flower falls”. As our awareness of God grows so will our awareness of our sin. The more closer you move towards God, more sin in your life will get exposed. And all of this should bring us to a place where we humbly and helplessly realize what Jesus has done for us through his life, death and resurrection.

So when we are faced with temptation and you fall, we realize we need the gospel to experience forgiveness and restoration in our walk with God. When we are in conflicted relationship with another family member of friend, we realize we need the gospel to forgive the other person just as Christ forgave us.

When we go through persecution, we realize we need the gospel to remind us that it’s a blessing to be counted worthy to suffer for our Master and Lord. When we are at work and the stress is piling up, we realize we need the gospel to remind us that we are working for God ultimately and we know we’ll find rest in Jesus who says “Come to me all who are weary, and I will give you rest”. When we are going through a severe illness, we realize we need the gospel to remind us that God is Sovereign over our situation.

When we feel insecure about our looks or your financial status or the possessions we have, we realize we need the good news of Jesus to remind us that God has accepted us fully in Jesus and we don’t require anything else apart from Jesus to live our life – He is our Security. And as we trust and obey what God has said to us in the Bible, we grow up into the hope of the gospel -> to be like Jesus reflecting everything that He is in all our thoughts, words and actions.

That’s why it’s so critical to be listening to teachers that preach and proclaim sound doctrine. Some people sometimes say “I know the preachers that I listen to aren’t exactly biblically sound, but what to do….nobody’s or no church is perfect. I’m mature enough to listen and pick what is right and not pay attention to what is wrong”. But they are missing the point. It’s not about picking and choosing what you want.

It’s much more serious than that. What you believe is what you will become. If you are chasing behind a false gospel that tells you that believing in Jesus will get you health, wealth and prosperity…that’s what your life will also be about…Making yourself prosperous. But if you want to become like Jesus, you need to listen to Jesus as He is revealed in Scripture.

That’s what we see in the following verses of Chapter 2. Instructions being given to older men, older women, younger women and younger men. People from different age groups within the church are being encouraged to live a life worthy of the gospel. It’s not for the aged ones only, it’s for everyone to exhibit self-control, respectability, soundness in faith, in love and steadfastness. Such a wonderful picture of the good news when you see the whole church growing in Christ likeness.

It’s not some sort of spiritual elite that is pursuing holiness and good works…every child of God saved by the good news in fact wants to do this. As elders our job is to remind and urge people to do it more!

This brings me to the next point…

2. Right Living adorns the Gospel

Adorn means to decorate something. Ever wondered how can you adorn the gospel? Adorning doesn’t mean adding or subtracting anything from the gospel. Neither is the gospel powerless so that we need to add some “masala” to make it relevant and effective. The gospel is the power of God unto salvation. At the same time think about it, the gospel actually makes more sense to an unbeliever when they see it being clearly reflected in your life and mine. We wrongly influence the perception of the gospel when we live like the rest of the world.

and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. (v5) Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us. Bondservants are to be submissive to their own masters in everything; they are to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, not pilfering, but showing all good faith, so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior. (v7-10)

How many times have we heard things like “this person calls himself a believer, but his actions deny his faith”? And this is the testimony of unbelievers. That’s not how it’s meant to be and that’s not what God desires from people who have been redeemed from their sinful lives. God’s desire is for us to live holy lives dedicated to good works so that through us God can display His transformative power! In other words, our job is not to make more barriers for people to believe, but in fact to remove the barriers so that can receive the true saving message of the gospel.

Unbelievers might become hostile toward you because you are a believer, but deep down they should know that there’s no real charge they can bring against you for doing something morally wrong or unethical. “In everything we must adorn the doctrine of God our Savior”. Have you every wondered what that means for you? When you think about the workplace, do your colleagues see the goodness, righteousness and mercy of Christ through your words and actions? When you think about your family, do your family members see the patience and humility of Christ in your words and actions? With your church family, do your brothers and sisters in Christ see a glimpse of Christ in your interactions and service? What about your neighbours? Do they know you are a follower of Jesus by your words and lifestyle? I know these are quite challenging questions. I’m convicted of certain things myself.

Maybe till now we didn’t pay attention to adorning the gospel of Jesus or maybe we’ve forgotten it. There’s hope in the gospel for us today. 2000 years back, Jesus Christ became man and lived the life of goodness, righteousness, mercy, patience, humility according to the standard required by God. He perfectly reflected and showed who God Is. He lived the life we couldn’t live. Perfect obedience. And then he took on the punishment of sin as our Savior and substitute.

He died the death we deserved to die. If there was one thing we earned on our own merit…it was death and separation from God eternally. Jesus willingly gave himself up on the cross…humiliated by his own creation to save us from the holy wrath of God. He died and rose again on the third day because his sacrifice was complete and fully satisfied the wrath of God.

Those who repent and trust in Jesus will see the hope of the gospel being reflected in their lives. Jesus would begin to display Himself through their lives. One more thing…it’s not as though God needed us and without us he cannot adorn the gospel. Let’s not trivialize it that way. God chooses to use us to adorn the gospel. In His wisdom and greatness, redeeming the lives of sinful, dead people and allowing them to reflect His glory brings Him more glory! He is the glorious One who restores the broken and condemned ones. So if we find ourselves not adorning the good news, not reflecting Jesus….solution…go back to Jesus!

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Our passage for today is Titus 1:10-16.

For there are many who are insubordinate, empty talkers and deceivers, especially those of the circumcision party. They must be silenced since they are upsetting whole families by teaching for shameful gain what they ought not to teach. One of the Cretans, a prophet of their own, said, “Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons.” This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith, not devoting themselves to Jewish myths and the commands of people who turn away from the truth. To the pure, all things are pure, but to the defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure; but both their minds and their consciences are defiled. They profess to know God, but they deny him by their works. They are detestable, disobedient, unfit for any good work.

Like I said in the Introduction of Titus – This particular passage is about proper handling of error in the church life.

After giving instructions to Titus on appointing Elders in the church, Paul is now addressing some practical problems within the church.

In today’s sermon, we will understand these problems in its original context, and the solution Paul offers, and after which we will learn how it applies to us today.

The church in Create was growing in numbers, the ministry of Paul and Titus was flourishing, and the Gospel was impacting the lives of many people in that region.

But alongside the growth of true believers the church was also filled with many who were

• disobedient to the leaders,
• empty talkers – people who had everything to talk about in the world except god,
• deceivers – people who wanted to deceive the true believer from their genuine faith in Jesus,
• people who were upsetting others by teaching for shameful gain – either to gain money or materials things from them.

And Paul specifically mentions about especially those from the circumcision party. If you remember in 1 Timothy, these were the people who were distorting the gospel and asking the people also to get circumcised to become a true believer.

Then some people had a bad reputation of being liars, evil, lazy and gluttons.

People who were professing to know God, but denying him by their evil works.Now, It is no surprise that even today in our generation, churches across the world is filled with these kinds of people who have the form of godliness but are corrupt, deceivers, selfish and carry a bad reputation.

In verse 15-16 Pauls says: To the pure, all things are pure, but to the defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure; but both their minds and their consciences are defiled. They profess to know God, but they deny him by their works. They are detestable, disobedient, unfit for any good work.

You might ask, why does the church attract these kinds of people?

Number one reason I would say is that the enemy, the devil – the prince of this world is after the church of Jesus from growing & flourishing healthily. He will do anything to corrupt the hearts of believers by any means.

2 Thessalonians 2:9-10 – The coming of the lawless one is by the activity of Satan with all power and false signs and wonders, and with all wicked deception for those who are perishing, because they refused to love the truth and so be saved.

The second reason I believe we attract these kinds of people with selfish gain into our churches is when the gospel is incorrectly preached and presented.

Galatians 1:6-7 – I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting him who called you in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel— not that there is another one, but there are some who trouble you and want to distort the gospel of Christ.

The promise of the gospel is not health, wealth, and prosperity – It’s not that when you become a Christian all your problems will go away, you will become rich, or you will become famous.

The promise of the Gospel is salvation from sin and eternity with Christ. The church and its leaders should exhibit this truth in their message and through their lives.

When the gospel is presented as a means for earthly gain, then we will attract people who join the church for earthly gain. Therefore, we need to be careful how we share the gospel with our unbelieving friends. We need to watch our words and heart intent.

The goal of the church is not to get the church filled with people for the sake of numbers but to reach out to people who genuinely need savior Jesus.

The truth is – Any which ways we will have people in the church who will have wrong motives, who will be a lover of self, and deceivers. The question we need to ask is how do we guard our hearts and protect the body of Christ.

A word of Warning

Firstly I believe this passage is a warning to all of us. If, anyone of us, whether knowingly or unknowingly have been allowing Satan to use us in such a manner to destroy the body of Christ, then we should repent.

According to the scriptures, the areas we need to watch for are our attitude towards the elders, our conversations with each other, our heart motives and our behavior in general.

Paul’s instruction to Titus is to silence the evil doers and rebuke them publicly – It is the responsibility of the elders in the church to silence, rebuke and corrects those about whom it is mentioned as evil doers in verse 10-11.

It is one of the key responsibilities of an elder, and he shouldn’t be ignorant.

The elders should be unbiased and willing to let these people go even if they are the ones whose financial contributions make a huge difference to the church offertory.

The elders should be truthful to Gods word and faithfully teach them to the people.

Embrace the true Gospel

The second and I believe the most important way in which we protect our heart is by embracing the true Gospel.

The greatest deception in the churches during that time which the false teachers were teaching was Jesus is not enough, his sacrifice is not enough – They said you need to be circumcised a well to get approval from God.

They were infiltrating (diluting) the gospel by adding stuff to it. They said you need to do this and you need to do that to be saved.

When you look at our history, you will see how this deception had got into the fabric of Christian churches today. The sacraments of the catholic church, the rituals and the chanting’s of the orthodox believers, the unscriptural practices, and rules in some of the so-called Christian churches.

We focus and talk about everything else except Jesus and the Gospel.

Titus 1:13-14

Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith, not devoting themselves to Jewish myths and the commands of people who turn away from the truth.

2 Thessalonians 2:9-10 – The coming of the lawless one is by the activity of Satan with all power and false signs and wonders, and with all wicked deception for those who are perishing, BECAUSE THEY REFUSED TO LOVE THE TRUTH and so be saved.

When God created Adam and Eve and placed them in the garden of Eden, they sinned against God by disobeying his command. They became sinful because of which God cast them away from his presence.

And because we are their children we are sinful too in nature. Our hearts are corrupt; our minds are corrupt, our behaviors are corrupt. From the time we were born, we were deceivers and sinful just like Adam and Eve. No one taught us to cheat and lie – we naturally cheated, lied, disobeyed. We are thugs, robbers and filthy people in the sight of God.

No matter how many good works we do on this earth, nothing can save us from God’s anger and his wrath.

But the bible says God loved us, and he sent his only son Jesus to die for us.

And the only way we can receive forgiveness for sins is through the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus, the son of God, who came down to this earth, lived a righteous life and took our sins upon the cross and died on our behalf – mending our relationship with God the Father once again.

All we need to do is REPENT of our SINS and believe in the GOSPEL – nothing else.

It’s a lie if you hear people say – Oh, but you also need to do this and do that to become a true Christian.

No. Jesus is enough.

It is the often the distorted view of the Gospel Truth that puts us in an ugly position with God, and we need to be careful.

It is so easy to forget this truth and try to work out our salvation on our own strength. We will fail, and we will fail miserably. The reward is Jesus and Jesus alone. Nothing more nothing less.

As a church, we need to protect this gospel truth primarily for two reasons

1. So that our hearts are fully fixated on Jesus and help us live a Gospel-centered life.
2. So that our hearts are protected from the evil one.

The Church of Jesus is the hope of the world. Remember, we are the light in this dark world, our light should shine before others, so that they may see our good works and give glory to the Father who is in heaven.

But if the light in us is darkness, imagine how great is the darkness.

And therefore, let this passage remind us and convict our hearts of our self-centered lives, empty words, foolish behaviors and our ignorance of the true Gospel.

May I encourage you to come before God and ask him to heal our hearts and purify our minds so we can live for his Glory.

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Good morning church! Last week brother Saju gave us a wonderful start to the book of Titus (Read). He shared how Paul and Titus shared a very close friendship in the gospel. It’s a beautiful picture of gospel centered relationships that we need to invest in with other members of the Gathering. He also highlighted key themes that we’ll be looking over the next few weeks:

1. Proper leadership
2. Proper handling of error
3. Proper Christian living
4. Importance of finding our hope in the Gospel.

Today we’ll be looking at the need and qualifications for proper leadership in the church! Let me begin by asking you all a question. When you think about the word “elder” or “pastor”, what thoughts come in your end? What do you expect from an elder? What does an elder do?

Some common expectations are:

1. He needs to be a charismatic speaker – magnetic personality who speaks with eloquence and passion.
2. He needs to be an entertainer – should really know how to tell good jokes during the sermon, should add timely illustrations and stories to keep the congregation’s eyes glued on him.
3. He should have strong leadership skills – when he talks and walks, you know he’s a leader!
4. He needs to be good at administration – He needs to be very good at planning events and activities.
5. Or do we need an elder at all? Can we function as a healthy church without biblical eldership?

That was sort of the place where the church at Crete was. Let’s look into our text:

5 This is why I left you in Crete, so that you might put what remained into order, and appoint elders in every town as I directed you— 6 if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife,[d] and his children are believers[e] and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. 7 For an overseer,[f] as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, 8 but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. 9 He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound[g] doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it. (v5-9)

Paul starts out by saying that he left Titus in Crete to set into order what was lacking. Why does he say that?

1. The church at Crete was possibly a young church. By young I mean they consisted of believers who were recently converted. The gospel spread far and wide so that in each town they had a church gathering together. So they were growing numerically but they didn’t have elders in place to guide and strengthen the churches
2. There were false teachers who were teaching wrong doctrine and confusing the church. We see that in the following verses v10-16. If we see something common in the church in Ephesus and also in this church in Crete, the common issue they were facing was “false teachers”. And not only were there false teachers in those days, but we find many false teachers even today. That’s why all the more a need to have good godly elders to confront false teachers and protect the flock of God.

So for Paul this was something so essential and crucial which is why he left Titus there to appoint elders in every town.

Let me ask you was the requirement for elders merely an organizational requirement? Where they had a lot of members and now they needed elders or is it part of God’s design and gift for the church so that these elders can set the pace and lead the church to love, serve and obey Christ?

The answer can be discovered by the definition. Who or what is an Elder? Just to clarify these terms as brother shared last week: Pastor/Elder/Overseer/Bishop mean the same thing. They are used interchangeably in the Bible. Some churches have a hierarchy. Like Pastor, Sr. Pastor, Bishop…biblically there isn’t a hierarchy. They just are different terms used for the leader of the church. The word “Elder” simply means someone whom Christ has called and appointed over you to model what it means to love, serve and obey Christ! Now it doesn’t mean that the elder has to be 60+ to be an elder. But he has to be someone spiritually mature whom you can look up to which is why we come to the qualifications:

A) Shepherding his family well

6 if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife,[d] and his children are believers[e] and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination.

The first thing we see here is the qualification to be “above reproach”. What does that mean? It means that the believer should be blameless, unaccused. So someone who has a bad reputation in public cannot be a candidate for eldership. The next thing being mentioned here is that he needs to be “the husband of one wife”. Firstly, I think from this verse it’s pretty clear that elders/pastors are a responsibility for men because God has given the primary responsibility of spiritual leadership in the home and the church to men. Secondly, being a husband to one wife means being faithful to his wife. He is known for loving and honouring his wife. It obviously means that he doesn’t entertain any thought of infidelity or extra marital affairs but it also means that he speaks honourably of his wife. I know it’s a common thing in the world to make wife jokes. You find it all over the internet. However, the way you speak about your wife reveals a lot about how you value her. Therefore, he needs to be a person who loves and cares for his wife not only while talking to others but also while talking to her. That’s one of the reasons I think this qualification is in there is because we can pretend outside of home but our spouse knows us well. Can’t pretend before her. If I’m being a hypocrite, my wife knows. All our sins and weaknesses get exposed in marriage.

Can a person who is single who meets all the other qualifications become an elder? Yes, but it’s going to be a slow process for him. It’ll take a longer period of scrutiny to be able to see his life and then appoint him as an elder.

Then it says “his children are believers and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination”. Now the actual Greek phrase actually can mean “has faithful children”. I would go with this explanation because it’s not up to the father to save his child. Salvation is completely based on grace through faith. And we know faith is a gift from God. (Eph 2:8,9) So the responsibility on the father is to ensure that his children are faithful and trustworthy. The other reason why I feel this means faithful children is because of the next phrase which says “not open to charge of debauchery or insubordination”. Debauchery means excessive indulgence in the pleasures of this world. Insubordination means being unruly and disobedient. Why is the elder being held responsible for the actions of his children?

1. Because it’s his primary responsibility as the leader of the home
2. Because he’s setting an example for what a godly family looks like
3. Because caring for your family shows how you would also care for God’s church.

4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? (! Tim 3:4,5)

If we as elders find our families in a bad condition after a few years with unsubmissive children, I think it’ll be more effective if we step down from the eldership because not only is it calling us to disciple and love our children during that season but it’s also about the responsibility of being a role model for the church. Being an elder is not a position, it is a responsibility! Shepherding our families well is a pre-requisite to be qualified as an elder.

B) Symbolized by a godly life

7 For an overseer,[f] as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, 8 but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. (v7,8)

The starting of v7 once again reminds us that elders are God’s stewards. We are called to manage and supervise God’s house for which we will need to give an account for. Would you entrust your home or property to a thief or a careless person? Absolutely not. How much more important it is for us to have the right people with integrity to be taking care of God’s house which is his people?

• He must not be arrogant: does what pleases himself, he is self-willed. He is his own boss. He only does what he wants to do
• He must not be quick tempered means he shouldn’t be prone to anger. Not someone who is always flaring up and getting angry
• He must not be a drunkard: shouldn’t be devoted to wine
• He must not be violent: He shouldn’t be quarrelsome, always ready to fight
• He must not be greedy for gain: greedy for money.

What Paul is trying to say is that the person who aspires to be an elder shouldn’t have a lifestyle characterized by these qualities. If these qualities are what characterizes him, then he is not qualified or fit to the lead the church! I think the “greed” part alone is enough to disqualify many pastors today.

Instead he should be characterized by the following qualities:

• But hospitable: generous to guests, a lover of hospitality…very essential because the elder will need to be hospitable and approachable when visitors come. And not just that but when the elders are being approached by members of the church.
• Lover of good: promoter of what is good. He is someone who delights and promotes good works. Whatever helps, benefits and edifies people is what he will support and encourage as the leader.
• Self-controlled: in control of his desires and impulses. His life isn’t marked by excess or lack of control of his desires.
• Upright – he makes fair and impartial judgments. Not biased when judging a matter or sharing advice.
• Holy – Reverence and purity are very important to him. His lifestyle is one worth imitating.
• Disciplined – curbing and restraining himself in order to do what God has called him to do. The lifestyle for an elder contrary to some entertaining pastors in the world may seem monotonous. It seems like they do the same thing over and over again. Same pattern. And there is a reason for that. There is a reason why biblical elders don’t party all the time. You won’t find them chasing after the latest movies and keeping up with the latest trends and TV series. In fact you’ll find them have a linear kind of life. While they are ministering to people, they will have exciting experiences but if you were to just look at their week, it’ll probably seem unadventurous. The reason for that is this discipline puts them in a place where they can love God and love people the way God calls them to. There’s a reason why Daniel prayed three times a day. There’s a reason why Jesus frequently went away to the mountain to pray. With discipline…it may appear boring to the world but it sets you up in the best place to hear and do what God tells you to do. One quote that I think of comes to my mind. It goes like “There is no discipleship without discipline”. Having a disciplined life in itself is not the goal, it’s the starting ground to open up your heart to receive from God what He wants to grant you. Discipline is not boring, it’s for your joy! That your joy may be full! For an elder, discipline allows him to prioritize his relationship with God and ministry to people.

C) Skilled handler of the Word

9 He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound[g] doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.

We spoke a great deal on character qualities but the elder also needs to be competent with the Word of God. Firstly he needs to hold fast to the “trustworthy Word”: which is the gospel. He needs to be convinced by the truths of the gospel as covered from Genesis to Revelation. He knows he can’t add or delete anything from the gospel but understands the power and the beauty of the gospel is expressed only when he presents it as it is! Last year when the whole demonetization thing happened, there were a lot of fake notes that were going around and being seized. The difference between an original 500 Rs. Note and a counterfeit 500 Rs. Note is very marginal. There might only just be one small difference. Now as ordinary citizens, how can we know it is fake? Not by studying the fake note but by studying the original. Thoroughly study the original note and you’ll know the fake when you see it. The same idea it is with the elder. He needs to know the gospel, live out the gospel, preach and teach the gospel day in and day out and even if he encounters false teachers some day, he will know how to refute and respond to them. Why because? The goal is to become like Jesus. The more Christ’s church hear and listen to pure sound doctrine, the more it becomes into Jesus. What you believe, is what you become!

Even though today we learnt how God desires godly, qualified leaders to look after His church, I don’t want us to go back home today thinking, “Oh this was a message for those who are elders and want to become elders…it isn’t for me”. You would miss the point then. When you look at this list: shepherding your family well, having your life symbolized by godliness and being a skillful handler of the Word….do you think Christ exempts you from pursuing that? Is it meant for some spiritual elite? No, in God’s kingdom there is no elite club but these qualifications are also to be viewed as what Christ desires from your life. Elders are pace-setters and role models but this is what God wants from all of us. He wants holiness, self-control, discipline, lover of good, blamelessness, uprightness. He doesn’t want you to be arrogant, violent, greedy for money, quick tempered. Or maybe it’s in your family life where you’ve not been a good steward. Would you repent and turn away from this today?

Let me say also one thing here…there is only one person on the face of the earth who has perfectly exhibited these qualities. He is our chief Shepherd – Jesus Christ. Apart from Jesus, none of us perfectly display these characteristics. The truth is that in the eyes of Holy God, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”. We all deserved judgment for our rebellion against God. We all pointed a clenched fist toward God. In His love, He sent His only Son Jesus to absorb the wrath that He was going to pour on us. Jesus died on the cross as the perfect sacrifice. He was buried and rose again on the third day. He is the only reason why we were accepted and saved. So that should make us run to Jesus helplessly seeking His grace and mercy to empower us to serve Him. It’s amazing how Christ uses us in our weakness to still accomplish His purposes!

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When we started with 2 Timothy you must have heard from us that 2 Timothy was the last letter of Paul, and here you see another letter from him again. The fact is, though Titus appears after 2 Timothy in the Bible, it was written much earlier than that.

As per the narrative in the book of Acts, Titus would have been written in the mid-60’s A.D, which is around the same time as 1 Timothy. So, if we have to place these three letters in chronological order, then it would be 1 Timothy, Titus and then 2 Timothy.

In today’s sermon, I want to give an introduction to the Epistle of Titus.

And in my introduction, I want to talk about two things mainly.

1. Paul relationship with Titus – What can we learn from that?
2. Paul’s purpose of writing this letter – What should we expect from this book?

Starting with Paul’s relationship with Titus:

As per Galatians 2:1-4, during one of Paul’s missionary journey he meets Titus who is a young Greek man, a worshipper of other gods, hears Paul preach about Jesus. And as he heard the message of Jesus, his heart responded to the gospel, and he believed in Jesus.

Titus was a total stranger to the gospel and worshipped other gods.

It is almost like the stories of most of our brothers who’ve come from a different religious background.
Titus then traveled with Paul in his missionary journeys, helped in the work of sharing the gospel. We see how he served Paul faithfully in 2 Corinthians 7 when Paul sent him to Corinth to reduce the tension in the church and in 2 Corinthians 8 where he was sent to collect money for the poor.

We see how he served Paul faithfully in 2 Corinthians 7 when Paul sent him to Corinth to reduce the tension in the church and in 2 Corinthians 8 where he was sent to collect money for the poor.
Titus served Paul diligently.

In our passage from Titus 1:4 Paul addresses Titus as his true son in a common faith, mainly also because he was like a spiritual son to him since Paul had led him to Christ.

It was kind of interesting to read some of the things mentioned about Titus.

Like, in 2 Corinthians 2:13 Paul talks about Titus and says how his presence brought rest to Pauls’ heart.

In 2 Corinthians 7:6 – Paul’s writes about Titus saying “But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus” – Titus brought comfort to Paul and other believers

In 2 Corinthians 8:23 Paul writes “As for Titus, he is my partner and fellow worker for your benefit. And as for our brothers, they are messengers of the churches, the glory of Christ.

After Paul was released from the Roman prison where he had been for two years, he and Titus traveled to the island of Crete. They preached the gospel there and taught the people about God and the good news of Jesus (Titus 1:4-5). And soon there were enough believers to start churches in several towns.

And soon there were enough believers to start churches in several towns.

Soon after that, we see Paul leaves Create and Titus continues to teach the new Christians.

It was at this time, probably after several months, Paul writes a letter of encouragement to Titus. That’s the letter we are reading.

As I read about Pauls & Titus’s relationship, I learnt a crucial lesson.

I realized that Godly relationships are much deeper than any other relationship in the world.

And I say that because this kind of relationship is not just limited to staying together, eating together, having a good laugh, playing and having fun. But it is also where you and I hold each other’s hands and participate in building God’s kingdom – by spreading the gospel, planting churches and bringing Glory to the name of the Lord, which is the ultimate goal of every individual – To bring glory to Gods name.

Once when Jesus’ mother and brothers came to meet him while he was ministering to a crowd, they sent word and called him out. To which Jesus replied

“Who are my mother and my brothers?” And looking about at those who sat around him, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! For whoever does the will of God, he is my brother and sister and mother.” – Mark 3:34-35

In these verses, we see Jesus valuing the company of those who do the will of God above every other relationship, even his immediate family members.

Paul & Titus’s relation was much beyond the natural family relationships. Paul was a spiritual father to Titus who led him to the Lord, took him alongside on missions, poured into his life what he received from the Lord, Paul set himself as an example for Titus to follow.

Titus on the other end was a true son to Paul, who served him, brought him comfort and rest just by his presence.

But above everything else they were together in laboring for the Kingdom of God, preaching the gospel and planting churches.

From the example of Paul and Titus, we see how important it is to invest in such a relationship, a spiritual relationship of a new found brother & sister & father & mother who’ve put their faith in Jesus and walk in obedience, doing the will of God.

And this kind of relationships doesn’t happen automatically, but it takes an active participation from each one of us.

Remember, In our last bible outreach we spoke about Community – This is what we meant by that.

A family together in the Lord, doing the will of the Father of bringing glory to His name.

And I realize this is where we want to head as Gathering Community Church – A Family together on a Mission.

Now, when we talk about family – we also know that managing a family is not an easy task.

Imagine looking after and managing our own families – providing for them, protecting them, loving them, caring for them, and above everything else protecting their heart and discipline them in the Lord, leading them to Christ.

Just as we need help and guidance from the Lord to look after our earthly families, we also need help & guidance to manage and look after the church family.

And that is what I believe is the purpose of this letter is.

In this letter, Paul lays down some of some of the essential components of a healthy church family.
As a church, if we have to grow healthy and united then we have to hold on to the principals that that govern the Church. We need to have a structure in place that holds us together.

If you want our church family to grow healthy and make an impact in the world then you need to read the rest of the sermon very carefully because it is not just the responsibility of the leaders but also a responsibility of every single member of the church to contribute their bit.

In Titus 1:1-3 Paul opens up the letter by introducing himself as someone who is appointed by God our savior to lead and encourage the Church (us) to recognize and pursue the knowledge of the truth which leads to Godliness.

Paul is the perfect guy to help us understand what a healthy church should be and how it needs to function to remain a healthy church.

In the whole letter, Paul’s focus is on the church, and there are three areas which he talks about which I believe are the important pillars of the church.

1. Proper leadership (1:5-9)
2. Proper handling of error (1:10-16;3:9-11)
3. Proper Christian living – especially new believers (2:1-10; 3:1-2)
4. The importance of finding our hope in the Gospel (2:11-14;3:3-7)

We will look closer into all these aspects as we preach on them in the coming weeks. But what I want to do today is to whet your appetite to keep your hearts open to learn and apply these family principles in our church life.

1. Proper leadership

Just as important it is for a family to have a leader, in the same way, the church needs good leadership as well.

I don’t know what style of church leadership you’ve been exposed to before coming to the Gathering but

I want to share some scriptural references to what we believe church leadership should look like and why they are important.

i) Plurality of Elders

I want to talk about a plurality of elders, I don’t know if you have heard that term before. It basically means having more than one elder governing the church and not just one person leading the whole church. We see that model in the scripture wherein Titus 1:5 Paul instructs Titus to appoint ‘elders’ in every town, he doesn’t say ‘elder’ but ‘elders’.

When I say the word ‘elder’, ‘pastor’, ‘bishop’, ‘overseer’ … all are same.

Many churches today have a single pastor leading the church, but seems to me that this model misses the mark of the New Testament teaching on this topic.

As you see in Titus and several other portions of the New Testament, the early church had, I believe, multiple elders. We will talk about this in detail as we go through the passage on elders but I want to say that the reason the scriptures teach multiple elderships is that

(1) Biblical accountability – It is important to have mutual accountability if elders have to protect themselves from falling into sin. In addition, sharing authority among a number of men can keep one man from wrongly lording it over the congregation

(2) Balance – No one man has all the gifts that are necessary to build up the church. Having a plurality of elders serves the church by bringing men with different gifts into the church’s leadership.

(3) Wisdom – There is more wisdom to be found in a multitude of counselors (Prov. 11:14; 24:6).

(4) Burden sharing – Caring for the whole church is a burden God does not intend one man to bear alone. Even the most faithful, gifted leader needs help from other godly men in order to pay careful attention to himself and to all the flock

What is the application for us:

At the Gathering, as of now there are two elders, Jinson and me, and soon once Jeff comes down with his family we would like to install him as the third Elder.

As a church, it is important that we recognize this biblical model and refrain from elevating one elder above the other. We are equal and we serve in equal measures, being accountable to each other with our life and message.

In India, and also in our churches today, the usual tendency is to hero worship our leaders based on their style of talking, their ministry qualifications, their personality.

That is not how the church should like.

ii) Elders are role models & not just people in authority

In Titus 1:6-8 Paul lists down the qualifications of the person who should be appointed as an Elder. It says “if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife, and his children are believers[e] and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. For an overseer, as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined.”

Looking at that list, we should realize that the main the task of the Elder is more to do with being a role model to the rest of the church.

We need to remember that leaders are not above the church, the church is above the leaders.
Which means tomorrow if I fail to be a role model to you guys, If I fail to live a gospel-centered life and harbor an unrepentant heart, then I don’t deserve to be an Elder. Eldership is not positional, it is a Responsibility.

Someone from the Gathering asked me the other day “Saju, when Jane was sick and was admitted in the hospital we saw another side of you for a couple of days. We saw you weak and disturbed.” He said “don’t you think as a leader you should show your stronger side even in hard times so people don’t look down on you”

My answer was “No, I don’t think I should pretend as everything is fine when everything is not fine”.

As church, we should know that the elders are no different from others, we go through the same problems as you do, we are equally vulnerable to fall into sin as you are, we need savior Jesus just as you need him.

But, here’s the difference. As Elders we ought to set an example to you by continuing to trust in the Gospel, in the saving grace of Jesus, in continuing to serve Christ, his church even in our darkest moments.

Elders are your role models – don’t make them your idols or place them above Christ in your Life. Pray for them, encourage them and give them a helping hand to lead the church well.

A healthy church needs healthy leaders.

2.Proper handling of error

The second pillar of a healthy church which Paul elaborates in this letter is the proper handling of error.

In Titus, at several occasions, you will notice Paul is instructing Titus to rebuke, correct & discipline the people in the church time and again, which implies that Paul is not just satisfied with the fact that church happens every church Sunday. He is most concerned with whether people have the right understanding of the gospel.

I read a quote from Timothy Keller’s book called “Center church” where is talks about being a gospel centered church and this is what he writes

“A Gospel centered church is theologically driven and not program driven”

Many churches today are more interested in the program model, the number of people that attend the church and are less concerned about their theology. This is where false teachers come in and corrupt the sheep.

Every time Paul would visit the churches he planted, he would drive away people who either propagate or teach false doctrines.

A healthy church needs to keep a watch on their theology and lead the people into the right understanding of the truth.

3. Proper Christian living

The third pillar of a healthy church is proper Christian living (in Titus, Paul specifically talks about the new believers).

The Createn believers had a bad reputation among others.

Titus 1:12 Paul writes “One of the Cretans,[i] a prophet of their own, said, “Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons.” And Paul tells Titus to rebuke them and correct them.

Paul emphasizes in this letter how important it is for us to live a Godly life and how important it is for our words and actions to complement our faith in Christ.

It is the responsibility of Elders to rebuke you, correct you and help the church live a Godly life.
And therefore as a church, we should be willing to accept corrections, whether with regards to theology or behavioral issues. And the elder ought to do it with love and patience.

This is a mark of a healthy and growing church where the people of God willing submit themselves to the leaders which God has appointed over them.

4. Find our hope in the Gospel

The fourth and the final pillar of a healthy church, which Paul mentions in this letter is to find our hope in the Gospel.

In Titus 2:11-14 Paul writes

For the grace of God has appeared (through Christ), bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.

The mark of a healthy & growing church is where people have put their hope in Christ and in his saving grave and not in some experiential make belief. We don’t come to church to enjoy good music and listen to godly talks to make us feel good and get some motivation for the rest of the week.

We come to church to cherish the Gospel – to find our hope in the Gospel – By Gospel I mean to remind ourselves that it is because of the grace & mercy of God that sinners like you and me can have confidence that a holy God will accept us in his presence. Two important words for us to remember is grace and gospel.

Paul says that “God our Father loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace” (2 Thessalonians 2:16). And he urges us not to shift from the hope of the gospel (Colossians 1:23). So the grace of God and the good news of Christ crucified for sins and raised from the dead are the reasons that sinners like you and me can hope in God and have a confident expectation that the future will be good for us.

I like a statement Jeff made yesterday when we were having our lunch together. I hope I’m saying it rightly.

He said “What we truly deserve is death and anything outside that is purely Gods grace and mercy”

It is because of Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross for a penalty of our sins that we can now have eternal life in a bountiful measure.

A healthy church family is where this truth of the gospel is experienced, as well as lived out in full measure.

And with these initial thoughts, I want to invite you to come with an open mind and open heart to learn and study from the Epistle of Titus.

Let’s pray.

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In life, there are many moments when we experience loneliness. The strange part is that we can be in a city like Mumbai that has 23 million people and still feel isolated!

We experience loneliness when our friends and companions abandon us. We can be alone when our family rejects us. We can be lonely when we are confronted with really tough situations like an illness, financial issues, job problems or conflicts within the family.

We can also feel lonely during our struggle with sin.

During all these moments we feel like we are all alone. We feel like no one can understand us, help us and be there with us. And because we don’t deal with this in the right way, it can often lead us to find comfort in the wrong places.

That’s why I think it’s important for us to pay attention to the Word and understand what God is trying to tell us today.

I hope this passage will not only provide the answer but also offer encouragement to us right now if we are experiencing a time or season of loneliness.

2 Timothy 4:9-22

9 Do your best to come to me soon.

10 For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica. Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia.

11 Luke alone is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is very useful to me for ministry.

12 Tychicus I have sent to Ephesus.

13 When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments.

14 Alexander the coppersmith did me great harm; the Lord will repay him according to his deeds.

15 Beware of him yourself, for he strongly opposed our message.

16 At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them!

17 But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion’s mouth.

18 The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom. To him be the glory forever and ever. Amen.

19 Greet Prisca and Aquila, and the household of Onesiphorus.

20 Erastus remained at Corinth, and I left Trophimus, who was ill, at Miletus.

21 Do your best to come before winter. Eubulus sends greetings to you, as do Pudens and Linus and Claudia and all the brothers.

22 The Lord be with your spirit. Grace be with you.

Sometimes when we think about Paul we only think about the number of churches he planted, the time he spent preaching and building up the church and the number of letters he wrote to encourage the church (13 out of 27 letters in the NT are written by Paul), the miracles he performed in his lifetime but we forget how his whole life was marked by persecutions and suffering.

In fact, the Lord told Ananias, the brother who laid his hands on Paul to give him back his eyesight (Acts 9) “for I will show him how much he must suffer for my name”.

Even when we come to the last part of his life, we see the same theme of suffering being played out. We read last week how Paul talks about his life being poured out as a drink offering and sacrifice for the church.

He knows that the time of his departure has come and he’s expectantly waiting to receive the crown of righteousness from his loving Savior – Jesus.

He’s a few months away from his impending execution and in this passage, he talks about a different kind of suffering – suffering emotionally.

Paul is experiencing a great deal of emotional suffering due to abandonment and loneliness during his last few days. And this is probably more intense and painful than physical suffering. He is experiencing emotional suffering due to two broad reasons:

1) Some companions deserted him – V10 talks about Demas who loved the present world and went to Thessalonica.

Who is this Demas?

Demas was a companion of Paul. 5 years back during Paul’s first imprisonment in Rome, Demas was with him in jail. (Col 4:14) All those prison letters like Ephesians, Phillippians, Colossians, and Philemon were written with him.

In Philemon 24 he refers to Demas as a fellow worker. It’s sad that after watching Paul so closely and seeing his devotion to the Lord, Demas still deserted Paul and left the ministry.

And it says that he loved the world! In our sin, many of us do not see our love for the world as a competing God in our life. If you are harboring a secret love for the world, then it’s eventually going to dictate your course of life and decisions in times of inconvenience, trouble, and suffering.

That’s what happened to Demas. The second imprisonment was possibly more intense and harsh than the first. And Paul himself was awaiting execution, so Demas didn’t want to associate himself with him and jeopardize his own life.

Demas’s life should be a warning for us because he was someone who was so involved in ministry yet loved the world. Eventually, his love for the world took over him. We need to repent of competing idols in our hearts.

2) His other companions went to serve in other churches – Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia. (v10)

If you read through the book of Acts, you’ll see that these missionaries always did ministry as teams. They joyfully went to new areas with the gospel and even gladly faced persecutions due to the gospel.

Sadly, Paul’s last few months were spent alone without key members of the missionary team. And it wasn’t always due to desertion like Demas but sometimes it was due to the call to continue ministering to different churches.

In spite of Paul’s imprisonment, Crescens and Titus had to go to Galatia (modern day Turkey) and Dalmatia (Croatia).

To give you an idea on how bad was the emotional suffering, let’s look at v14-16

14 Alexander the coppersmith did me great harm; the Lord will repay him according to his deeds.

15 Beware of him yourself, for he strongly opposed our message.

16 At my first defense, no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them!

Some commentators say that it’s possible that it’s the same Alexander from 1 Tim 1:20. If you remember he was a false teacher at Ephesus who was excommunicated and put outside the church.

He now vented his personal malice in accusing Paul before the Roman judges. Probably charging him for starting a political revolt and starting a new religion.

We don’t know for sure if it was the same Alexander but in any case, it’s clear that he caused a great deal of harm.

Paul still leaves the response to the Lord. Rom 12:19 says Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”

Coming back to v16 in 2 Tim 4, Paul says that during his first defense (the preliminary hearing before Caesar Nero)…remember Nero is a king who was known for his cruel behavior toward Christians.

He would burn Christians alive to be used as a torch at night, have dogs tear them to death, crucify them not because of public justice but because of personal cruelty.

So when Paul’s companions got to know that he was going to have this preliminary hearing, they deserted him. Nobody wanted to have anything to do with Paul because it would bring severe persecution.

Just imagine how lonely Paul would’ve felt at that point. He spent his whole life for people but was left alone when he was before Nero. But Paul forgives them and explains how he responded to that moment of emotional turmoil and loneliness:

1. Strengthened by Christ’s presence

17 But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me,

I think that word “but” is crucial here because it contrasts with the previous verses that talk about the companions that left Paul alone.

Even though everyone deserted Paul….yet the Lord remained faithful!! Jesus doesn’t disappear when His children are in trouble or danger. He stands by them! He stands with them!

How does God’s presence strengthen us?

It gives us tremendous boldness to know that the Lord and Judge of the entire universe is standing right beside us. All authority in heaven and on earth is given to Jesus (Matt 28:18).

No matter how powerful may be the person standing in front of you, the course of your life is determined by the Sovereign Lord who rules and sustains the entire universe.

In Matt 10, Jesus tells the disciples that in those days 2 sparrows were sold for a penny. Sparrows were the smallest of birds and pennies were of the lowest value in the Roman world. Yet not even a single sparrow falls to the ground apart from the will of the Father.

If God’s in control of a little sparrows life, isn’t He in control of the life of His children who are more valuable than sparrows?

He is the Lord who has numbered the hairs on your head. Do you know the number of hairs on your head? Does your family know the number of hairs on your head? What about your best friend? Believers in Christ have nothing to fear with Jesus by your side.

Illustration: A fearful child always finds security in the presence of the parent.

But how do we experience God’s presence?

We experience God’s presence by trusting, obeying, embracing, loving, receiving and talking to Jesus by abiding in the Word and prayer. It’s not a passing feeling.

We learned a few weeks back how God communicates with His people: through the preaching of the Word and the study of the Word. The closer your life is in line with the Word, the more assured and aware you will be of the reality of God’s presence.

I know some of you are probably listening to this and thinking “this is so basic. I know I have to read the Bible and pray. Give me something new”.

It is basic but could we honestly ask ourselves if we’ve addressed our problem of isolation and loneliness with being reminded of the presence of God? What if you weren’t created to experience loneliness? What if God intended that all of life be spent with Him?

2. Directed by Christ’s purpose

v17. so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it.

There is a clear purpose to the Lord being there with us. Yes, God loves us and He cares dearly for us. However, I don’t want us to end up with a man centered theology. We are not the end goal.

Glorifying God’s name is the end goal! Paul realized what God was doing through His life. If God is Sovereign and governs everything in all the universe, then even the struggles, pain, suffering and other issues were meant to bring glory to God through your life!

The reason why God strengthens you with His presence is so that you may show unbelievers how valuable and treasured God is.

9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. (2 Cor 12:9)

God is active in stripping away every ounce of self-dependence from His children so that unbelievers may see Christ being reflected in and through them!

So it’s time we aligned ourselves to that understanding. Some of the greatest testimonies that have convinced unbelievers about the truth of gospel have not always been success stories and miracles.

It’s been stories of faithful people who have persevered in sufferings, pain, illnesses, financial issues, conflict yet not departed from the faith.

They hold on and have this indescribable peace which can only be explained through the presence of the Lord Himself in their lives.

I don’t think Paul used this tough circumstance to crib over the people who deserted him. He used that as an opportunity to witness as he experienced the presence of God. Would you consider desiring the presence of God not for quick fixes to your problems but so that the world may see how beautiful and wonderful Jesus is?

3. Secured by Christ’s protection

So I was rescued from the lion’s mouth. 18 The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom. To him be the glory forever and ever. Amen.

What Paul meant by being rescued from the lion’s mouth was being kept safe from death after the preliminary hearing before Caesar. But we know that he was going to be executed soon.

So what did he mean by the Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his kingdom….what he means that in Christ, his assurance of His eternal home is in absolutely safe and certain hands.

Even though he knew he was going to be executed soon, it doesn’t change his future.

38 For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom 8:38-39)

What if we reminded ourselves of this truth about God’s love that protects us and brings us safely into the heavenly kingdom…don’t you think that eliminates the isolation and loneliness when you realize that it’s not just Christ’s presence right now but He has graciously granted His eternal presence to us!

I just want to close by saying being isolated and lonely was also a product of the Fall. When God created Adam and Eve, the intention was to enjoy total, free and uninterrupted fellowship with them. However, when they sinned they hid themselves from God.

They isolated themselves and went away from God’s presence. Jesus Christ came into the world to rescue us from our isolation. He did it by giving up His life for us…for our sins. Jesus Christ paid the price for our reckless and rebellious life.

He died and shed His blood and on the third Day he rose from the grave and brought us back into an unending, real, fulfilling relationship with God. We got an entry back into God’s presence!

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Last Sunday we looked at 2 Timothy 4:1-4 where Jinson shared the importance of the preached word in the life of the church. We learned the goal of preached word and how to prepare our hearts to receive it.

Here are the three applications from the sermon.

– Value the preached word of God
– Pray for the elders who preach the word of God
– Prepare our hearts throughout the week especially on Saturday to hear the word of God.

I hope and believe that all of us who’ve heard the sermon last Sunday have prayed for me and also prepared their hearts to hear God’s word this morning. If you’ve not done so then, I will encourage you to do so as we pray now.

Our passage for this morning is 2 Timothy 4:5-8, let’s turn to our bible and read.

We see that verse 5 starts with a word of encouragement.

After emphasizing the importance of preaching the word, Paul is now encouraging Timothy to remain sober minded, endure suffering, continue to work as an evangelist and to fulfill his ministry call.

The reason Paul sends encouragement is, of course, because of verse 3 & 4 where he writes

“the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.”

But “As for you” … Always be sober-minded, endure suffering, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.

What Paul is essentially saying is don’t let anything or anybody bother or distract you from pursuing Gods calling and purpose in your life.

As we progress in our Christian life serving God and serving people, we will come across people who will reject our teaching, follow their passions and turn away from listening to the truth and wander into myths.

Sometimes, they will be our closest friends, our family, the people whom you love the most, people you disciple. They might say things that will hurt our feelings, maybe some of us may even have to go through persecution and affliction.

Paul’s encouragement to us is to remain sober minded (sensible & composed), endure suffering (not shaken or moved), continue to do the work of an evangelist (share the gospel faithfully), fulfill your ministry (follow your calling).

The enemy uses circumstances like these to destroy Gods calling and ministry over our lives. And therefore it is important that we recognize them and take Paul’s instruction and encouragement seriously so that we don’t stumble and deviate from pursuing God.

In verse 6 Paul goes on to say “For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come.”

I love Paul; because he is a fantastic role model to me.

When I read verse 6, I get this sense of Paul saying, guys, what I am asking you to do is something I have already lived and followed.

When Paul using the term ‘being poured out as a drink offering’ he is referring to the old covenant act of sacrifice called the ‘drink offering’ which was first recorded in Genesis 35:14

“And Jacob set up a pillar in the place where he had spoken with God, a pillar of stone. He poured out a drink offering on it and poured oil on it.”

‘Drink offering’ is also mentioned in other parts of the old testament law.

The pouring out of a drink offering is a metaphor for the blood Jesus spilled on the cross. Jesus himself used that language to describe his death in Luke 22:20 when he instituted the new covenant.

He said, “This cup that is poured out for you is the new covenant in my blood.”

By that definition what Paul meant was that his life had been offered as a sacrifice in the service of God and his people. I wonder how many Christian leaders today would be able to say that about themselves.

Isn’t he an excellent role model for us to imitate and follow.

I love King David, Abraham, Moses, Solomon, Joshua – and all the other heroes of faith from the old testament but if there is someone whom I’d like to look up to as a role model in the new covenant, that would be Paul.

Paul is a great example to follow …

• If I want to learn what it means to love Christ
• If I want to learn what it means to serve the people of God faithfully
• If I want to get to live a life led by the Holy Spirit
• If I want to learn how to endure suffering
• If I want to find out how to raise leaders
• If I want to learn about church planting

Paul would be the perfect guy.

But one of the main reason why I’d like to follow Paul and his example is also because of his next statement in verse 7 where it says.

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished my race and I have kept my faith.”

Because that is exactly what I want to say to my children and my loved ones at the end of my life.

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished my race and I have kept my faith.”

It is important that we all look at our aspirations for life. Would you like to live life in such a manner and leave a legacy for your children and your next generation? Or Are you happy being mediocre? Live life as it comes.

Here’s encouragement from Paul in Colossians 3:1-4 –

“If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is our life appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory.”

Now that we know that Paul is a good example to follow what did Paul mean when he said: “he fought the good fight”?

Firstly, It is a deeply moving affirmation of Paul’s unwavering faith and unyielding love for the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Secondly, it also reminds us that Christian life is a struggle against evil – within ourselves and in the world.

Let me highlight the three broad areas of battle in our Christian life that needs to be won over.

1. The battle to abide in the love of Christ

In John 15:9 Jesus says “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.”
How did the Father love?

John 3:16 – For God the Father so loved the world that he gave his one and only son Jesus, to die for us, on our behalf, for the penalty of our sins, so that whoever believes in him will not perish in hell but have eternal life in heaven.

Abiding also means enduring – to remain. The original Hebrew meaning says “to hold on.”

Jesus is saying “hold on to my love.”

Brothers & sisters, holding on to Christ’s love is a battle, and we have to hang on to it at all times

… whether in pain and suffering
… joy and happiness
… riches or poverty
… good health or bad health
… job or no job
… life partner or no life partner
… in guilt, in condemnation, in being insulted
… Also when we are highly exalted by men

Whatever situation you can think of – Abiding or Holding on to Christ’s love is one of the greatest challenges of living a Christian life.

The enemy will do anything to kick you out from the place of ‘abiding in the love of Christ.’
And that is why we need to daily and continuously remind ourselves the gospel.

The second area of battle that we need to find victory is

2. The battle to walk in obedience to God’s word

The following verse in John 15, verse 10 Jesus says “ If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.”

Obedience to God’s word proves our love for Him, demonstrates our faithfulness to Him, glorifies Him in the world, and opens avenues of spiritual blessing for us.

When we obey God’s word, we can live a life of joy, without shame, rooted deeply in the Lord and confident in our eternal hope.

And most importantly – When we obey God’s word, God is glorified.

The enemy would never want us to live this kind of life and therefore

… he will convince you that reading and meditating God’s word is boring
… he will distract you with every possible hindrance to keep you from reading your bible
… he will cloud your mind with worldly worries and won’t allow you to see the truths of life
… he will fill your minds with doubts to stop you from applying and walking in God’s word
… he will disengage you from making radical decisions for your life when God’s word inspires you

He will use our own people against us … our family, our friends, our near and dear ones.
But, we have to fight … Paul says it’s a good fight. It builds us, makes us mature in our faith.

The third area of battle is

3. The battle to disconnect ourselves from the world

James 4:4 – Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.

One of the significant progress that needs to happen to us as we grow in our Christian life is to see the world as it is described in the God’s word.

In 1 John 2:17 John writes don’t you know that “the world and its desires are fading away, along with everything that people crave”

The world and its desires are the enemies of God; everything people crave for, everything that some of our parents told was important in life, the money, the possession, a house, accumulating wealth, accumulating treasures, accumulating shares, accumulating mutual funds .. are enemies of God.

I am so sorry to disappoint you … But this is what Gods word means when it talks about the world and the things of this world.

… the more you are in love with the world, the less you are in love with Christ.
… the more you desire the things of the world, the less your desire for the things of God.
… the more you hold on to the world, the lesser your grip on heavenly things.
… the more you trust your job and business as your provider, the less you trust in God’s provision.
… the more you find your security in your money and your job, the less you trust in God’s sovereignty and abilities.
… the more you rely on your worldly wisdom, the lesser you make of God’s divine wisdom.

“The world is an enemy of God because it takes away His glory.”

It’s a battle, and we have to fight … It’s not going to be easy on us … People will mock at us … Make fun of us … Rebuke us … Throw stones at us …

But we have to finish the race with perseverance, boldness, and with a never give-up attitude – Holding on to our faith just as we did when we first gave our lives to Christ Jesus.

And when we are on our deathbed we will be able to look into the eyes of our loved ones as say “I fought the good fight, I finished the race and I kept my faith.”

The greatest reward will be to receive the crown of righteousness from our good Lord as Paul describes in verse 8.

“Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing.”

As I conclude, I want to encourage you to make much of your life as a follower of Christ. Fight the good fight of abiding in Christ’s love, walking in obedience to his word and separating yourselves from the world and all its desires.

The historical context to this passage is that this is the last recorded instruction that Paul gives Timothy before his execution. We know that Paul is alone in a cold dungeon and these are the final commands for his close friend and disciple in the Lord. He has spoken a lot about suffering in this whole letter.

What marked and highlighted Paul’s life and ministry after he believed in Jesus was not a bed of roses but suffering and persecution. However, this emphasis on suffering was meant to encourage Timothy and the church and also remind them that suffering is proof that we are truly believers.

Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted. (2 Tim 3:12)

The immediate context tells us about the importance and value of Scripture which we learnt last week (full sermon):

1. Scripture makes us wise for salvation through Christ Jesus. Please note the phrase “through faith in Christ Jesus” because we can study and learn Scripture without resulting in salvation if we don’t trust in Jesus. That was the issue with the Pharisees
2. Scripture is breathed out by God. The imagery is like God breathing life into Adam when he created him. Scripture isn’t just words or a story but life-giving because God breathes life into it
3. Scripture benefits us for instruction, conviction, restoration to an upright state and also training us in being righteous so that believers can be perfect and equipped for every good work. Do note how good work is a result of being rooted and built up in God’s Word.

Scripture is so important and precious!

Coming to today’s passage:

I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead, and by his appearing and his kingdom: 2 preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 3 For the time is coming when people will not endure sound [a] teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, 4 and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.

Paul starts out by earnestly testifying before the eyes of God and Christ Jesus. It’s like he’s in the holy courts of God and laying this charge on Timothy. We know this is a serious command because he’s involving God the Father and the Son in this! Paul also reminds us how Jesus is the judge of those who are alive and those who are dead! On this earth I think we would be fearful of a Supreme Court judge who can pronounce a life sentence for us.

How much more authority does Jesus have to not only judge the living but also the dead! He also reminds us through the first verse that Jesus’ coming is certain and he’ll appear with his royal power! His first coming was in a humble manger, his second coming will be as a victorious King! Few passages in the NT that talk about Jesus being the judge:

42 And he commanded us to preach to the people and to testify that he is the one appointed by God to be judge of the living and the dead. (Acts 10:42)

because he has fixed a day on which he will judge the world in righteousness by a man whom he has appointed; and of this he has given assurance to all by raising him from the dead. (Acts 17:31)

For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil. (2 Cor 5:10)

If there’s something we can gather from this first verse…it’s this what’s going to follow is a very serious command that needs to be paid attention to!

The Command to Preach the Word

What’s the command?

Preach the Word! Why does he say preach the Word? Out of all the things he could’ve said to him, why does he focus on preaching the Word?

Let’s first define what “preaching” means. Preaching is the exaltation of God by declaring what He says in the Bible. It’s a little different from teaching because teaching is the explanation of Scripture. Looking at Scripture, breaking down what it means, interpreting and applying it would be teaching.

Although preaching involves teaching (the process above), it’s more than that! It’s the public cry and heralding of Scripture! I like the way John Piper puts it…to paraphrase he says that the preacher praises and rejoices in God as he declared the Scriptures with conviction.

Now that we know what preaching means…let’s get back to the question: why does he focus on preaching the Word out of all that he could tell him?

It’s not just because preaching was Timothy’s gifting. Context is key here:

The context is about the authority and sufficiency of God’s Word which is able to make believers grow up in salvation (2 Tim 3:15, 16)

I believe what Paul is pointing toward is something more significant. The reason why so much of emphasis was on the Word of God earlier leading to this command on preaching the Word is because God speaks to His people through the pure preaching of the Word.

Right from Genesis we see how God communicates to the people He made. God spoke and created the universe with His Word. He also spoke to man and woman after creating them. So God created man in his own image,

in the image of God he created him;

male and female he created them.

28 And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” (Gen 1:27, 28)

After the fall, God didn’t stop speaking to His people. He continued to speak to them through commandments, the Law and the prophets. His final and clearest revelation of Himself came through Jesus.

Long ago, at many times and in many ways, God spoke to our fathers by the prophets, 2 but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world. (Heb 1:1-2)

And we know and understand Jesus through the written Word of God because all of Scripture points to Him. (John 5:39) So I’m not saying that God has stopped prophecies but if you are relying on prophecies or experiences more than what God says in the written Word, then you are in a sense saying that God’s Word is incomplete and insufficient for us.

We are saying then that “we need something additional than the written Word to guide our spiritual life”. That’s not the case as we’ve read in 2 Tim 3:15,16.

Therefore, it is in God’s nature to speak to His people! But His revelation of Himself comes through the preaching of the Word. Because if Scripture is read, interpreted and applied correctly, then the people aren’t listening to a message but listening to God! Which is why it is a serious thing.

Long ago, at many times and in many ways, God spoke to our fathers by the prophets, 2 but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world. (1 Thes 2:13)

That’s why for 2000 years since the establishment of the church, God’s church has gathered in local bodies all across the world on the Lord’s day to do one important thing – listen to the preached Word!

Now you might say, does God only speak through the preacher on a Sunday morning? No, God speaks to every believer through the Spirit when they read the Bible daily.

3 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come. 14 He will glorify me, for he will take what is mine and declare it to you. (John 16:13, 14)

We see how the Holy Spirit illuminates our hearts to understand God’s Word ourselves.

However, there is a growing trend in some churches where they think that the preaching of God’s Word is not relevant anymore. “It’s too old fashioned – now people need new methods of communication – skits, videos and group discussions” is what they would say.

Now all of these things are useful but how do you compare it with 2 Tim 4? Why are we redesigning God’s way of speaking to His people? And another question we can ask is why would Christ “gift” the church with pastors and teachers if every believer could manage without the preaching of Scripture?

That’s why it is a serious thing to preach the Word!

The Need for the Preached Word

I also find it interesting that in the next sentence, Paul encourages Timothy to be prepared “in season, out of season”. He’s telling him “you need to be prepared to preach when it’s convenient and also when it’s not convenient”. Why? Not just because it’s his job and Paul wants to encourage him to do it well. It’s because that’s ultimately what the flock of Christ requires. The sweet and precious words of Jesus. Not activities, events, healing conferences, all night worship sessions.

All these things are not bad but we need to remind ourselves that what we really require is the pure preaching of the Word. My desire is that 50 years down the line, if by God’s grace the Gathering grows as a church, that it will still be about preaching, hearing and obeying God’s Word. If you remember Jesus’ words to Peter after His resurrection.

15 When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” 16 He said to him a second time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” 17 He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” and he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep”. (John 21:15-17)

His flock need the Word more than anything!

The Goal of the Preached Word

Let’s come to the goal of preaching. Paul uses 3 words to sum up what preaching should do and how a preacher should do it.

It should reprove (convict people of sin), rebuke (admonish the sin), exhort (invite people to respond, instructing and consoling their hearts) with the Word. The way to do it is with complete patience and teaching. Not passing judgments on them.

Sunday morning is not the place where pastors let out their frustration on the congregation. Preachers admonish the church with gentleness acknowledging that they themselves are sinners who have been saved by grace and require grace each and every day. So there is that humility and also the aspect of “teaching” people to not remain in sin but stand up and walk in faith.

But think about it. If the content of a sermon is filled with reproof, rebuke and instruction – it’s not going to be very comfortable to listen to. We don’t like it because in our sin we don’t want to be exposed and told that we are wrong. This brings us to v3-4.

3 For the time is coming when people will not endure sound[a] teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, 4 and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.

The heart to receive the Preached Word

That’s why many hop from church to church because they don’t like certain things that the pastor taught. There might be a few genuine cases where the doctrine is wrong but in my experience of talking to some people….is that people want a pastor who says what they want to hear. This is a dangerous path to tread on.

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? (Jer 17:9)

I don’t want to trust and follow my heart when it comes to listening to what I want to hear because of Jer 17:9. In v3-4, the focus shifts from the preacher to the listener.

Ask yourself this question. When you come to a Sunday Gathering, what do you expect or desire from the message?

1. Is it entertainment? Jokes and great stories from the preacher?
2. Is it motivational and inspiring stuff? Things to inspire you to be better
3. Is it the glamour of the pastor?
4. Is it to judge and critique the pastor?

Or is it like Samuel said “Speak Lord, your servant is listening”. If it’s not to listen, receive and obey God’s Word, then pretty soon you’ll grow bored of one pastor and go to another pastor who will tell you what you want to hear. The issue is that you’ll eventually not want to hear God’s truth but be satisfied with lies and deception. Gradually you’ll wander away from the faith. That’s what is at stake.

What I’m trying to say is that the heart you bring on a Sunday matters. The ears you bring to the Gathering on a Sunday matters. I’m not talking about your physical heart or ear but to humbly bring yourself to Jesus on a Sunday morning.

It might be a hard truth to listen to because God will be exposing a sin and bringing it to light through the Word. But remember that Christ Himself humbled and took on the punishment for these filthy sins.

He died so that we didn’t have to die to sin! I would much rather listen to my Savior who loved me, died for me and saved me than anything else.

Here are few things that we can do to apply this passage today:

1. Value the Word of God highly with utmost importance. Let this be your treasure, your food and your comfort. Why? Because you get to know Jesus through the Word. Build your appetite through the week
2. Pray for your elders who preach the Word. Pray that their hearts are right before God and they interpret and apply the Scripture exactly as God wants it
3. Prepare your hearts throughout the week especially on a Saturday so that you might hear from God through the preached Word.

Today’s sermon passage is from 2 Timothy 3:10-17

The passage begins with Paul giving a window into his life and ministry. What is interesting to me is the contrast he brings when compared to how we see our leaders today and how they present themselves to us in today’s generation.

“Follow what I say but don’t follow what I do” is the philosophy of most leaders in our generation. But Paul, on the other hand, is presenting to us a more scriptural perspective on how a leader should be.

Paul’s ideology is to live an open life which others can visibly see and imitate.

He boldly and confidently says in 1 Cor 11:1 he says “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”

In our passage from 2 Timothy chapter 3 verse 10, in connection with his statement in 1 Cor 11:1 of following his example he is now giving us more precise & detailed picture to what extent he has opened his life so people can see and imitate.

He says in verse 10 “You, however, have followed my teaching, my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my steadfastness, my persecutions, and sufferings.”

As a leader myself, I wonder if my own life is transparent as Paul and these verses enlighten me to see and understand what it takes to be a real Christian leader who wants to bring about a godly impact in the life of his followers.

But why only limit it to the leaders. I believe this principle should be true of every Christian because the extension of Gods kingdom will not just come about with our wisely crafted words of knowledge but it will come about with a LIFE that speaks louder than words, one that is consistent and truthful to the scriptures.

In the light of these verses, I want to encourage all of us to think deeply about our own lives. How do we live our lives?

Are our actions and conduct inconsistent to what we otherwise teach and preach to our people?

As a parent are we trying to teach godly values to our children which we our selves fail to keep them?

As husbands, do we expect our wives to behave in a certain way even though we act and live differently outside of our homes?

As managers and people in authority do we ask people to do things that we our selves fail at doing?

As Christians, the most important purpose of our lives is to participate in the larger purpose of what God is already doing in this world, and that is reaching out to the lost with the gospel of Jesus. Most people in our families, lost people in our neighborhood, and the lost people in our workplace, etc.

It’s time that we realize that more than our words it is our lives that speaks leaps and bounds into the life of an unbeliever.

• The way in which we conduct ourselves
• The aim of our life & the goals we set for our selves
• The way we live out our faith
• The way we love, forgive and cherish one another
• The way we show patience when things delay

But more so in the way we endure sufferings and persecutions for the sake of righteousness.

In the rest of the passage from 2 Timothy 3 that is what Paul goes onto emphasize.

Listen to his words carefully one more time.

“You, however, have followed my teaching, my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my steadfastness, my persecutions and sufferings that happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium, and at Lystra—which persecutions I endured; yet from them all the Lord rescued me.”

Here’s when we get to understand that the context of this passage is the emphasis on PERSECUTION & SUFFERING.

Paul’s instruction to Timothy and other leaders is, not to feel dismayed as they watch him go through persecution & suffering, he says in verse 12 “Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.”

Jesus in Matthew 5:10-12 said

“Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when men revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.”

Some of us sitting here today may wonder whether the statement of Jesus & Paul is right even today or whether it was something that the disciples of Jesus had to endure during that time.Most of us associate the word ‘persecution’ only in regards to physical abuse, but if you look at the definition, you will get to know that it’s more than just physical abuse. The definition of persecution is “hostility and ill-treatment, especially because of race or political or religious beliefs; oppression, persistent annoyance or harassment.”

Most of us associate the word ‘persecution’ only in regards to physical abuse, but if you look at the definition, you will get to know that it’s more than just physical abuse. The definition of persecution is “hostility and ill-treatment, especially because of race or political or religious beliefs; oppression, persistent annoyance or harassment.”So, if you ask me whether as Christians do we still go through persecution in today’s generation, then my answer is YES, we do. The statements of Paul & Jesus is true even today.

The definition of persecution is “hostility and ill-treatment, especially because of race or political or religious beliefs; oppression, persistent annoyance or harassment.”

So, if you ask me whether as Christians do we still go through persecution in today’s generation, then my answer is YES, we do. The statements of Paul & Jesus is true even today.Paul is making that statement by a deep conviction about the nature of Christianity and the nature of the sinfulness of man. The tension between the message and way of life of Christians and the mindset and way of life of the world will always have conflicts.

Paul is making that statement by a deep conviction about the nature of Christianity and the nature of the sinfulness of man. The tension between the message and way of life of Christians and the mindset and way of life of the world will always have conflicts.It is still true today because Sooner or later a deeply God-centered Christian individual will be mistreated for what he believes or the life he lives.

It is still true today because Sooner or later a deeply God-centered Christian individual will be mistreated for what he believes or the life he lives.Jesus said, “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake.” – A Life devoted to righteousness will be persecuted.

Jesus said, “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake.” – A Life devoted to righteousness will be persecuted.Let me present to you the contract

Let me present to you the contract.

In one of the articles written by John Piper called “Blessed are the persecuted” he beautifully shows the contract.

He writes –

We see a life devoted to righteousness or godliness being persecuted or reviled or spoken against because

• If you cherish chastity(which is the state or practice of refraining from extramarital, or especially from all, sexual pleasures), your life will be an attack on people’s love for FREE sex.
• If you embrace temperance, your life will be a statement against the love of alcohol.
• If you pursue self-control, your life will indict excess eating.
• If you live simply and happily, you will show the folly of luxury.
• If you walk humbly with your God, you will expose the evil of pride.
• If you are punctual and thorough in your dealings, you will lay open the inferiority of laziness and negligence.
• And if you are spiritually minded, you will expose the worldly-mindedness of those around you.

An opposite view to what today’s prosperity gospel preachers would preach and say.

The point I’m trying to put across is that all who desire to live a godly life and set an example for others to follow

– as a friend, as a brother, as a sister, as a son, as a daughter, as a neighbor, as a colleague & as a parent – will face persecution in some form or the other – will suffer for the sake of the gospel.

In verse 13 Paul goes onto say “evil people and impostors will go on from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived.” Don’t expect any relief from this position.

So, what’s Paul encouragement to us?

Verse 14 onwards he says

“But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.”

Paul’s encouragement to Timothy is to hold on to the scriptures, the one that makes us wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus – because it is the scriptures that led us to Christ.

It is true that we met Jesus by name in the testimony of a Christian witness, but it was the word of god that gave us spiritual wisdom to recognize him and receive him. The Scriptures prepared our mind and heart to see Jesus for who he is and to believe in him.

Think about it. It is the word of God that daily reminds and reveals our sins; it is the word of God that shows us how holy and majestic God is. It shows us how big the gap is between God and us (Remember the cross chart).

And it is the word of God that leads us to Christ and His sacrifice on the cross that fills the gap and gives us hope and assurance of the eternal life in heaven with Him.

Paul is saying in times of sufferings & persecution don’t walk away from God’s word that brings us to Christ.

In the rest of the passage, he goes onto give us a couple of more reasons as to why we need to hold on to the scriptures.

• It is the very breath of God and therefore it is life-giving.
• It is profitable for teaching us godly ways.
• It brings reproof – convicts us of our sins
• It brings correction – leading us to repentance
• It trains us in righteousness – to continue to do what is right in the sight of God.
• It makes us complete.
• It equips us for good work.

Brothers & sisters, in trying times of our life –

The question I want to ask is how close do we hold onto God’s word that gives life and hope and assurance when we are tested beyond our limits, when we’re questioned about our faith, when we’re ill-treated for our righteous stance?

Do we see Gods word as the most precious and dependable source of strength when people don’t get it when we tell them about the choices we make regarding our job, our preferences, our parenting style, our decisions to move places, when we are laughed at & when we are ridiculed?

Or do we rely on your feelings?

If we rely on our feelings, then we would want to go places where they make us feel good with high tempo music and pep talks which only lasts for a couple of days.

It is only Gods word when put into action that can give us lasting joy and hope.

And when we do that we grow in maturity and our lives become an example to follow and a testimony of Christ’s redeeming work in us.

And just as Paul, even we can boldly say to one another “Follow me as I follow Christ”

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Good morning church! So glad to be a witness to wonderful things God is doing in and through the Gathering. Today we launch our bilingual Gathering and we believe it will help in communicating the gospel in the heart language of many people in the city. Coming to our series, we are reading through 1 Timothy, 2 Timothy and Titus as a church. Currently we are in 2 Timothy and as you all remember, this is Paul’s final letter to Timothy in the New Testament. He is awaiting his execution in a cold dungeon in Rome. He’s sharing final instructions and words of encouragement to his disciple and close friend for many years. Timothy is a pastor of the church at Ephesus. He is still facing a lot of issues with the false teachers out there. That is the context of this passage. This passage specifically describes the sins of these false teachers. Let’s turn to this week’s passage:

[1] But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. [2] For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, [3] heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, [4] treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, [5] having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. [6] For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, [7] always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. [8] Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. [9] But they will not get very far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men.

I was really encouraged by last week’s sermon on fleeing from youthful passions and pursuing righteousness, faith, love and peace along with those who call upon the Lord with a pure heart. As young people who are looking to live out our faith, we must hold fast to this verse (2 Tim 2:22). Let it be reminded time and time again because this is what we have been called to and this is what truly gives life. So if you missed on last week’s sermon, I’d recommend you to listen/read (link) it on the Gathering website.

Coming to this passage, I want us all to think and ponder on why does Scripture speak so much on identifying false teachers. Why couldn’t it just be a chapter on it? Why emphasize so much on it as we’ve read through these letters? And what’s the heart or the root behind false teaching? Can you and I also be influenced by false teaching? We’ll address these questions and more in today’s sermon.

V1 starts with But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty.

Whenever you notice the word “But”, it always means a contrast. What is this passage being contrasted with? The previous passages talk about being a gospel worker, it talks about right teaching, it talks about fleeing from youthful passions and pursuing Christ…right living, and also how to correct opponents gently. This is contrasted with the description in today’s passage. Paul says “But understand this”. It seems like he is saying “Don’t be surprised! Mark my words in the last days you are going to face a lot of trouble from these false teachers”. Which last days is he talking about? In the bible, the last days began when the Spirit poured out on the believers in Acts 2 fulfilling the prophecy of Joel. So since the day of Pentecost, we have been in the “last days”…and it will continue until Christ returns.

That brings me to an important question, why does Paul think it’s important to repeat and re-iterate about false teachers?

1. Obvious reason is that it was a current issue within the church at Ephesus.

2. Church leaders and members cannot overlook or ignore the reality of false teachers in the church.

Acts 20:28-31 : [28] Pay careful attention to yourselves and to all the flock, in which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to care for the church of God,[e] which he obtained with his own blood.[f] [29] I know that after my departure fierce wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock; [30] and from among your own selves will arise men speaking twisted things, to draw away the disciples after them. [31] Therefore be alert, remembering that for three years I did not cease night or day to admonish every one with tears.

Sometimes we think that the best way to not get into controversy is ignoring controversial people. We think “why to be concerned about someone else? Let’s be focused in what we need to do and let other people do what they want to do”. That’s not what the Bible teaches us. We need to deal with false teaching straight up. For three years, Paul warned the elders at Ephesus regarding false teachers. It’s almost as if he is saying that it is inevitable. It is going to happen.

3. Paul was passionate about Christ and His church.

Paul was deeply in love with Jesus and knew the love Christ had for the church. He loved the church so much that He gave himself up for her so that he might cleanse her and present the church to himself in all splendor without spot or wrinkle, holy and without blemish. Because Paul loved Christ and the church, he couldn’t stand the fact that wrong things were being taught about Jesus. It’s like a person trying to cause a fight between a married couple by telling each of them wrong stuff about each other. If you were a close friend of the married couple, you would get worked up and would feel the need to confront that person for trying to cause issues in their marriage.

So we understand how important it is to identify and also be alert regarding false teachers so that you can guard your hearts from it!

He then goes on to describe these teachers:

[2] For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, [3] heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, [4] treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, [5] having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. [6] For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, [7] always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. [8] Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. [9] But they will not get very far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men.

Lets look at the descriptions in detail. These people would be:

• Lovers of self: selfish, only concerned about their own interests, what can other people do for them, thinking about themselves all day long
• Lovers of money: They love money, constantly they think about how can they get more money, they lose their mind and sleep over having lack of money or wanting more money, money controls every decision they make
• Proud: someone who boasts a lot, they keep bragging about what they have, what they’ve done and what they know. They keep talking big things even if they don’t have proper knowledge of certain things
• Arrogant: They feel superiority to others, look down on other people and treat them without respect, they think they are more important and deserve more importance than others
• Abusive: Immoral, sinful and ungodly things are uttered out of their mouths. They don’t even speak of God with reverence
• Disobedient to parents: They do not submit or obey parents that God has placed over them. Throughout the Bible, obedience to parents is considered important to God. That’s why it’s also one of the Ten Commandments. Culture might think that it’s not important but it is important to God and therefore is absolutely important for us too!
• Ungrateful: We might not think of this as sin, but not being thankful to God is counted as one of the sins in the Bible! When is a person usually ungrateful? When he feels entitled, he feels that he deserve everything that he has. Or a person feels ungrateful when he expects more than what already has. This doesn’t glorify God because it views God’s gifts and actions towards us as unworthy and useless which is not the case
• Unholy: wicked attitudes and wicked actions
• Heartless: They are hard hearted and unloving. Unloving toward God and unloving toward people
• Unappeasable: You can never convince this person to stop fighting and to be peaceful, unending fights
• Slanderous: Falsely accuse someone, it can be about God or man
• Without self control: No self restraint, you do whatever you feel like doing at the moment, your impulses control you
• Brutal: Violent, fierce and aggressive
• Not loving good: They oppose anything that is good or anyone that is good
• Treacherous: betraying someone
• Reckless: rash in your actions or decision making
• Swollen with conceit: Being blinded by pride
• Lovers of pleasure: Their goal in life is to pursue pleasure for themselves. So they’ll go to any extent to receive pleasure. They think that it doesn’t matter how immoral the thought or the action is…as long as you receive pleasure!
• They have an appearance of godliness but deny its power: When you look at them or talk to them you may think that they are spiritual but it’s only external. Their lives lack the transforming power of the Spirit because they refuse to change.

These false teachers have their lives characterized by these sins above. They are known for these sins. However, I don’t think any of us can look at this list and claim to not have sinned in any of these areas. All of us if we are being totally honest will admit to struggle in one or more of these areas. That’s why I want all of us to pay careful attention to the next part!

We are now delving into the root cause of false teaching. If you see here, the list starts with lovers of self, lovers of money and ends with lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God. The real issue here is misplaced love!

[18] For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. [19] For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. [20] For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world,[g] in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. [21] For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. [22] Claiming to be wise, they became fools, [23] and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things. (Rom 1:18-23)

When we read this passage, we see how the issue in human history has always been about misplaced love. The reason why God’s wrath is revealed against us is because even though we’ve seen and experienced the love of God in creating us and sustaining us and providing us with this beautiful world to live in and displaying His greatness in His creation, we still love created things rather than Creator God!

When Adam and Eve were created, they were created with the purpose to love and honor God. The devil told them to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Satan told them that if they ate it they would become like God! At that moment they had to chose to either “love God” or “love themselves”. They chose to “love themselves” and all of humanity and creation fell into sin and destruction! Misplaced love!

After Genesis, you see the story of the Israelites in their relationship with God and you see misplaced love. Time and time again God rescues them and loves on them and provides for them but they keep running after idols and false gods made of metal and stone. The pagan nations around them would worship idols. Israelites even after seeing God perform astonishing miracles before their eyes, chose to love “idols” rather than “Almighty God”. Misplaced love.

And we come to our present age and we love other gods in our lives. In our hearts, we build special shrines for these idols:

• Social Media Idol: We say things like “I’m addicted to social media” but don’t admit that we love seeing ourselves get all the attention. We don’t admit that Facebook is probably the first thing we look up each day and the last thing we say good night to each night
• Entertainment Idol: And this is something I confess…is looking at entertainment as a way to self-medicate you from the issues of your life
• Work Idol: I must perform better at work in order to have my self-worth
• Family and friends Idol: Both family and friends are good things and God desires that we cherish these relationships. However, these are not meant to be substitutes for God in your life. Would you lose all reason to live if your friends and family aren’t around you? Is your happiness motivated by the circle of family-friends present with you?
• Pleasure Idol: In order to feel loved you gravitate toward seeking pleasure for yourself. Your decisions and actions are motivated by your pleasures. You look at your pleasure and you look at Jesus and your pleasures seem more sweeter and better!

And you don’t need to be a psychologist to figure what your idols are. Whatever you end up thinking most of the time or whatever you end up talking about most of the time is your idol. And it is your idol because you have greater affections for these things than Jesus. You love them more than God! You may look at this and be like “what’s the big deal? Why does God have to be so upset over me loving other people or things rather than him?”

How would you feel if your spouse goes around with other partners? You would be furious! Why? Because you know you belong to each other and this is an exclusive relationship that cannot be shared. Let’s look at us going after our idols as spiritual adultery! In fact, our sin idols ruined us and left us severely bruised. In OT, adulterers would be stoned and publicly humiliated. The punishment we deserved for our spiritual adultery was the wrath of God. But God sent His only Son Jesus to buy us out by giving up his own life. The most precious gift that could have been given was given to rescue us from the penalty of sin, death and Satan! Do you see the love that God has for you?

In the light of God’s amazing love for you, how do you show your love for Jesus?

1) You express your love by sacrifice.

Whenever we think about love in today’s age, we always think about love in terms of a feeling or an emotion. Biblical love is much more than that. In John 3:16, we see God the Father loving the world so much that he “gave” his most precious gift to save us. We can show our love for Jesus by giving something that’s really costly to us. The control and authority of your life is most important, wouldn’t you agree? Maybe you’ve been holding onto it for so many years, would you give it to Jesus because you love him more?

2) You express your love loving one another.

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. (John 13:34)

As God’s church and family, God doesn’t want us to be consumers but imitators. The same love Christ pours out to us, we bend it outwards to each other in God’s family. Interestingly the verse says “just as Jesus loved us, we ought to love one another”. It’s the same sacrificial love we are display to each other. Look for ways to know the other members in this family, find out how you can serve them, think about ways where you can share your life with them.

3) You express your love through obedience.

[15] “If you love me, you will keep my commandments”. (John 14:15)

[21] Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.” (John 14:21)

See there is a difference between obeying the commands of Jesus to “show people” that you love Him and obeying the commands of Jesus “out of” your love for Him. You can obey the commands just because those are the right things a Christian should do. Or you can obey the commands of Jesus because you are deeply in love with Jesus. Which do you think glorifies Christ and honors Him?

The truth is you will listen and obey the person whom you truly value and treasure in your heart. If you don’t value a person, you might still do it out of obligation but not willingly and gladly. So ask yourself today, how valuable is Jesus to you today? Is he so valuable and so important that everything he says you want to do? Or is he just like someone you like listening to when you feel like?

Another question I would like to put in front of you for reflection, think about some sin that you struggle with. Maybe 8 out 10 times when you are tempted, you fall into it. Your habits, patterns, thoughts are driven by this temptation because its hard. Would you consider asking yourself the next time you are tempted “Do I love Christ more or this sin?” Your desire and will to trust Christ and obey him during moments of extreme temptation and testing makes Him look big and precious!